Dear X

[kendra1980]

Dear Bra Designer/Manufacturer,

Please remember that even women who are bigger than a C cup want cute comfortable bras. Just because I wear a DD doesn't mean I want to look like a granny. Yes, I need larger shoulder straps. That doesn't mean it has to look like something my grandmother would wear. I would love to see both comfy and sexy. I'm super happy to have 3 new comfy bras...but they're a little dull.

You're help in this matter would be appreciated.

Fantasie, Freya, Panache, and Felina all make bras in DD cups that are pretty, and don't have honking shoulder straps.

My cousin has the same problem, and these companies made it ok for her

good luck.

 

[janeyl]

Dear Bra Designer/Manufacturer,

Please remember that even women who are bigger than a C cup want cute comfortable bras. Just because I wear a DD doesn't mean I want to look like a granny. Yes, I need larger shoulder straps. That doesn't mean it has to look like something my grandmother would wear. I would love to see both comfy and sexy. I'm super happy to have 3 new comfy bras...but they're a little dull.

You're help in this matter would be appreciated.

Fantasie, Freya, Panache, and Felina all make bras in DD cups that are pretty, and don't have honking shoulder straps.

My cousin has the same problem, and these companies made it ok for her

good luck.

One word....Bravissimo!! they do all the brands K just mentioned and some others too and have just branched out into clothes cut especially for curvier women-I bought 2 dresses that look outstanding-(I'm so modest)while on my holidays and want a coat-they're a little pricey but fabulous and I'm sure they post to the US

Jane

 

[kendra1980]

One word....Bravissimo!! they do all the brands K just mentioned and some others too and have just branched out into clothes cut especially for curvier women-I bought 2 dresses that look outstanding-(I'm so modest)while on my holidays and want a coat-they're a little pricey but fabulous and I'm sure they post to the US

Jane

Better yet, get fitted and buy new with tags on eBay! Costs a lot less, and they are new.

I'm a 36C so I don't have much trouble finding pretty bras, but I know my cousin was very pleased to find these companies. I love my sheer freya bras. Sooo girly and pretty.

 

[janeyl]

Better yet, get fitted and buy new with tags on eBay! Costs a lot less, and they are new.

I'm a 36C so I don't have much trouble finding pretty bras, but I know my cousin was very pleased to find these companies. I love my sheer freya bras. Sooo girly and pretty.

ooooh crafty! Doesn't work for me though babe-I have to try-bought 3 bras recently-38DD, 38E and 40F all fitted perfectly just different manufacturers

I've never got the ebay habit-somehow I can't seem to find anything-it's all too overwhelming

They are gorgoeus and I happen to have seen a black satin corset for the monkey to buy me for Christmas-he's going to love it

 

[red_lynn]

ooooh crafty! Doesn't work for me though babe-I have to try-bought 3 bras recently-38DD, 38E and 40F all fitted perfectly just different manufacturers

I've never got the ebay habit-somehow I can't seem to find anything-it's all too overwhelming

They are gorgoeus and I happen to have seen a black satin corset for the monkey to buy me for Christmas-he's going to love it

Bingo! I have to try them on since every manufacturer has different sizing so far. I can end up with anything from a generous C to DDD. So annoying since I really love e-bay. I went to the garment district in Los Angeles last week and was able to find the 3 I got. I need the nice padded straps, or I end up with nasty headaches from the strap pressure. Kind of rules out the cute ones.

Which stores carry those brands? I'm in the Seattle area.

 

[flirtygirly]

Dear Stupid Ex:

Where shall I start!!??! No the divorce is not final...but still I AM NO LONGER YOURS. I'm not your concern. I chose my sanity and well-being over the bullshit you were putting me thru. And now that you can see I'm moving on...you're trying to convince me to give you one more chance. I've given you more chances than cat's have lives.

Yes we do have a beautiful baby girl. I will not keep her from you. But do not use her against me either.

Since I am no longer yours (which I feel I must re-iterate), it's none of your fucking business if I am going out, meeting guys, hooking up, fucking around or whatever else your imagination comes up with. If you had really cared about me, things wouldn't be where they are today.

For the longest time (years) you were a selfish mother fucker. Now it's my turn...so fucking get used to it and spare me the tears. I do not love you. I could never love you like I used to. I deserve and want more...lots more. So it's my turn to be selfish, and get what I want, when I want, however I want it.

