Deepest Darkest Secret your spouse/partner doesn't know!!!

Yeah some nights it was fun getting dropped off by a man I was calling my boyfriend to go into my room where a naked man was waiting. Just have to try and avoid that drama stage.

Two years before I met my wife, I had nasty little one night stand with an older woman I met at a party I was 32 at the time she was in her late forties, hot AF and twice as wild.. Several months into dating my wife I stopped by her work to take her to lunch where she introduced me to her supervisor and...yup.

I could tell she recognized me right away, but simply smiled and said nice to meet you, and I managed to do the same because she put me more at ease that it seemed she didn't want to make anything of it. My wife worked there for another year before changing careers, and I admit to feeling some relief when she did wwwabecause part of me always worried her boss would say something.

Where do I sign up for this pleasure? 😜

I have 3 by request. 2 from the couple. 1 from the wife alone….

The current Ms doesn’t know
 
Well that I have hide the real me from her for 33 years, I am a sissy that would love to be a women, I have dressed up since I was 6 and would love to see a real man satisfy her like I know I can not do. And wish she would except this side of me and help futher my feminization and we can share men together..
 
Well that I have hide the real me from her for 33 years, I am a sissy that would love to be a women, I have dressed up since I was 6 and would love to see a real man satisfy her like I know I can not do. And wish she would except this side of me and help futher my feminization and we can share men together..
Good luck😕!
 
My boyfriend has no idea how many guys I've had sex with before. I have no idea either. From the ages of 17-22, I was basically a frat mattress. When we talked about past sexual experiences, I mislead him by saying I've only had 5 serious boyfriends (which is true). The implication was that I have only had sex with serious boyfriends, and this is definitely not true.
My wife always said she was promiscuous before we met and it didn't bother me at all, but we never discussed her. A few years ago she told some strangers in front of me that her number was "in the triple digits". Blew my mind, didn't bother me but holy shit!!! Of course I was too shy to ask her about it - both the number and why she said it in front of other people. Unfortunately discussing sex is a problem we both have.
 
My wife always said she was promiscuous before we met and it didn't bother me at all, but we never discussed her. A few years ago she told some strangers in front of me that her number was "in the triple digits". Blew my mind, didn't bother me but holy shit!!! Of course I was too shy to ask her about it - both the number and why she said it in front of other people. Unfortunately discussing sex is a problem we both have.
Wow!
So just ask her. If it's something you honestly want to know, ask it. But be prepared for the answer, and don't judge her negatively for whatever she says (you kinda already know, so that should be easy...). I firmly believe communication is key in long term relationships...
 
Wow!
So just ask her. If it's something you honestly want to know, ask it. But be prepared for the answer, and don't judge her negatively for whatever she says (you kinda already know, so that should be easy...). I firmly believe communication is key in long term relationships...
We're kinda of in a weird state right now. No sexual relationship since she had an affair then I had my prostate removed 4 years ago and can only get a half boner (not sure if I could penetrate). I wouldn't judge her negatively if we ever do discuss it - if we ever get back on that track there are a lot of things I want to ask. Her number really turns me on, I just wish I could have taken advantage of that "sluttiness" back then. This is a woman who claims she's too shy to TALK about sex or express fantasies but was ok with banging more than 100 guys lol. Yes, I know communication is our big issue.
 
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