Dear Litster... (continued)

[DarkSimian]

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and imperfect, so mistakes are inevitable on this level of life. All anyone can do in response to mistakes, is to take responsibility for them, apologize to any injured parties, try to work to undo what damage was done and act to do what is possible to ensure that the same mistakes are not repeated.

Because I did these things, I know I did what I could to repair our relationship. One thing I could never do is get you to accept my repeated apologies, or allow me to try to act to repair the damage. I couldn't even get you to talk with me about what happened. That will always make me sad, but not regretful; I know in my heart I did everything I could to make things right, or rebuild them on new ground.

One thing I do regret is accepting full responsibility for "killing us" by my two errors. I did need to accept responsibility for my errors and their impact - that part was true. Truthfully, I would have said anything at that point to try to save us and have a chance at repairing the damage I'd caused; I was and am deeply sorry that I caused you and us such pain.

But culpability in this case was shared, even if I bore the bulk of the blame. There were choices you made, words you could have spoken in the moment and actions you could have taken. You're big on "owning your shit." Well, I have owned mine; in this case, you never have.

I believe we could have repaired or rebuilt things, but one person can't make another try. I couldn't make you listen, or even respond. Silence in response to my 13 attempts stands in testament.

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

Can I forward this to my ex-wife?

 

[imhere_4fun]

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and imperfect, so mistakes are inevitable on this level of life. All anyone can do in response to mistakes, is to take responsibility for them, apologize to any injured parties, try to work to undo what damage was done and act to do what is possible to ensure that the same mistakes are not repeated.

Because I did these things, I know I did what I could to repair our relationship. One thing I could never do is get you to accept my repeated apologies, or allow me to try to act to repair the damage. I couldn't even get you to talk with me about what happened. That will always make me sad, but not regretful; I know in my heart I did everything I could to make things right, or rebuild them on new ground.

One thing I do regret is accepting full responsibility for "killing us" by my two errors. I did need to accept responsibility for my errors and their impact - that part was true. Truthfully, I would have said anything at that point to try to save us and have a chance at repairing the damage I'd caused; I was and am deeply sorry that I caused you and us such pain.

But culpability in this case was shared, even if I bore the bulk of the blame. There were choices you made, words you could have spoken in the moment and actions you could have taken. You're big on "owning your shit." Well, I have owned mine; in this case, you never have.

I believe we could have repaired or rebuilt things, but one person can't make another try. I couldn't make you listen, or even respond. Silence in response to my 13 attempts stands in testament.

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

Well said.

 

[makemewet69]

Dear Litster,

Thank you for telling me I have perfect curves. I kinda needed that ego boost today. It was very nice to hear.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

Dear Litster who wrote words I needed to read today.....

Thank you

Signed : Wasn't meant for me but I needed it anyway

 

[Mrtenant]

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and ........'snip'

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

So,....looks like you do hiking, (not a flirt, really, you're sexy, but ..no, not my type, I like DS, he's all beastly ) where do you hike? Do that often? Just started back up, myself after my Summer break from it. Too hot here in TX.


Cheers man.....http://img-fotki.yandex.ru/get/148218/310023662.38c9/0_791d85_9794b8c6_orig

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Thank you all for the kind comments.



That beer was perfect, Mrtenant. As for hiking, most of it's been uphill lately, but that's changing. And fall is absolutely the best hiking weather, almost everywhere; in Texas, I can imagine it's a cool washcloth to a fevered brow. Enjoy.

 

[SwtSassyNrse26]

The blue ridge parkway in the fall is phenomenal. MT Mitchell. Dear Litster should try it.

Signed : Loves to hike Litster.

 

[barefootgirl69]

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and imperfect, so mistakes are inevitable on this level of life. All anyone can do in response to mistakes, is to take responsibility for them, apologize to any injured parties, try to work to undo what damage was done and act to do what is possible to ensure that the same mistakes are not repeated.

Because I did these things, I know I did what I could to repair our relationship. One thing I could never do is get you to accept my repeated apologies, or allow me to try to act to repair the damage. I couldn't even get you to talk with me about what happened. That will always make me sad, but not regretful; I know in my heart I did everything I could to make things right, or rebuild them on new ground.