And quite honestly, it's an effort to have a conversation with you. I tolerate you, and am cordial with you because of the baby. I would rather not...but that's not an option.

I'd really like to tell you to fuck off and leave me alone. But that's not me...or is it? Guess we'll wait and see...

I won't be losing sleep over you ever again...I'll be dreaming of fucking someone else...or cybering and cumming with someone else online.

Fuck you, you stupid asshole.

 

[frostyred]

Dear New Neighbor,

Welcome to the building. I'm sure you will love it here as much as the rest of us do. Please find enclosed, a tall glass of shut-the-fuck-up. Drink it now, noisy bitch!

Have A Lovely Day,

frosty

 

[AnonymousRendezvous]

Dear New Neighbor,

Welcome to the building. I'm sure you will love it here as much as the rest of us do. Please find enclosed, a tall glass of shut-the-fuck-up. Drink it now, noisy bitch!

Have A Lovely Day,

frosty

Dear Frosty,

But I like listening to Choral music in Latin at ten thirty at night. I'm sorry if you have to sleep, but I need mood music.

Sincerely,

Probably not your neighbor but feeling guilty anyway.

 

[msmaggie]

Fantasie, Freya, Panache, and Felina all make bras in DD cups that are pretty, and don't have honking shoulder straps.

My cousin has the same problem, and these companies made it ok for her

good luck.

One word....Bravissimo!! they do all the brands K just mentioned and some others too and have just branched out into clothes cut especially for curvier women-I bought 2 dresses that look outstanding-(I'm so modest)while on my holidays and want a coat-they're a little pricey but fabulous and I'm sure they post to the US

Jane

Better yet, get fitted and buy new with tags on eBay! Costs a lot less, and they are new.

oooh thank you ladies...I sometimes can find my size at TJMaaxx..the one in my AV for instance, but it's rare. I'll be checking those other brands out! And then ebay!...

 

[janeyl]

Bingo! I have to try them on since every manufacturer has different sizing so far. I can end up with anything from a generous C to DDD. So annoying since I really love e-bay. I went to the garment district in Los Angeles last week and was able to find the 3 I got. I
Which stores carry those brands? I'm in the Seattle area.

Darling I'm sorry I have no idea I'm in the UK hence recommending the online store

The last ones I bought were Gossard and Charnos which I know is a UK company because my ex used to work for them-I'm sure they sell internationally though-I also have the luxury of good old Marks and Spencers where they do all the prodding and poking you desire!Although they have unfortunately gone too far for the moulded or padded cups which i don't need and fit me rather badly-I get that wobbly double booby thing

 

[desideratum]

Dear Karma,

you suck!
and haha! I am having/have had a really good day!

love
bite me lol

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

ooooh crafty! Doesn't work for me though babe-I have to try-bought 3 bras recently-38DD, 38E and 40F all fitted perfectly just different manufacturers

I've never got the ebay habit-somehow I can't seem to find anything-it's all too overwhelming

They are gorgoeus and I happen to have seen a black satin corset for the monkey to buy me for Christmas-he's going to love it

And just to chip in for the 'smaller' lady these are also for smaller girls like myself. I wear a 30DD (yes that's correct because my back is small my cup size is larger...many women don't know how to get measured properly...as you can see by my pics I am not large busted but I do indeed wear a double D) and Freya are perfect for me. I agree about the inconsitencies though but if you check how they are actually fitting you will find quite often they are not quite right. I can squeeze my boobs into a 32B (which is what you would think I should be looking at me) but they don't actually fit correctly (the wires etc) and are not good for your boobies. OK...here endeth the lesson in bra fitting hehe

(for the Uk ladies I use a great shop that actually knows how to measure you but aren't as expensive as Rigby & Peller...Leia in Bluewater...go see them...they are amazing and offer a wonderful personal shopper/measuring service)

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

(almost forgot what I was here for)

Dear Coventry

Never been here before and not sure I like it. Bring me home you ratbag!

Me

 

[janeyl]

My Love,

You make me want things I thought I'd never want...and I'm not scared...well only of not getting them

your own

 

[wonderingwhy]

Dear X,

Oh, for the love of God, how I wish I could call you EX instead. I will one of these days, by the way. You can't keep me forever. I would leave this second if I could. I wouldn't even bother packing.

You know, you tell me that I don't say a whole lot. Have you ever stopped to wonder why that is? Do you realize that you rarely stop for a moment to let me say anything? You want to talk with me, but what you really mean is that you want to talk and talk and talk, but I can't ever share anything that matters to me because you never listen. Never. If it's not something that involves you, God forbid you actually care enough to take even one minute out of your day to hear me.

