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Stegral
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Dear X:
I know I have said it before but your phone being off on V-Day was it.
the paranoid voice in my head might be right or wrong.
but the phone being off makes it a winner.
I have fought it for a few weeks now, said it was lying.
I guess you don't have the balls to tell me personally you have someone else.
Fuck you & the "christian values" you quote when it suits you.
Good to see they allow you to live with being a player & hurting people.
I give up on "us" & clean the slate of you.
I will miss the passion but not the heartache.
being ignored was the last straw.
the used toy...
-Me-
I know I have said it before but your phone being off on V-Day was it.
the paranoid voice in my head might be right or wrong.
but the phone being off makes it a winner.
I have fought it for a few weeks now, said it was lying.
I guess you don't have the balls to tell me personally you have someone else.
Fuck you & the "christian values" you quote when it suits you.
Good to see they allow you to live with being a player & hurting people.
I give up on "us" & clean the slate of you.
I will miss the passion but not the heartache.
being ignored was the last straw.
the used toy...
-Me-
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bholderman
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Dear Princess J-,
The court order said you were suppossed to have filed the response and have me served by the 15th. I called the court yesterday at 4, no filing.
My calendar says its the 16th.
Um, I guess the kids arent that important to you, nor the car payment, nor beds for the girls...I can go on, but I wont.
See you in court on the 3rd.
The court order said you were suppossed to have filed the response and have me served by the 15th. I called the court yesterday at 4, no filing.
My calendar says its the 16th.
Um, I guess the kids arent that important to you, nor the car payment, nor beds for the girls...I can go on, but I wont.
See you in court on the 3rd.
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Dear X-
thank you!
That was a nice surprise and really lifted my spirits
it's nice to know someone cares
thank you!
That was a nice surprise and really lifted my spirits
it's nice to know someone cares
Bandit58
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Dear Brad,
I'm sorry that you are going through so much crap with your ex, and that the children are having such a hard time. Just going by what I've read of your postings, she appears to have abdicated her membership of the Mother's Club big time.
When I separated from my first husband, our son was 18 and an adult. Our daughter was just turned 14 and chose to stay with her father on the farm - she loved the animals and the life. The ex and I worked out an arrangement of shared custody where she could see me and stay with me whenever she wanted, usually worked out once a week for overnights and weekends we went shopping or to the movies. If she needed me, all she had to do was call.
I am at a loss to understand why your ex would hurt her children this way....but I am glad they have you. Good luck with the courts
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Dear X-
things will work out in the end. Everything isn't your fault!
*hugs*
things will work out in the end. Everything isn't your fault!
*hugs*
Sir_Winston54
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Brad, you still have my admiration and respect. Just one thing, guy: When the 3rd comes around, stay firm. Let the Court know exactly what she's been up to (and *not* been up to, as far as doing anything for the kids, etc.), and that she failed to file a response by the stated deadline (which in most states means she's not contesting anything you said in the original complaint, and agreeing to whatever settlement terms were spelled out in it!). Don't let puppydog eyes, etc., sway you into giving her more than the minimum she's allowed by law - she hasn't earned it, she doesn't deserve it, and from everything I've seen in your various posts over the past few months - she doesn't really *want* it, except maybe just to prove that she still has some power over you.
Remember that your primary goal is to do what's best for the kids, and if that means extremely limited time with their mother (which she's apparently "enforcing" all by herself and her own decisions), then stick with it.
You have my sympathies, my encouragement to stay strong for the kids' sake, and my everlasting admiration and respect for the man who "is Daddy!"
Side note: I'm not a lawyer (see disclaimer in sig line), but I *do* deal with the courts as my livelihood, and I know that many times one party tries to be "nice" - or it's their nature - and it causes them, or their family, untold later grief.
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Sir Winston,
Ok, may not have all my faculties tonight; but what does this mean???
Ok, may not have all my faculties tonight; but what does this mean???
Sir_Winston54
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It means...Sir Winston,
Ok, may not have all my faculties tonight; but what does this mean???
Do I Look Like I Give A Squeaky Baby Fart In A Force 5 Tornado?
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ROFLMAOOOOOOOO
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Dear Bandit and Sir WInston,
Thanks for the kind words. Everything I do is for these kids, if it wasnt for them I would have rolled over and died back in October.
Thanks for the kind words. Everything I do is for these kids, if it wasnt for them I would have rolled over and died back in October.
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Dear X,
Thank you for inviting him over tonight. It's not like he was over here last night.
And it's not like I was in the mood to tear your clothes off.
If you don't lay me by tomorrow I'm going on girlfriend strike. And you can forget about cuddling tonight, too!
Sincerely,
Moi
Thank you for inviting him over tonight. It's not like he was over here last night.
And it's not like I was in the mood to tear your clothes off.
If you don't lay me by tomorrow I'm going on girlfriend strike. And you can forget about cuddling tonight, too!
