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Lustful_Intentions said:
Rose-

I've been a silent lurker on this thread, but respect for that line between what arouses you and what crosses a line is something that he needs to have for you, whoever he is. These things are to be fun, not stress-inducing.

Just my unsolicited 2 cents
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your 2 cents nailed it. it was stressful and i didn't feel that i was respected. but the good thing is now i can have fun :p
 
roses_n_thorns said:
hiya all,

i took your advice and told the daddy i was seeing that as his requests makes me uncomfortable, its better that we dont do this...

it was hard, but youre all right. its better this way. maybe there will be a daddy for me who respects me for me.
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Good girl,

very good girl.

:)
 
Lustful_Intentions said:
Rose-

I've been a silent lurker on this thread, but respect for that line between what arouses you and what crosses a line is something that he needs to have for you, whoever he is. These things are to be fun, not stress-inducing.

Just my unsolicited 2 cents
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Well put. :rose:
 
Passing thru

Hugs and kisses to the ladies

Quick nods and handshakes to the gents

Just got in from a long day. I wish I could have squoze in earlier for the group hug. In any case, it rubs off! I feel better just reading. Cool, huh?

Rose, I think you know you are not alone. We have all been through this to some extent. I know I have. Every relationship is a negotiation. Even those meant to be fun! We don't like reducing it to that most of the time, but in the end it is. Those too selfish to work on balance don't deserve the benefits of our friendship, even if we are, umm?, unconventional.

No matter in which direction played, submission is a gift to be given and received as a luxury, and to be savored as if it were the last time every time.
 
StoneWorker said:
Hugs and kisses to the ladies

Quick nods and handshakes to the gents

Just got in from a long day. I wish I could have squoze in earlier for the group hug. In any case, it rubs off! I feel better just reading. Cool, huh?

Rose, I think you know you are not alone. We have all been through this to some extent. I know I have. Every relationship is a negotiation. Even those meant to be fun! We don't like reducing it to that most of the time, but in the end it is. Those too selfish to work on balance don't deserve the benefits of our friendship, even if we are, umm?, unconventional.

No matter in which direction played, submission is a gift to be given and received as a luxury, and to be savored as if it were the last time every time.
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Hi and welcome home after your long day! Hugs!

I agree with your last statement too. Submission is a special present to be given and received. Not demanded. Savored--good word.
 
roses_n_thorns said:
i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired...
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Sounds to me like a HNG (Horny Net Geek).

Some guys (especially online) can often confuse porn with reality. They don't get the idea that teachers can't go around in short skirts without panties, or officer workers can't walk around in a sheer blouse with no bra. It's not "exciting" or "daring" when it puts your career at risk.
 
roses_n_thorns said:
thanks ineedlove :) it was really really hard

i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired... i think he just wanted a bimbo slut and not a lil girl.

live and learn, i guess? maybe there is maybe there isn't, but i won't be uncomfortable :)
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It is always a good idea to have your limits - both soft and hard - expressed and written. If he cannot abide by this, the person is not a Daddy, just a wannabe confused by porn and/or the internet.
 
Guess it's off to bed. Sleep well daddies and girls. May your dreams be filled with soft kisses and big snuggles!
 
RjThoughts said:
It is always a good idea to have your limits - both soft and hard - expressed and written. If he cannot abide by this, the person is not a Daddy, just a wannabe confused by porn and/or the internet.
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Well said.

There is a lot more I'd like to say, but I'm in a brain fog right now.
 
INeedLove said:
Hi and welcome home after your long day! Hugs!

I agree with your last statement too. Submission is a special present to be given and received. Not demanded. Savored--good word.
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Thanks! More hugs back!

So much of our lives involve involuntary submission. It is a given. We have to maintain control of what is left or all of our pieces will be scattered.

Yes it was a loooooong day but satisfying as I am at the end of a very very long project. I was able to close it out with a component that is my specialty. Nobody else can do it and when people in my industry look at it they know I did it. What a rush! Made the 2.5 hour drive home almost worth it:eek:

nite nite
 
Ok, I'm going to try and explain this, but I bet I end up rambling.

Submission is a gift, not something that can be taken by force. It is a privilege to be given that gift, because it comes with trust. Any Dom, Daddy or otherwise, will respect that trust and the bond between the Dom and sub. Otherwise, the relationship will inevitably fail.

Daddies are there to push our limits at times, yes. But, they also must know when those limits have been reached, and not continue to force the issue. If you are not comfortable enough to admit that something doesn't seem quite right to you, then maybe the trust isn't where it should be.

It should be both give and take, and in equal parts. There are days that I feel like I take more than I give. And I'm sure my Daddy feels the same. However, I'm comfortable with him, and we talk about everything, and I do mean everything. More than half of the time that we talk, it is just talking. Sharing our days with each other, experiences, thoughts, ramblings, etc. The sexual play is nice, but that's not all our relationship is about. They aren't just roles we play.

I hope that makes sense.
 
StoneWorker said:
Hugs and kisses to the ladies

Quick nods and handshakes to the gents

Just got in from a long day. I wish I could have squoze in earlier for the group hug. In any case, it rubs off! I feel better just reading. Cool, huh?

Rose, I think you know you are not alone. We have all been through this to some extent. I know I have. Every relationship is a negotiation. Even those meant to be fun! We don't like reducing it to that most of the time, but in the end it is. Those too selfish to work on balance don't deserve the benefits of our friendship, even if we are, umm?, unconventional.

No matter in which direction played, submission is a gift to be given and received as a luxury, and to be savored as if it were the last time every time.
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Wonderful way to put it, SW. :kiss:
 
photograph said:
Ok, I'm going to try and explain this, but I bet I end up rambling.

Submission is a gift, not something that can be taken by force. It is a privilege to be given that gift, because it comes with trust. Any Dom, Daddy or otherwise, will respect that trust and the bond between the Dom and sub. Otherwise, the relationship will inevitably fail.

Daddies are there to push our limits at times, yes. But, they also must know when those limits have been reached, and not continue to force the issue. If you are not comfortable enough to admit that something doesn't seem quite right to you, then maybe the trust isn't where it should be.

It should be both give and take, and in equal parts. There are days that I feel like I take more than I give. And I'm sure my Daddy feels the same. However, I'm comfortable with him, and we talk about everything, and I do mean everything. More than half of the time that we talk, it is just talking. Sharing our days with each other, experiences, thoughts, ramblings, etc. The sexual play is nice, but that's not all our relationship is about. They aren't just roles we play.

I hope that makes sense.
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It made perfect sense. Thanks for posting it. :rose:
 
RawHumor said:
Polygamy, in any of its forms, CAN work, but if you have reservations going in and he is brushing them aside (I assume you HAVE told him, right?), then I would be concerned about you in this relationship.

Bringing another person in is a pretty big deal, and not one to just be forced upon a person. Being submissive doesn't mean being a doormat, as was said above, and it's not wrong to have a sense of self worth that goes beyond just taking whatever he wants to throw at you just because you call him Daddy.
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Thumbs up!
 
photograph said:
Daddies are there to push our limits at times, yes. But, they also must know when those limits have been reached, and not continue to force the issue. If you are not comfortable enough to admit that something doesn't seem quite right to you, then maybe the trust isn't where it should be.


I hope that makes sense.
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We push to find the limits, then honor them. Thats how we earn respect. Respect is always earned. Otherwise there is no trust.

I need to be pushed too. Sometimes I don't realize how static I've become.
 
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