alildevilish
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Nude slumber parties now a days. I dont see the point in having 10 girls over my house for 12 hours to hang around each other nude. But I hear its the new craze.
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alildevilish
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its a true story
even read it in ann landers
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even read it in ann landers
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If they are comfortable with it I can't see that they have any problem.
I would not feel comfortable with it myself, though. I couldn't chat casually with a group of naked girls. So that's my problem.
I would not feel comfortable with it myself, though. I couldn't chat casually with a group of naked girls. So that's my problem.
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It works for Hef....
Just make sure you check ID's first....
Just make sure you check ID's first....
alildevilish
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let me see your school id please
they could be exploring women... no did i say that?
Mister Happy said:It works for Hef....
Just make sure you check ID's first....
they could be exploring women... no did i say that?
For ages young girls have always been made to feel awkward about their bodies and left to pick and find little things to go on about 'what is normal' and if they fit the mold. Well, last I checked there is no fucking mold. I think younger women are starting to see that this is the case.
Maybe Girls are taking back their rights to feel good about themselves, because they can see through these activities that ALL girls are different in some ways and similar in others. It is validating to thier need to feel okay about themselves.
I personally don't see anything wrong with it. I think that if it leads to disscussion about issues they face, or if it simply helps them feel more comfortable about themselves than it is empowering and not weird as so many people will veiw it.
It is our own insecurities and hang ups that prevent us from being comfortable with this idea.
Let's not allow another generation of people be raised in self doubt and embarassedment.
Maybe Girls are taking back their rights to feel good about themselves, because they can see through these activities that ALL girls are different in some ways and similar in others. It is validating to thier need to feel okay about themselves.
I personally don't see anything wrong with it. I think that if it leads to disscussion about issues they face, or if it simply helps them feel more comfortable about themselves than it is empowering and not weird as so many people will veiw it.
It is our own insecurities and hang ups that prevent us from being comfortable with this idea.
Let's not allow another generation of people be raised in self doubt and embarassedment.
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Actually, it's all a hoax.
Some joker sent Annie a letter, and she fell for it hook, line and sinker.
The whole thing's been disproved.
Some joker sent Annie a letter, and she fell for it hook, line and sinker.
The whole thing's been disproved.
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so maybe
If they can see that their friends are struggling with some of the same issues. Their bodys are changing they have to deal with that. I see your point.. very true
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If they can see that their friends are struggling with some of the same issues. Their bodys are changing they have to deal with that. I see your point.. very true
Back when I was a teen there were groups of teens who I knew who started up these "masturbation clubs". They would all come together in groups of 7 or more and they would each take a turn at rubbing off one person at a time. This wasn't just genitailia stimulation, but each person got a turn to lie down and be rubbed from head to toe by 7 or more people.
Their idea was that it satisfied all the needs one would have for physical stimulation except for intercourse, and that it was a way for them to prevent unwanted pregancies and disease transmission.
This was, to me, awkward at the time. I am only now becoming sexually free. Now that I look back on it, it is a brilliant way for teens to explore and learn, but to also be safe.
You've got to learn somehow.
Their idea was that it satisfied all the needs one would have for physical stimulation except for intercourse, and that it was a way for them to prevent unwanted pregancies and disease transmission.
This was, to me, awkward at the time. I am only now becoming sexually free. Now that I look back on it, it is a brilliant way for teens to explore and learn, but to also be safe.
You've got to learn somehow.
Urban Legend Is Disrobed, But Not Before Another Advice Columnist Bites
By DRU SEFTON
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(UNDATED) Relax, parents. Nude slumber parties full of 15-year-old girls are not "all the rage these days," as seen in the Ann Landers column of May 16.
Nor were they when the letter first appeared in print in 1995.
Landers is the latest of several prominent advisers to receive -- and answer -- the letter from a "Baffled Mom in Burlingame," troubled that her daughter wanted to attend one of the parties.
Dear Abby received a very similar letter three weeks ago and didn't bite.
"I think it's a hoot. I dismissed it as a young boy's prepubescent fantasy," said Jeanne Phillips, who writes under the pseudonym Abigail Van Buren for the column founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. "If this is a trend, I certainly haven't seen an avalanche of mail about it."
A nearly identical letter, signed "P.M., Burlingame, Calif.," appeared in the Ebony Advisor column of Ebony magazine in September 1995. (``Oh, I don't think we'd want to make any comment on that," a spokeswoman for Ebony said with a laugh.)
Phillips' mother, the original Dear Abby, received and published the letter from "Perplexed Mom in California" in April 1996. Her answer: "Tell her that you were not raised in an atmosphere that condoned casual nudity and you are uncomfortable with the idea of her attending nude slumber parties. Period."
Child psychologist T. Berry Brazelton published it (name and address withheld) in his May 1996 newspaper column, answering, "The nudity sounds pretty stimulating; I don't know why the other mother would encourage that. Maybe all you mothers should get together to discuss it."