Sincerely,
Moi
Sir_Winston54
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Dear X,Dear X,
Thank you for inviting him over tonight. It's not like he was over here last night.
And it's not like I was in the mood to tear your clothes off.
If you don't lay me by tomorrow I'm going on girlfriend strike. And you can forget about cuddling tonight, too!
Sincerely,
Moi
You're a freakin' idiot. No... that's an insult to idiots. Wake up and smell the pheromones, dumbass!
FurryFury
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Dear X,
The drinking and belligerence is getting on my last nerve. You keep this shit up and the argument we had tonight will look like a sweet lullaby compared to what is to come.
I love you. You are better than this shit. Please cut it the fuck out. Seriously.
Me.
The drinking and belligerence is getting on my last nerve. You keep this shit up and the argument we had tonight will look like a sweet lullaby compared to what is to come.
I love you. You are better than this shit. Please cut it the fuck out. Seriously.
Me.
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Dear Honey:
snuggling in bed with you today was simply heaven.
Even though I had to get up now and again to be sick.
snuggling in bed with you today was simply heaven.
Even though I had to get up now and again to be sick.
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Dear X,
why did you keep doing what your dad told you to? you're your own person. i wish you could see that. now you're just following a path you don't belong on, no matter how much you convince yourself that it's right. and you shut me out of your life because of it. i don't think you know what you're doing.
why did you keep doing what your dad told you to? you're your own person. i wish you could see that. now you're just following a path you don't belong on, no matter how much you convince yourself that it's right. and you shut me out of your life because of it. i don't think you know what you're doing.
Evil_Geoff
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Dear X,
Thank you.
For everything!
Thank you.
For everything!
bholderman
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Dear Princess J-,
I called the girls yesterday to see how their Sunday with you going. Two of them were outside, coming in to talk on the phone. Our oldest, without any kind of questioning at all, stated that all was well and you were sleeping. "Really?" I said. "Oh yeah, full on snoring and all."
Didnt we have a CPS episode because of you lack of supervision of the girls not too long ago? Your in a new complex in a rougher part of town, you've only been there a few weeks. How well do you know the people in the complex?
These arent teenagers. They are 6,7 and 8 year olds.
I called the girls yesterday to see how their Sunday with you going. Two of them were outside, coming in to talk on the phone. Our oldest, without any kind of questioning at all, stated that all was well and you were sleeping. "Really?" I said. "Oh yeah, full on snoring and all."
Didnt we have a CPS episode because of you lack of supervision of the girls not too long ago? Your in a new complex in a rougher part of town, you've only been there a few weeks. How well do you know the people in the complex?
These arent teenagers. They are 6,7 and 8 year olds.
BiaTcHiNFiRe
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Dear X,
As much as I am thankful for you being there at the end - I cannot forget the way you treated me when I told you we gotta go, fast. If theres someone who can show me how less I mean to him in less than 2 seconds, then its you.
dissapointed me
As much as I am thankful for you being there at the end - I cannot forget the way you treated me when I told you we gotta go, fast. If theres someone who can show me how less I mean to him in less than 2 seconds, then its you.
dissapointed me
DVS
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Dear snow plow drivers.
Just in case you were wondering, I made it home, OK. Although there weren't many of us on the roads Sunday morning, some of us do have to work, and it helps to have roads that are safe to drive on. I usually don't have much trouble driving in snow, but this time was tricky!
On I-35, I was lucky that I got behind a bus, and followed in his tracks. But, unfortunately, the bus didn't go all the way to my house. I had to get off of the Interstate, because without the bus to follow, it was worse than the smaller roads that nobody had been on, yet. Although we only got about 3 inches, it was such a wet snow, that you had to follow perfectly in the tracks of the car that went before you. If you got out just a little, it would pull your car sideways, because of the drag of the wet snow. Obviously, that's not a good thing. It was actually better to drive on streets where nobody had been. At least you had a better idea what your car was going to do.
And, I live on the highest hill in my county. In case of floods, that's a good thing. But, in a situation like this, it's not. I tried several different routes, trying to get up that hill, but the snow was just too slick to get any traction. There was no way to get any speed up, because you guys hadn't done your job.
I know why there wasn't any salt, sand or brine put down, beforehand. It rained all fucking night long. It would have washed any of that down the drain. But, we knew this little storm was coming. It rained all night and the snow started at 6 AM. Everything happened exactly like the weatherguys said it would.
I eventually found a spot where I could get some traction and made it home. No thanks to you, of course. I thought I'd have to go spend a couple of hours at a diner or something, to give you guys time to get out of bed, finish your coffee and get out on the roads.
Does your union say you don't have to get out when it's bad like that, for fear your plow could be damaged? No need to answer that. It's just a rhetorical question. Just get off your fucking ass and plow the streets next time. OK? I don't care if it is Sunday morning at 7 AM, there are people on the roads.