I tried to tell you one sentence as you were getting ready to leave. Just one single thing. Would it really have been so hard to listen for maybe all of ten seconds? All I got was a muffled, "Okay, yeah, see ya," as you walked out the door.

You didn't hear one word I said, nor did you even care. I could've told you that I hope you have the worst day of your life, or that I was running away with someone I met online, and it probably wouldn't have made a difference because you weren't even listening. Maybe I should've said that, at least the second one.

And when I do get the "privilege" of saying something, you make fun of me or blow me off. Do you know how unbelievably annoying it is to hear you say "salt" every single time after I, apparently, say "sult"? It's not funny. I've told you this. Why do you feel the need to do this? And if I happen to pronounce quarter as corter... I just don't get it. I don't get you.

Have you ever noticed that, for all the "joking" you do, you're the only one laughing?

Have you ever noticed that you hurt my feelings at least once a day, usually more, because of your "jokes"?

Have you ever noticed how unbelievably unhappy I am?

Have you ever noticed that I don't like you to so much as touch me?

Have you ever noticed that it makes me disgusted and all sorts of sick when you leer at me like I'm a piece of meat and say something degrading about my body?

What makes you think I would want to hop into bed with you when you do that? It's gross and makes me feel violated. You look at me like a dirty old man with his hands down his pants looks at a stripper. It absolutely repulses me. You would think, after this many years, you would get the point.

And then you laugh because you think my sickened reaction is funny. Why? I... just... why?

And, no, my nipples being erect is not anything like you having an erection, dumb ass. It's called being cold. It doesn't mean I want you.

How pathetic is it that I wish like crazy that you were an alcoholic or that you would hit me just once? No one would fault me for leaving you then. In fact, my family would likely even encourage it and would understand then if I didn't want to go to counseling.

I wouldn't even bad mouth you at all. I'd keep my mouth shut just like I always have all these years. Actually, I would thank you. Thank you for finally giving me my way out.

And then I could start the life I've always wanted.

One day I will be free of you.

One day there won't be any more forced smiles or I'm fine's.

One day I'll no longer be yours.

One day.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Dear X
AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
-me
p.s. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[availableslave2u]

dear bob,
you have to quit making me play with you. i'm going to go blind and my palms will get hairy.
signed,
i can't see well and i have stubble

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

dear brolly
thank you for lasting out so well today
I shall buy you a coffee and drink it in your honour

 

[AnonymousRendezvous]

Dear cute girl with the dog named Liberty,

I should have asked for your number when I had the chance.

Would you mind coming back around so I can get it right this time?

Sincerely,

Bean Soup

 

[jeffy72]

Dear self,

Stop browsing around in this forum hoping for a quick fix to your addictions and get back to work, so they keep paying you.

Sincerely, the guy with the halo on your left shoulder that you rarely listen to anymore.

 

[availableslave2u]

dear website i am building,
thank you for going so wonderfully thus far. how about tomorrow we finish you and you look so wonderful and bring in lots of customers? won't that be fun? i'll meet you in a few hours at my laptop and we'll finish you off. i'll bring the coffee and you stay trouble free and we'll get along just fine.
signed,
learning as i'm doing

 

[theravenfox]

Dear Mr. X (Dear Mr. The New You Is Like The Old You),

I come here to bitch about you, so I should also come here to praise you. And it's praise that you deserve tonight.

Ever since the last big blow up, you have really changed the way you treat me. I feel happy to see you again. I want to share things with you again. I feel close to you again. You make my day.

I'm not sure what you decided, how your feelings have changed or what you resolved to do differently, but can we please keep it up? This is seriously wonderful and makes my heart skip a beat.

Sincerely,
Thrilled To Have The Old You Back

 

[Golden_Silence]

Dear Person I am about to call....

Don't blow me off today, I have been exceedingly patient thus far, and am not likely to hold my tongue if you do the same again as you did yesterday.

I need details and Tuesday is fast approaching and I will not be willing to sign myself off until you are 100% sure of the times

Me

 

[bisolom]

Dear Universe,

Every now and then you actually get things right.
Thanks for that.


Finally envisioning a future I want to live in.

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Dear Universe

Could you please also get it right for me tonight too please?

Thanks Very Muchly In Advance Me