While nude slumber parties were not and never have been a trend, "Nude Slumber Party" is the name of an adult videotape that promises to show what happens when "the clothes come off and the intimacies begin."
"What would really happen," Jeanne Phillips said from her Los Angeles office, "is once the girls stopped giggling they'd get cold and want to put something on."
The whole thing sounds suspiciously like an urban legend, said Cylin Busby, author of the upcoming book, "Pajama Party Uncovered."
Busby recalled rumors of nude all-girl slumber parties as early as 1993 -- the same year she wrote a thesis on the role of women in urban legends.
Busby also was senior editor of the former Teen magazine. "Of all the letters we got, and we'd get hundreds a week, I never saw one from any girl that had been invited to a nude slumber party and was wondering how to respond," she said.
Neither was child psychiatrist Elizabeth Berger familiar with nude slumber parties. "No, I've not heard of naked girl parties," she said from her office in Elkins Park, Pa.
"It's certainly not inappropriate for girls of 15 in the context of a hot summer day to jump into a lake," she added, but the emphasis there is on the lake, not on the nudity.
The subject intrigued Ann Landers.
"We received a letter, it seemed legitimate," said Marcy Sugar, Landers' spokeswoman. The columnist "had not heard of anything like it before."
In fact, Landers admitted as much in her answer to "Baffled in Burlingame."
"I'm as baffled as you are," she wrote, adding that "as long as you trust the mother of these girls to supervise for the duration of the party, I see no harm in it."
Coincidentally, Burlingame, Calif., is Jeanne Phillips' "old stomping ground." She graduated from Burlingame High.
"And," she added, "I can assure you that nude slumber parties were not the trend back then."
Newshouse News Service
By DRU SEFTON
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(UNDATED) Relax, parents. Nude slumber parties full of 15-year-old girls are not "all the rage these days," as seen in the Ann Landers column of May 16.
Nor were they when the letter first appeared in print in 1995.
Landers is the latest of several prominent advisers to receive -- and answer -- the letter from a "Baffled Mom in Burlingame," troubled that her daughter wanted to attend one of the parties.
Dear Abby received a very similar letter three weeks ago and didn't bite.
"I think it's a hoot. I dismissed it as a young boy's prepubescent fantasy," said Jeanne Phillips, who writes under the pseudonym Abigail Van Buren for the column founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. "If this is a trend, I certainly haven't seen an avalanche of mail about it."
A nearly identical letter, signed "P.M., Burlingame, Calif.," appeared in the Ebony Advisor column of Ebony magazine in September 1995. (``Oh, I don't think we'd want to make any comment on that," a spokeswoman for Ebony said with a laugh.)
Phillips' mother, the original Dear Abby, received and published the letter from "Perplexed Mom in California" in April 1996. Her answer: "Tell her that you were not raised in an atmosphere that condoned casual nudity and you are uncomfortable with the idea of her attending nude slumber parties. Period."
Child psychologist T. Berry Brazelton published it (name and address withheld) in his May 1996 newspaper column, answering, "The nudity sounds pretty stimulating; I don't know why the other mother would encourage that. Maybe all you mothers should get together to discuss it."
While nude slumber parties were not and never have been a trend, "Nude Slumber Party" is the name of an adult videotape that promises to show what happens when "the clothes come off and the intimacies begin."
"What would really happen," Jeanne Phillips said from her Los Angeles office, "is once the girls stopped giggling they'd get cold and want to put something on."
The whole thing sounds suspiciously like an urban legend, said Cylin Busby, author of the upcoming book, "Pajama Party Uncovered."
Busby recalled rumors of nude all-girl slumber parties as early as 1993 -- the same year she wrote a thesis on the role of women in urban legends.
Busby also was senior editor of the former Teen magazine. "Of all the letters we got, and we'd get hundreds a week, I never saw one from any girl that had been invited to a nude slumber party and was wondering how to respond," she said.
Neither was child psychiatrist Elizabeth Berger familiar with nude slumber parties. "No, I've not heard of naked girl parties," she said from her office in Elkins Park, Pa.
"It's certainly not inappropriate for girls of 15 in the context of a hot summer day to jump into a lake," she added, but the emphasis there is on the lake, not on the nudity.
The subject intrigued Ann Landers.
"We received a letter, it seemed legitimate," said Marcy Sugar, Landers' spokeswoman. The columnist "had not heard of anything like it before."
In fact, Landers admitted as much in her answer to "Baffled in Burlingame."
"I'm as baffled as you are," she wrote, adding that "as long as you trust the mother of these girls to supervise for the duration of the party, I see no harm in it."
Coincidentally, Burlingame, Calif., is Jeanne Phillips' "old stomping ground." She graduated from Burlingame High.
"And," she added, "I can assure you that nude slumber parties were not the trend back then."
Newshouse News Service
But I also found this...
Mom arrested after sexually oriented party
Some people have the coolest moms!
Mom arrested after sexually oriented party
Some people have the coolest moms!
