Dear X:

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JupitersGirl said:
Well, sorry, but it DID say to check on page three about the warranty.

Geez! If I could have figured it out for myself, why would I have called you? Duh?
Dear JG,

What?!? When the tire pressure monitor system warning light comes on and remains lit after the car is started, don't you think that means there's probably at least one tire that's low on air? (That was suggested in the paragraph I pointed out.) And don't you think it would be a good idea to check each one with a tire pressure gauge? If one or more tires is low, don't you think more air should be added to the one or more tires that is low? And if you agree with that assessment, don't you also suppose that the same electric air pump you use for inflating your bicycle tires will work on your car tires?

Just because the third paragraph says you should pull over immediately and not drive any further doesn't mean that you should pull over immediately and stop driving, especially if you can look at the tires and see that none of them is flat!

-Y
 
Dear X27,

Just because you like the kind of porn you do, doesn't mean everybody has to think it's the greatest in the universe, and it definitely doesn't make you the king of anything.

- Y
 
Dear Me,

I know you're scared. I know you're afraid to get excited, afraid you'll mess up and let everyone down. If they have faith in you, if they see something in you that makes them want to encourage you to push yourself to the limits... then just accept that and put your all into it.

You CAN do this. You really can.

Me

Dear Master and Malin,

I couldnt do this without your love and support. I know that I am the luckiest woman in the world.

Me
 
Dear x,

I wanted yesterday to be so perfect and instead it all went badly wrong. It was bound to I guess when I am focusing so much on wanting you to have a good time and at the same time filled with the emotion of not seeing you for a while. *soft smile*

I don't think it could have gone worse even if I had planned it to! Perhaps I was selfish...I wanted your arms around me holding me tight, to feel you kiss me, so hard, not wanting to let me go and for us to just focus on eachother and being together. To take reassurance in your words and touch. To hear you say you love me.
 
Dear Mean Park Ranger,

I realize you wear the fact that you are a jerk like a badge and that somehow it makes you feel better. However...that does not mean you need to lecture me on the speed of my driving. Yes..I saw the posted limit, yes I am aware that if I drive faster than said limit it can be bad for the animals, and yes I did see you behind me. I also noticed that you were in an unmarked pickup truck without any official kind of flashing light but flashing your headlights at me, and a male..in fact that was all I could see. I was going faster because you were on my ass and it is clearly posted that I am not to pull over as the sand will not support my vehicle. Not to mention the fact I had a baby in the car and didn't feel like getting in a race, or pulling over for what was to me an eratic driver..swerving behind me.

I know this may be news to you but I don't give a flip if you toss me out of YOUR park because you can't take a second to think about how you might have scared the crap out of some woman by trying to run her off the road in an unmarked vehicle. I hope that my quavering voice as I answered your questions in front of family and friends, and being talked to like a two year old made you feel like the man you pretend to be. Mainly though..I hope in some way..someone will be nicer to you than you were to me and offer some suggestions on how you might reach your goal of helping your park. Perhaps talking to a person..like a person would be a start as I can assure you the way you treat others is lacking.

From,

A mother that isn't sorry she was worried about her loved ones.

P.S. Your badge...is teeny tiny.
 
Dear X,

It was supposed to be our first family night in 3 months. Not even 20 minutes into it, your texting away to her. Thanks for a wonderful Christmas.

If you don't get the fuck out of my life, I'm going to remove you from it even if I have to sacrifice the mother of my children to do so.

Fuck, this is a lot of paperwork for a separation.
 
My dearest X,

You have been my greatest support, my truest friend, and my deepest love. Things are not the way we would like them to be, but I'm glad that we can be happy in letting each other find the happiness we seek. I know you've felt lonesome and longing, I know that has a lot to do with the reactions you have when I find happiness with others. I hope you find some one who will not only keep you company at night, but love you as I have, I do, and I always will. My only desire in this is that you never forget the love we share.

I love you, and no matter who else claims me, I'll always be yours. Some one once told me I"m free to love as many as my little heart can handle, so long as they remain one of them. You my love will always be one of them, and I only hope you feel the same.

With all my love,

your nac :kiss:
 
Dear Santa,

I need a favour....please. I know I said to give my share of good luck to fishercat because she was having a tough time, but I may need to hold on to a little bit of it myself. She can still have the rest.
I've pretty much been good....not exemplary but I have tried and I could do with some real help right now. Cut me some slack please, just once.

Its two weeks before christmas and everything has gone wrong. I know thats not unusual with me... history dictates that its the time when everything bad happens but it would be great to break the cycle one time.

He means so much to me sir.

I'll never ask for anything ever again,

In hope,

Me
 
thank You the three of You

it is where my mind settled today and likely for awhile to come
 
Dear X,

Wow. I hope you two proceed with caution, for your kids' sakes.

itw

Dear X,

You need help. I truly believe you're bipolar, and should seek treatment for your mental health. Good luck.

itw
 
Dear self,

You care too much about what other people think. Don't be so touchy and sensitive. Maybe her tone had nothing to do with you. Maybe she had a bad day. Let it go. You can do it. Let it go, and get some sleep.

