Dear Litster, once more

[YourgirlfriendLaura]

Dear Litsters for whom I have so much respect,

We are talking to a fucking wall over there and our point has been made. I think our power now lies in him not having an audience. Shall we mass ignore the fool?

I’ll do my part and remove any harassment he launches at women in personals.

In this together,

Me

Dear Litster baby loves,
I could could ignore this one, but the thread is cathartic, bonding and keeps him all in one place. I also found a true Lit horror recently, worse than this guy, and while people around that certain poster may have ignored him, his slurs look terrible and hurtful to new members, outsiders, regular people who just encounter him etc. They went completely uncalled out.
So I am of two minds....

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Dear Litster baby loves,
I could could ignore this one, but the thread is cathartic, bonding and keeps him all in one place. I also found a true Lit horror recently, worse than this guy, and while people around that certain poster may have ignored him, his slurs look terrible and hurtful to new members, outsiders, regular people who just encounter him etc. They went completely uncalled out.
So I am of two minds....

Can you send me a link to the thread you’re talking about?

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear Litsters,

What the hell happened to the PG? It used to be such a fun, good hearted place to hang out in. To relieve the stresses of our daily lives. To banter, bitch and moan without too much drama. We all have enough stress in our lives that we shouldn’t need to expedite it on an erotic message board as well.

Everyone has good days and bad days. I left because a majority of the folks I mingled with left. For many different reasons. We all originally came here as newbies. Some like myself didn’t jump in right away. We were silent watchers. Then slowly dipped our toes in the water and thankfully during a time when we wouldn’t get shit on for the post that we made.

Reading through some of the most recent drama, if I were a newbie I wouldn’t have jumped in. Hell I probably wouldn’t have even stayed a window watcher. I would have simply rolled my eyes and left. Realizing I don’t need this negativity in my real life.

Now don’t get me wrong. I enjoy the drama. At least from the outside, but if you look at the 100’s of posts I made through out the years, none were meant to be inflammatory. I used the ignore feature a few times. Especially when my wife was called by a Litster a handful of years ago. I have left and come back numerous times. I am considered an OG I suppose, and have seen the PG have many ups and downs. Unfortunately I’m today’s day and age, it seems easier for people to simply attack others because they don’t want to be attacked first. People are so jaded and anxious that it is easier to try and go on the offensive immediately.

Maybe, just maybe, your opinion or response isn’t needed or warranted. Ask yourself prior to posting of you really need to chime in. Do you really think anyone gives a shit about your opinion enough for you to take the time to type it out? My guess is it isn’t.

Quit being so defensive. Quit feeling attacked and for fucks sake, quit attacking others. Go somewhere else to do that shit. This place was always viewed by the GBers as rainbows and puppy dogs. None of us old schoolers minded that comparison at all. They viewed it as an insult and we were like yep, that’s us. We didn’t want drama and BS. We wanted to escape our daily lives and come here to say hello and share our thoughts and lives. Some like myself, we’re a bit too honest in doing that, but that is what I needed at that time.

This place will never get back to that way again. Which is fine, but there has to be a happy medium, otherwise the people that helped build it are going to continue to vanish. When I do pop in now a days I stick to my own threads I created, Like Show your face and a handful of others. I come here to smile and create smiles. That’s really about it.

I started the Litties a while back as a way to bring everyone together. One of catagoroes was biggest troll. That shouldn’t have been a category. That was my mistake because it was divisive and took away from what I was trying to do.

Create more threads that spreads wellness and positivity. Stick to the threads you’re comfortable in. If you start a thread, start it for yourself. If others jump in great. If they don’t so be it. Don’t start it to gain the attention of others. Start it as a way to release you’re own creativity and ideas. Do you think I could go up to women in the real world and ask them to send me pussy pics? Nope, but a thread I started as a joke turned into a fun discussion. Starting threads with questions to get to know people better is another great way to create banter.

So stop with the BS and if someone is bugging you PM them directly. Stop talking behind their backs. Tone can’t be read in words. Sometimes what was read isn’t how it was meant. Ask for clarification. Just act like adults. We all have daily stresses we deal with. Why the fuck would ANYONE want to come here and add that on top of what you are already dealing with.

Use the ignore function. It helps. The moderator(s) shouldn’t have to be baby sitters. It’s a sad day when anyone has to go through what some of us have gone through. Some worse than others, but in the end, it can simply be stopped with first reaching out privately to try and discuss the situation and if that doesn’t work then put them on ignore. Nothing will squash bullshit like a good old fashioned ignore.

Sorry for the ramble. I know this is longer than War and Peace, but I helped build this board. I am sad to see the state it is in today. Wish washy sure. It’s just how I feel right now and thankfully I have a forum in which I can express those thoughts. Better yet, it’s FREE.

Now about those pussies….

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear Grammar Litsters,


My apologies for the above post. It is on my phone and I am 6’5 250lbs with large thumbs.

Thanks,

Thumb out for a ride.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Dear Hitchhiker

Just how big are those thumbs?


