Deep Throat

[ktroxel]

So I have finally got my nerve up to ask: Can anyone give me advise on how to give a good blow job and what special "thing" does one do to take a guys penis down your throat?

I have been having an affair for over a year and my lover really likes to receive blow jobs (REALLY LIKES THEM). My problem is that years ago my soon-to-be-ex husband told me that I wasn't good at it, so he never wanted me to go down on him. I would like to give my lover a blow job to make him cum, but I start gagging when it goes down my throat and (he being the nice guy that he is) stops me.

Any and all advise is appreciated.

 

[Guest]

Best Advice

Best Advice I can give is to read up on it...as much as you can..there are manyy good "how to do" sections in Literotica. And remember not all men are the same..so if one did not apperciate it does not mean another will not either. Enjoy and go slow. There is no wrong way of giving a blow job.

Happy Sucking

Advicer

 

[tonytuna1957]

ktroxel

I agree with Best Advise......read up about it....and thier is now wrong way to give a blow job........You know what I say.........
try, try, again..............


Merry Christmas

The Breast Man

 

[pdx39]

One way to do it

I suggest you lick and suck on his balls if you want him to shudder and shoot a fat load. Nothing sets me off like having my balls worked over does.

 

[Lady Damona]

In addition to some reading/research. . .ask your lover what HE likes. If he is truly a nice guy he won't mind helping you learn. Of course, as with anything, practice makes perfect (or close to it). . .
I, for one, like to practice.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

Well try this....

Give your lover your index finger and have him show you by sucking on your finger what he likes while you do the same to his cock. When you do something that he really likes he will do it over and over and over. This will also help you with tempo. Also try to do it from a position that allows you to look at him. Finaly relax and just enjoy it take as much or as little as you are comfortable with. Good luck and please let us know how it goes!

Holden

 

[SilverVeil]

If the gagging is due to having something that far into your mouth for a long period of time, I suggest alternating between, licking up and down the shaft, making sure to work on his cock head a lot, especially on the underside of it. I have noticed a lot of men really get off on that. Take a little break from the mouth and use some flavored oil and use your hand too. When you go back to using your mouth, his cock will have some yummy flavor to it.

 

[scoperella]

I might not have all that much experience but what I have learned....
deep throating isn't all that important. Lick around the base of his cock a lot if you can't suck that much of him. Wrap your hand around the base and go to work on the rest with your mouth ... that should make it a much more manageable size. And most importantly ... use your hand!!! I can suck my boyfriend for an hour and he won't cum ... I can suck him for 5 minutes, spank him for 3 and he's done. Really, just try to enjoy it. A guy can tell when you're dutifully doing it and when you really want him to be happy. Try talking to him "do you like this?", "how does this feel?", "what do you want me to do?", etc. Find out what he wants and likes. Good luck & happy blowing!

 

[NightFlyer14]

Good advice scoperella... I have to say that a girl who can give me good head doesn't need to be able to deep throat. To be honest, so long as she is enjoying herself too then that is a turn on for me. I don't particularly like the idea of a girlfriend gagging on my cock, I'd much prefer her to just suck on as much as she is comfortable with, and use her hand for the rest.

 

[J.B.]

it's all in the throat

Not that I'm a major expert on the subject, but you might want to try & loosen up your throat muscles a bit... I don't know how this'll sound but see if you can stand swallowing ice-cubes whole first... start out small & work your way to larger pices that's how I got my thoat to get used to the sensation (& it kind of gives you a little kick- if you know what I mean) try licking the eges soft first so that you don't hurt your self in the begining...