Love,
itw
 
Dear X, Y, Z, and all the rest of you self-absorbed, selfish bastards,

You are not the only people on earth. And your children are growing up to be just like you - obnoxious, spoiled, and poorly behaved. You have no right to be surprised when they act like the brats they are. You're training them that way.

Get over yourselves and grow up, and maybe I wouldn't hate having to be nice to you all day long.



ETA: P.S. S'pose I ought to preface that none of this is intended towards any of you all. This is a horrible season to work where I work.
 
Dear X's,

I very much appreciate your help and you doing all that you are doing. I need to say however, that I did not ask you to take this project on, indicated that the time of your visit was not convenient in terms of work and other responsibilities of mine. You insisted though, and I obliged, cancelling activities as I could, leaving them early, giving you every moment at home, either entertaining, feeding, cleaning up after you and helping you with the work until you went to bed, before I did my work until long after midnight. I took a sick day off today because my back is not doing well and am still going to be up there with you doing everything even when I should be lying down.

I would appreciate not being treated in a condescending way and like I am valuable and not like the useless lump that I feel like right now.

Thanks in advance,

me
 
Dear X,

I want you to know that I am very proud of you. I know that you are woring very very hard at getting through this last week of school. Keep your chin up!! I know you can do this and come out smelling like a rose.
I love you very much.

D
 
Dear x,
You have to get your act together. You are one of my dear friends. You are more like a brother to me. But I will say it again. You have to get your act together!

I will always let you lean on me. I care about you. I want you to find happiness. For a year now I have supported you. I know you have had a hard year. You have lost someone you loved, dealt with your child being in an accident. Those are difficult, and I was there as you put your head in my lap and cried. I would put myself in that place again.

I will not however continue to let you avoid your responsibilities. I will not be the only one who pays in this house. Yes, I can afford it, but that is not the point. You are a year older than me. Start acting like it. I will not make your car payment if you are short. I know you have only asked twice and I could manage it, but I have my own to make. I loaned you the down payment and you have yet to repay the first dollar. You have borrowed more money from me than I use...and I pay for 95% of everything! You have a job. Learn how to manage your finances! I know you had great success in the past. Guess what, you walked away from them. Time to start over. I moved here and rebuilt my life from nothing. No help from anyone. I went through all of the emotional turmoil that "satan" put me through alone and I grew stronger. I stood on my own two feet and succeeded.

I will not continue to be the only one who takes care of the house. You live here too. You can trash this place in no time flat and not think twice about it. I know you work, but guess what so do I. I work twelve hour shifts, a minimum of 60 hours of overtime a month. You know how stressful my job is. How many times have I come home completely exhausted? I deal with everyone's worst moment. Do you know how hard it is to talk someone through CPR knowing that their spouse, parent, friend, child is already gone? Do you not realize how much I carry that with me? I would like for just once on my day off to actually be able to relax.

Leave the house every once in a while. It is not healthy for your only human contacts to be work and me. Don't sleep your days away. Here's a mirror boyo-that reflection you see is a depressed person. He needs help. More help than I can give. Will you finally take my advice and find some? You are draining me because you seem to be wallowing in your misery. You are not happy with your job? How many have you been unhappy with in the last five years? You always have examples of how it is them, but there is a pattern here. Recognize it. I made it through the panic attacks, depression and realities when I moved here. I managed to get through it on my own. But we are different. I have never been prone to that. It was situational. This seems to be your usual state. Be a man and get help. Millions of other people go through the same things. Don't discard a TX because you tried one in the past and it didn't work for you. They have made advances. There are many more choices. Have the balls to admit you need help and then actively seek it and accept it. I will respect you more if you do.


I know you have had your substance issues in the past. That is why I hid my knee medication. I know my knee doesn't go out that often, but when it does it is crippling. You have helped yourself to a prescription that would have lasted me probably two years. Yes I would have thrown out a majority of them because they would expire before I could use them. However today I moved the bottle and found the seven that remained. Do you realize how many you have taken? If something goes wrong with my knee I have three and a half days worth of pain relief. After that I will have to deal with the pain. You have seen it happen. You know how bad it can be. This is the one thing I found that takes the pain away but doesn't cause me to worry about a reaction. You have a higher tolerance to meds than I do. I have the lowest dosage because I coded during surgery. You know that. That does not mean you should take four at a time to alleviate the pain. I have to ask. What pain is it that your a trying to suppress? The pain of your hand? That bite healed weeks ago. The headaches? If your headaches are lasting that long, there is something neuro going on. Personally I think you are using it for the emotional pain. Whatever the reason, get a RX that is meant for you. Take control of your life!

This is the final straw.Stay out of my room! It is my one sanctuary. I have to have my own space. I have to have a place where I can work my own things out. Don't invade it. I don't go into your room when you are not home, have the same respect. If something is in my room, it is there for a reason. It is not what you took from there as it is the fact that you felt you could just walk in as you wished.

***breathes***

Now that I have vented, I can rationally discuss this with you. When you wake up that is.
 
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