Disbeliever

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Dear really long post Litster above who hates clowns,

Perfectly said.
Come back more often.
This place could use more of you.

Signed,
A fan

 

[hotoldrguy]

Dear Litsters,

What the hell happened to the PG? It used to be such a fun, good hearted place to hang out in. To relieve the stresses of our daily lives. To banter, bitch and moan without too much drama. We all have enough stress in our lives that we shouldn’t need to expedite it on an erotic message board as well.

Everyone has good days and bad days. I left because a majority of the folks I mingled with left. For many different reasons. We all originally came here as newbies. Some like myself didn’t jump in right away. We were silent watchers. Then slowly dipped our toes in the water and thankfully during a time when we wouldn’t get shit on for the post that we made.

Reading through some of the most recent drama, if I were a newbie I wouldn’t have jumped in. Hell I probably wouldn’t have even stayed a window watcher. I would have simply rolled my eyes and left. Realizing I don’t need this negativity in my real life.

Now don’t get me wrong. I enjoy the drama. At least from the outside, but if you look at the 100’s of posts I made through out the years, none were meant to be inflammatory. I used the ignore feature a few times. Especially when my wife was called by a Litster a handful of years ago. I have left and come back numerous times. I am considered an OG I suppose, and have seen the PG have many ups and downs. Unfortunately I’m today’s day and age, it seems easier for people to simply attack others because they don’t want to be attacked first. People are so jaded and anxious that it is easier to try and go on the offensive immediately.

Maybe, just maybe, your opinion or response isn’t needed or warranted. Ask yourself prior to posting of you really need to chime in. Do you really think anyone gives a shit about your opinion enough for you to take the time to type it out? My guess is it isn’t.

Quit being so defensive. Quit feeling attacked and for fucks sake, quit attacking others. Go somewhere else to do that shit. This place was always viewed by the GBers as rainbows and puppy dogs. None of us old schoolers minded that comparison at all. They viewed it as an insult and we were like yep, that’s us. We didn’t want drama and BS. We wanted to escape our daily lives and come here to say hello and share our thoughts and lives. Some like myself, we’re a bit too honest in doing that, but that is what I needed at that time.

This place will never get back to that way again. Which is fine, but there has to be a happy medium, otherwise the people that helped build it are going to continue to vanish. When I do pop in now a days I stick to my own threads I created, Like Show your face and a handful of others. I come here to smile and create smiles. That’s really about it.

I started the Litties a while back as a way to bring everyone together. One of catagoroes was biggest troll. That shouldn’t have been a category. That was my mistake because it was divisive and took away from what I was trying to do.

Create more threads that spreads wellness and positivity. Stick to the threads you’re comfortable in. If you start a thread, start it for yourself. If others jump in great. If they don’t so be it. Don’t start it to gain the attention of others. Start it as a way to release you’re own creativity and ideas. Do you think I could go up to women in the real world and ask them to send me pussy pics? Nope, but a thread I started as a joke turned into a fun discussion. Starting threads with questions to get to know people better is another great way to create banter.

So stop with the BS and if someone is bugging you PM them directly. Stop talking behind their backs. Tone can’t be read in words. Sometimes what was read isn’t how it was meant. Ask for clarification. Just act like adults. We all have daily stresses we deal with. Why the fuck would ANYONE want to come here and add that on top of what you are already dealing with.

Use the ignore function. It helps. The moderator(s) shouldn’t have to be baby sitters. It’s a sad day when anyone has to go through what some of us have gone through. Some worse than others, but in the end, it can simply be stopped with first reaching out privately to try and discuss the situation and if that doesn’t work then put them on ignore. Nothing will squash bullshit like a good old fashioned ignore.

Sorry for the ramble. I know this is longer than War and Peace, but I helped build this board. I am sad to see the state it is in today. Wish washy sure. It’s just how I feel right now and thankfully I have a forum in which I can express those thoughts. Better yet, it’s FREE.

Now about those pussies….

Dear Clowns,

Well said!

 

[NastyNyx]

Dear clown hating Litster,

I don't know you but I like you already. Bravo

PS...I hate clowns too.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Dear Hitchhiking contest host,

You broke this place. No one gave you permission to leave. Now stop crying about it and get back here and fix it.

Love,

Part of the problem

 

[IhateClowns]

That’s a whole lotta typing you just did for someone who doesn’t think anyones opinion doesn’t matter.

Just sayin.

Correct. Very true. I asked myself first. Didn’t direct it at one individual and made a generalized statement. Now if it were directed at you specifically or any other Litster then well that’s something different in my mind.

 

[IhateClowns]

That’s a whole lotta typing you just did for someone who doesn’t think anyones opinion doesn’t matter.

Just sayin.

Plus my opinion doesn’t really matter on here. At least anymore. I just wanted to let people know that at one point in time this board was a lot of fun. Hardy any drama and craziness. I stopped in to say hello and all I read was dumpster fire and stuff like that. That made me genuinely sad because this place brought me a lot of joy.