And just so you know...when in a situation like that, you look for snow plows. And, you guys aren't difficult to spot, with your yellow flashing lights. But, it's also not difficult to see when you aren't there. So, don't forget who's taxes pay your salary. And don't think we're not watching.
Just in case you were wondering, I made it home, OK. Although there weren't many of us on the roads Sunday morning, some of us do have to work, and it helps to have roads that are safe to drive on. I usually don't have much trouble driving in snow, but this time was tricky!
On I-35, I was lucky that I got behind a bus, and followed in his tracks. But, unfortunately, the bus didn't go all the way to my house. I had to get off of the Interstate, because without the bus to follow, it was worse than the smaller roads that nobody had been on, yet. Although we only got about 3 inches, it was such a wet snow, that you had to follow perfectly in the tracks of the car that went before you. If you got out just a little, it would pull your car sideways, because of the drag of the wet snow. Obviously, that's not a good thing. It was actually better to drive on streets where nobody had been. At least you had a better idea what your car was going to do.
And, I live on the highest hill in my county. In case of floods, that's a good thing. But, in a situation like this, it's not. I tried several different routes, trying to get up that hill, but the snow was just too slick to get any traction. There was no way to get any speed up, because you guys hadn't done your job.
I know why there wasn't any salt, sand or brine put down, beforehand. It rained all fucking night long. It would have washed any of that down the drain. But, we knew this little storm was coming. It rained all night and the snow started at 6 AM. Everything happened exactly like the weatherguys said it would.
I eventually found a spot where I could get some traction and made it home. No thanks to you, of course. I thought I'd have to go spend a couple of hours at a diner or something, to give you guys time to get out of bed, finish your coffee and get out on the roads.
Does your union say you don't have to get out when it's bad like that, for fear your plow could be damaged? No need to answer that. It's just a rhetorical question. Just get off your fucking ass and plow the streets next time. OK? I don't care if it is Sunday morning at 7 AM, there are people on the roads.
And just so you know...when in a situation like that, you look for snow plows. And, you guys aren't difficult to spot, with your yellow flashing lights. But, it's also not difficult to see when you aren't there. So, don't forget who's taxes pay your salary. And don't think we're not watching.
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bholderman
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sexycaz22 and BiaTcHiNFiRe,
I ask myself the same things daily, almost hourly. My heart goes out to you.
I ask myself the same things daily, almost hourly. My heart goes out to you.
Stegral
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funny post.. I just had to...
Dear self...
*bangs head repeatedly against hard wall*
you were supposed to be strong.
you were supposed to say NO.
you were supposed to remember how he hurt us...
next time DON"T let him close enough to bite!!!!!!
Damn freakish weakness.....
From Self.
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Dear Self,
Stop beating us up...
We had fun, admit it.
He stayed the night so You got that cuddle time You wanted...
You got the markings You sooo enjoy...
We are corrupting him slowly...
(remember HIS nails on YOUR back???)
Admit it some of the things he did last night mindfucked You
Just need him to turn off the christian stuff & BINGO....
(go get the cam & take pics of the bites.... you know you want to)
We are single, remember... maybe FWB is good for now...
screw that, FWB is just fine with me right now
too bad for You if it isn't, i know the weakness...
Bites turn You to jello, removes all the defenses...
Then I WIN!!!!!
*insert evil laugh*
self
Dear self...
*bangs head repeatedly against hard wall*
you were supposed to be strong.
you were supposed to say NO.
you were supposed to remember how he hurt us...
next time DON"T let him close enough to bite!!!!!!
Damn freakish weakness.....
From Self.
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Dear Self,
Stop beating us up...
We had fun, admit it.
He stayed the night so You got that cuddle time You wanted...
You got the markings You sooo enjoy...
We are corrupting him slowly...
(remember HIS nails on YOUR back???)
Admit it some of the things he did last night mindfucked You
Just need him to turn off the christian stuff & BINGO....
(go get the cam & take pics of the bites.... you know you want to)
We are single, remember... maybe FWB is good for now...
screw that, FWB is just fine with me right now
too bad for You if it isn't, i know the weakness...
Bites turn You to jello, removes all the defenses...
Then I WIN!!!!!
*insert evil laugh*
self
Kajira Callista
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Dear Dad,
Six months has passed and I still speak of you as you are still here with us every day. I know you are in a way... but it isn't the same as seeing your face.
I regret not doing what you kept telling me to do and going back to school sooner. I know I would have gotten dinner in the restaurant of my choice from you for my grades (spoiler) but what I really wish I could have is the look of pride on your face.
I miss you very much daddy.
Love,
Me
Six months has passed and I still speak of you as you are still here with us every day. I know you are in a way... but it isn't the same as seeing your face.
I regret not doing what you kept telling me to do and going back to school sooner. I know I would have gotten dinner in the restaurant of my choice from you for my grades (spoiler) but what I really wish I could have is the look of pride on your face.
I miss you very much daddy.
Love,
Me
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