One thing I do regret is accepting full responsibility for "killing us" by my two errors. I did need to accept responsibility for my errors and their impact - that part was true. Truthfully, I would have said anything at that point to try to save us and have a chance at repairing the damage I'd caused; I was and am deeply sorry that I caused you and us such pain.

But culpability in this case was shared, even if I bore the bulk of the blame. There were choices you made, words you could have spoken in the moment and actions you could have taken. You're big on "owning your shit." Well, I have owned mine; in this case, you never have.

I believe we could have repaired or rebuilt things, but one person can't make another try. I couldn't make you listen, or even respond. Silence in response to my 13 attempts stands in testament.

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

 

[BlackCashmere]

:

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and imperfect, so mistakes are inevitable on this level of life. All anyone can do in response to mistakes, is to take responsibility for them, apologize to any injured parties, try to work to undo what damage was done and act to do what is possible to ensure that the same mistakes are not repeated.

Because I did these things, I know I did what I could to repair our relationship. One thing I could never do is get you to accept my repeated apologies, or allow me to try to act to repair the damage. I couldn't even get you to talk with me about what happened. That will always make me sad, but not regretful; I know in my heart I did everything I could to make things right, or rebuild them on new ground.

One thing I do regret is accepting full responsibility for "killing us" by my two errors. I did need to accept responsibility for my errors and their impact - that part was true. Truthfully, I would have said anything at that point to try to save us and have a chance at repairing the damage I'd caused; I was and am deeply sorry that I caused you and us such pain.

But culpability in this case was shared, even if I bore the bulk of the blame. There were choices you made, words you could have spoken in the moment and actions you could have taken. You're big on "owning your shit." Well, I have owned mine; in this case, you never have.

I believe we could have repaired or rebuilt things, but one person can't make another try. I couldn't make you listen, or even respond. Silence in response to my 13 attempts stands in testament.

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

Big hug

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

The blue ridge parkway in the fall is phenomenal. MT Mitchell. Dear Litster should try it.

Signed : Loves to hike Litster.

That is such a good suggestion. I have never been to Mt. Mitchell. There are a lot of good trails along the Blue Ridge Parkway, including just day hikes on the AT. Other places I like a lot are Maine, the Olympic Peninsula in Washington and pretty much any coastal redwood hike in Northern California.

Thank you.

:

Big hug

That felt good. Thanks.

 

[SoulAssasin247]

That is such a good suggestion. I have never been to Mt. Mitchell. There are a lot of good trails along the Blue Ridge Parkway, including just day hikes on the AT. Other places I like a lot are Maine, the Olympic Peninsula in Washington and pretty much any coastal redwood hike in Northern California.



Thank you.

That felt good. Thanks.

This may sound harsh but you're most likely better off. Some relationships were meant to die. We can use that pain to better ourselves and come out as someone stronger. Without pain and love loss how can we truly appreciate true love. Without the struggle and years looking how can we understand the value of true love. Best of luck.

 

[RoyceConnors]

Dear Litster, sometimes it's easier and better not to say anything and wonder why you treat me like you do. I'm tired of wondering why and don't want to bother knowing anymore. Scratch me off your dear sweet loving friend list.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Dear sad Litsters,

Don't let the bastards and bitches get you down. They are clearly not worth it.

~Someone please remind me of that next time I'm feeling disappointed.~



Love and cuddles,

Y'all will always be on my sweet sappy buddy list Litster

 

[RoyceConnors]

Dear sad Litsters,

Don't let the bastards and bitches get you down. They are clearly not worth it.

~Someone please remind me of that next time I'm feeling disappointed.~



Love and cuddles,

Y'all will always be on my sweet sappy buddy list Litster

Ty sweet Dee

 

[MaryanneB]

Dear Lister.....
I'll be waiting in bed when you get here. The door's unlocked.....

 

[johnnieblue44]

Dear Lister.....
I'll be waiting in bed when you get here. The door's unlocked.....