 

[IhateClowns]

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

I did just that. I stopped coming in as much and focused on things in my life and made those much better.

There’s always been drama in my time here. The players just change. There’s also less players now. Maybe that’s why it’s more prominent.

There’s always been drama yes, but not nearly as vicious as I have heard about over the past year. We all came here for one reason or another and I can only speak for me, that reason changed as things in our lives typically do. Then again when I was on here I was lost in my own little world. So maybe I am naive to it all.

 

[IhateClowns]

Also, Dear IHC,

Stay for a bit.

You may be surprised at the pockets of love. Reading a few threads doesn’t encompass what’s transpired in the past 2 years, or however long it’s been.

Yours,
Fara

I am sure there are many places and people who thrive on here. That’s the main reason why I always come back. Whether it is for a day, week month or longer. I guess because I don’t care what others think of me, I get defensive when others get shit on. Like I said before maybe I was oblivious and it’s been vicious the entire time I have been here. I just make sure that it isn’t directed my way. And when it is I try to do something about it or ignore them to end it.

 

[IhateClowns]

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

RS and I got into it at one point. I don’t remember why, but neither of us were cunts to each other. We realized that each had their own opinion and we squashed it. Maybe we are just built differently.

 

[IhateClowns]

Dear Litsters,


Just want to clarify that I have caused drama over the years as well. Not to the extent of others. Lord knows I am no saint. Lol. I just wanted to make that very clear.

Signed,

Askew Halo

 

[IhateClowns]

I don’t even remember. But we sorted it like big kids.

Lol yes we did. I am sure I said something offensive that I thought was funny and it didn’t come across that way. I have foot in mouth syndrome. Both on here and in RL.

 

[IhateClowns]

Also he had the hottest ampics that there ever was.

Literally. That damn onesie was a sauna.

 

[IhateClowns]

You also had a thread called, Rainshine and I want to know what the drama is.

Exactly my point. I wasn’t around much and I wanted to know what all I missed out on. That was when I didn’t feel the drama was a vicious as it seems to be now. Just like your above post states. That’s not drama. That is a crime. That’s more than drama. That’s someone trying to ruin someone else’s life. I don’t need to know about that stuff. It was the he said she said drama that happened that got the eye rolls that’s what that thread was about.

Had someone came on to it and said what you said that thread would have been deleted immediately and I would have spoken to that person private to see if there was anything he or she needed. Like I did with CPI fleas other Litsters when they asked for help.

 

[IhateClowns]

You also had a thread called, Rainshine and I want to know what the drama is.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1489788


So, stop scolding, unless you’re gonna spank us, too.

Fair enough. If my post came across as scolding then that’s how you read it. That wasn’t the intention. Like I said in the post words can be interpreted in many different ways.

As for spanking well I’m not into that. Never been my thing.

 

[IhateClowns]

Hahaha oh boy I got so much shit when my name was in there lol the best.

Just like 99% of the threads I ever started, it was all in jest. So bringing it up now makes it look like we were seeking it out. Is what it is. Being silly. It’s who I am on here. It’s what I have always done. Mostly original threads and being silly.

 

[IhateClowns]

Hi IHC! Nice to see you!

I feel like this place goes in waves. I think it was PLP I was talking to about this a while back, and she put it well. Waves of people come in at the same time, sort of like a classes in school. Each class has its own personality.

It changes every few months. I’ve come and gone a couple times. I’m not here much now at all. There are some really neat new (or new to me) people here, but getting to know someone online is hard (for me, at least. Others seem to do it much more easily than I do). I feel like I have people who are important to me outside of lit and thank goodness I found this weird little place because some Litsters are people I know I’ll have in my life for a very long time.

Hello SB. First off I hope all is well. Your AV will always be one of my all time favorites .

The point of the post was to let those who didn’t know, that at one point in time, many moons ago, this place had a very different vibe to it. That’s the vibe that I miss and one of a multitude of reasons I left and now sporadically come back. I feel like an old man when I say it was a different time. However, it really was. Then again, the reasons why I come by now are totally different than the reasons when I first started on this board. Apparently that message got lost in my rambling. Unfortunately that’s how and who I am. Go in with one intent, and it turns into something totally different.

 

[IhateClowns]

I know, I laughed when I saw it at the time and it was all in fun then.

Now shuddup and get ya onesie on.

Amen. Let’s move on. I will learn one of these days.


That onesie is in a museum somewhere.

 

[Dribble]

If one person is going to held to a certain standard for their behavior and constantly singled out...then your friends should be held to the same standard when they do the EXACT same thing. Just saying. Small world.

 

[IhateClowns]

If one person is going to held to a certain standard for their behavior and constantly singled out...then your friends should be held to the same standard when they do the EXACT same thing. Just saying. Small world.

Well said.

 

[Mr_bogey]

You also had a thread called, Rainshine and I want to know what the drama is.

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1489788


So, stop scolding, unless you’re gonna spank us, too.

Are there boobs hidden in there anywhere or can I just skip that thread?