Dear X:

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Dear X,

Do you honestly think that I am your personal bank or doormat? I am not here to feed your kids simply because you apparently cannot afford to feed them. I will not buy you alcohol, smokes, food, spot you cash for your rent and power, give you my clothes or drive you around everywhere instead of catching the bus because you apparently cannot afford anything. If you are broke then give up smoking and drinking and gambling and feed them, don't send them to my house to guilt me into it. Yes I do feel sorry for them and yes I have helped you and them out in the past but I just cannot anymore.

I work for my money, maybe you should learn how to do that as well, take some responsibility for yourself and your life instead of blaming everything on someone or something else.
 
Dear X,

What are you doing? Do you know? You need to be clear. Think.

Where are you now? At home early, when you could have stayed out much longer and why; because you are trying to be a good girl.

It doesnt seem fair does it and the fact that it doesnt seem fair doesnt sit well with you, because you know damn well it's not meant to be fair.
You think it would feel less so if it werent for the way things are currently.

Your mind is full again.
Are you alone? Do you feel alone....
What will you do tomorrow?
should you wait for a shift before giving this much control up?
Is this fair? Does it matter?
Love and desire and needs.
Dont compromise your friendships until you know.
Don't be afraid or let your fear spoil things
Trust
Are you any good at this?

and so on and so on and so on.

You ache tonight, mainly physically. It's not surprising.

Rest, take care of yourself as you have learned how to and dont think of anything tonight.

Tonight be quiet and be peaceful.

You've come a long way, whatever you do will be the right thing.

Love

Me
 
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Dear Dad-

It's not that what she does offends me, but it's the fact that you refuse to acknowledge that you're married to a woman that probably couldn't care less if I died tomorrow. You make every concession in the book for her despite the fact that you admitted that she is so superficial as to be unable to even talk about anything more than TV shows, cooking magazines, and gossip about her friends. You can't even tell her how you're feeling for fuck's sake.

YOU'RE the one that should be in therapy. Not me. And honestly? I'm glad she doesn't feel like coming to my graduation because she'd rather teach a yoga class. Her ticket will go to someone that actually cares.

Love,
Your Ever-Increasingly Distant Daughter
 
Dear x,

I will never choke anybody if I can help it.

love,

me
 
Dear me

You can do it. You CAN. If you just stop beating yourself up for not doing it, the energy and stress thus saved will give you the ooomph to do it!

You've been so stellar in recent weeks at getting unstuck from sometimes decades-old unhelpful patterns. Keep up that good work.

You CAN do it. I want to watch you prove that to yourself this weekend.

Love
Me
xx
 
Dear X:

Grow.

The.

Fuck.

Up.

I know the comment was, what, three days ago. But no, you dumb ass we did not have a happy marriage. That's why I left. Duh.

Now answer the goddamn email, get your ass in gear and do what you need to do to finish breaking ALL ties.

And stop talking smack about my Aunt or I'll tell her the complete truth.

Me
 
Dear CS's X-

I am looking for something to clobber, and I would totally love to beat your ass.

J
 
Dear boyfriend,

You are the most loving, caring, and selfless man I've ever met. When it comes to me, your love seems to be unconditional (though I wouldn't ever dare test you). Sometimes (oftentimes) I feel like the toxic partner in the relationship, but your warm forgiveness and endless patience not only makes me want to be more like you, but it provides me with a safe place where I can feel confident in working on myself. It feels good to have someone that has this kind of faith in me, and it makes ME have faith in me.

I'm slowly getting there, and it's all thanks to you.

xo,
L
 
Dear X,

I don't really know where to start, thank you just doesn't seem enough sometimes :)

I can't believe it's been nearly 4 years since you came into my life. What we have is so very special. I know you think I'm overly sappy sometimes (maybe I am :p) but I love you.

You make me so happy. And I hope you know just how wonderful you are - kind, considerate, compassionate, giving. I'm so very fortunate to have you as my lover and my friend :)

You light up my world and I am so looking forward to sharing many more years together :rose:

Love,
Me
 
Dear X,
This is just a little health hiccup for you, and you will be fine. Better than fine, of course, as you know. Much better. So, good for you, and good luck on a speedy recovery.

-Me

:)
 
Dear X

I hate arguing, it makes me feel like crap.

The list I gave you presented things from least bothersome to most, not things I like to things I don't like.

So just choose what you want, and I'll go with it. I don't care. It's all for you anyway.

XXX
 
Dear S,

It appears a decision as been made. I understand that it was inevitable.
And even if it hurts that I could not be told directly, I accept that there was no other way.

I love you. That will never change.
I'll be here for you. That will never change.
I'm yours. That will never change.

'till next time ... whenever that might be

Partimely yours.



Dear Mrs. S,

I have no way to begin to understand how it feels to being going through what you are, right now.

For all his shortcoming, he loves you more than anything else in life. I know you love him, and I hope you know how much he does too. You always have had the upper hand there. Use it wisely.

I'm hoping you'll win this battle. I truly do. For you, and for him.

I wish you'd let me help. But I do understand where your requests are coming from.

Keeping you in my thoughts.

Forever grateful,

y.
 
Dear Universe,

Just about the time I've completely given up, somehow something happens to restore my faith in my relationship. I don't know how it happens or why, but I won't question the good times when they come my way. Thanks for making it better.
 
Dear X

I know that your recent health scare came back with bad news but also glad that your doctor was able to take care of it the first time without a repeated surgery. Hoping all goes well with future screenings and that you will always be the healthy, happy, sexy friend that you've always been so far to me!!!!
Health, relationship and life issues are always going to be part of just living life so we take it one day at a time and worry about tomorrow when it gets here.

HUGS and Happiness to you always!!!

D
 
Dear X,

Thanks for helping me work through the frozen mud of last week. It is nice to be on this side of it. Thanks for not being scared of holding my hand through it.
And, Jello Biafra awaits.
How happy am I?

R
 
Dear N,

Looking for suitable reading material.
I'm thinking "Bonsoir Lune" ("Goodnight Moon" translated into French).
Or "Les Petits Oiseaux" by Anais Nin.

k
 
Dear x,

I dont think you want it anymore. I could tell from your voice; the tone and the way you were.
I felt it over the weekend and i felt terrible, but now i think i know for sure.

Makes me feel sad.

Me.
 
Dear X,

About 6 years ago, i found out that me having children, was near on impossible, and i went from someone who loved children, to someone who hated them.
I am or was considering a hysterectomy, because i can't deal with all this period shit any more, never ending periods is ruining my life.
I have met the most amazing man, who has changed my mind about kids..Do i put myself through the heartbreak and pain of all the tests again, and see if anything can be done, or do i give up on my dream and go with the final decision and have all my gubbins out..

Thinking long and hard, me..
 
Dear T,

You thought I didn't like sex, and you were wrong. I just didn't like the vanilla sex we had. Now I am freely exploring my sexuality and I am loving it. Too bad you didn't get to see this side of me.
 
Dear R

I know you said I wasn't over reacting by what you said last night..But you really hurt my feelings..We went from having a fun and exciting convo to you turning it to one of my hot buttons..You made me feel so bad...and today it is even worse on me..I am not liking how just a few little words about something so innocent have knocked the wind out of me today..

Me
 
I'm so glad to discover you're still the same shallow man you were when we parted company. No regrets.
 
Mother,

Thank you for everything, I'm so proud of you. Your decision has our lives much better, I hope that some day I will be half as strong as you are. I love you more than I show, please never change.
 
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