Good thing I'm in the same state, then.....

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

Dear Lister.....
I'll be waiting in bed when you get here. The door's unlocked.....

Dear Litster, I'm on my way!!!

Oh crap, yet another post that's not for me.....

Desperate deprived Litster

 

[ydahecnot]

Dear Litsters,

Too many broken hearts have fallen in the river. Too many lonely souls have drifted out to sea.

Be kind to each other.

Litster

 

[julybaby04]

Dear Litster-Who-Will-Never-Read-This,

Mistakes are inadvertent errors. I made them but I can no longer regret them. I am human and imperfect, so mistakes are inevitable on this level of life. All anyone can do in response to mistakes, is to take responsibility for them, apologize to any injured parties, try to work to undo what damage was done and act to do what is possible to ensure that the same mistakes are not repeated.

Because I did these things, I know I did what I could to repair our relationship. One thing I could never do is get you to accept my repeated apologies, or allow me to try to act to repair the damage. I couldn't even get you to talk with me about what happened. That will always make me sad, but not regretful; I know in my heart I did everything I could to make things right, or rebuild them on new ground.

One thing I do regret is accepting full responsibility for "killing us" by my two errors. I did need to accept responsibility for my errors and their impact - that part was true. Truthfully, I would have said anything at that point to try to save us and have a chance at repairing the damage I'd caused; I was and am deeply sorry that I caused you and us such pain.

But culpability in this case was shared, even if I bore the bulk of the blame. There were choices you made, words you could have spoken in the moment and actions you could have taken. You're big on "owning your shit." Well, I have owned mine; in this case, you never have.

I believe we could have repaired or rebuilt things, but one person can't make another try. I couldn't make you listen, or even respond. Silence in response to my 13 attempts stands in testament.

I didn't kill us. I injured us, and I'm deeply sorry for that. You let the injured body bleed to death on the floor, while I banged on the door with the EMS personnel.

Mistakes happen all the time....

.....her loss.

 

[adiriz95]

Dear litster..
These forums are too overwhelming..
I'm afraid I need a teacher..
Litster

 

[SoulAssasin247]

Dear litster..
These forums are too overwhelming..
I'm afraid I need a teacher..
Litster

Welcome to lit. The advice I would give you depends on why you're on lit. Any questions ask. Lesson 1 If you want to be liked by all don't follow my lead lol. Enjoy your time on lit.

 

[Kat73]

Dear TX litster.

Almost.

CA Litster

 

[AbsintheFather]

Dear Litster, sometimes it's easier and better not to say anything and wonder why you treat me like you do. I'm tired of wondering why and don't want to bother knowing anymore. Scratch me off your dear sweet loving friend list.

Dear Litster

If it's easier and better not to say anything, why are you posting this ?

Signed - Really tired of whining and complaining

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

This may sound harsh but you're most likely better off. Some relationships were meant to die. We can use that pain to better ourselves and come out as someone stronger. Without pain and love loss how can we truly appreciate true love. Without the struggle and years looking how can we understand the value of true love. Best of luck.

You are really harshing my heartache here. Yes, you are taking the larger view and it's a useful and creative way to proceed. My head agrees. My heart says, "Fuck, no. Fuck, fuck, fuck no. Fuck that." When you've built something over years with someone, you love them and want to try harder and the other person says, "um, no," well, that's just hard to accept.

It's reality, but it's still hard to accept.

Thank you, though. Your words are wise.

Dear sad Litsters,

Don't let the bastards and bitches get you down. They are clearly not worth it.

~Someone please remind me of that next time I'm feeling disappointed.~



Love and cuddles,

Y'all will always be on my sweet sappy buddy list Litster

Dear Litsters,

Too many broken hearts have fallen in the river. Too many lonely souls have drifted out to sea.

Be kind to each other.

Litster

Mistakes happen all the time....

.....her loss.

Thank you. I wish you huge, huge positivity going forward. You are a sweet entity on planet earth.

 

[DarkSimian]

Dear CA Litster,

1,247 miles is not enough to keep us apart. Every day, I am closer to you in my heart.

Your TX Litster