Daddy Fetish

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motivation, eh? yup, i know that feeling.

I technically don't have to do any of them til tomorrow, but tomorrow is going to be a pretty busy day as is, and my car will be in the shop. So, I need to do some, if not all, of them today. *sigh*

 

[thecurioussubmissive]

New Sub

So my daddy wants to add another to our relationship. Another girl. He says that I'd remain #1 but I'm scared. What if he ends up wanting her more? It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end, I can't stop him and I don't want to if this is what he wants but it scares me. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

[sereneone4u]

So my daddy wants to add another to our relationship. Another girl. He says that I'd remain #1 but I'm scared. What if he ends up wanting her more? It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end, I can't stop him and I don't want to if this is what he wants but it scares me. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Don't do anything that you don't want to do, period.

 

[DappleDoxie]

**It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end,**

Submissive is not doormat.

If it is a bad idea for one partner in the relationship, it is a BAD IDEA, period. It is not only his option, you still have a voice in your relationship. Use it.

 

[RjThoughts]

So my daddy wants to add another to our relationship. Another girl. He says that I'd remain #1 but I'm scared. What if he ends up wanting her more? It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end, I can't stop him and I don't want to if this is what he wants but it scares me. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

If it doesn't feel right, it isn't right!

 

[RawHumor]

So my daddy wants to add another to our relationship. Another girl. He says that I'd remain #1 but I'm scared. What if he ends up wanting her more? It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end, I can't stop him and I don't want to if this is what he wants but it scares me. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Polygamy, in any of its forms, CAN work, but if you have reservations going in and he is brushing them aside (I assume you HAVE told him, right?), then I would be concerned about you in this relationship.

Bringing another person in is a pretty big deal, and not one to just be forced upon a person. Being submissive doesn't mean being a doormat, as was said above, and it's not wrong to have a sense of self worth that goes beyond just taking whatever he wants to throw at you just because you call him Daddy.

 

[INeedLove]

Good Morning to all my Sisters and Daddies.
I see a lot has been going on. I'll try to catch up. Sorry if i miss anyone.

RA- so glad to hear you love your new job!

Serene- I give you credit for home schooling i dont have kids for medical reasons but i dont know that id have the patience.

Glad to hear that Mutato and Angel are safe in eachothers arms.

Cookie/Stan - thought i read your trip has been postponed but for good reasons? Hope the trip is soon.

Peaches - I dont remember reading anything specific but im sure you have news? job ? interview? house hunting? fill me in.

Photo- did you get moved into your moms ok?

hello to everyone else TT, INL, DD, RJ,SW,HS and anyone else that i missed or stops by. Hope you have a lovely day!

HI CA!! I hope today is a good day for you!

good afternoon, verts.

how's the LGs and Daddies?

Hi daddy GA!! Good to see you poking in!

So my daddy wants to add another to our relationship. Another girl. He says that I'd remain #1 but I'm scared. What if he ends up wanting her more? It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end, I can't stop him and I don't want to if this is what he wants but it scares me. What should I do? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Communication is key. You need to talk to him. It's his option but you don't have to stay in the relationship if it's going to harm you psychologically (or otherwise). Hugs!

Don't do anything that you don't want to do, period.

**It just seems like a bad idea to me. But I'm new at this. Am I just being stupid and insecure. It's his option in the end,**

Submissive is not doormat.

If it is a bad idea for one partner in the relationship, it is a BAD IDEA, period. It is not only his option, you still have a voice in your relationship. Use it.

I agree with both of these wonderful ladies

 

[INeedLove]

I technically don't have to do any of them til tomorrow, but tomorrow is going to be a pretty busy day as is, and my car will be in the shop. So, I need to do some, if not all, of them today. *sigh*

Hi Photo! I hope the moving is working out well. With all of this running around, I hope you get some time to relax.

 

[roses_n_thorns]

hiya all,

i took your advice and told the daddy i was seeing that as his requests makes me uncomfortable, its better that we dont do this...

it was hard, but youre all right. its better this way. maybe there will be a daddy for me who respects me for me.

 

[INeedLove]

hiya all,

i took your advice and told the daddy i was seeing that as his requests makes me uncomfortable, its better that we dont do this...

it was hard, but youre all right. its better this way. maybe there will be a daddy for me who respects me for me.

Sorry it didn't work out with him. You were brave to speak up. There is a daddy out there for you.

 

[roses_n_thorns]

Sorry it didn't work out with him. You were brave to speak up. There is a daddy out there for you.

thanks ineedlove it was really really hard

i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired... i think he just wanted a bimbo slut and not a lil girl.

live and learn, i guess? maybe there is maybe there isn't, but i won't be uncomfortable

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

thanks ineedlove it was really really hard

i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired... i think he just wanted a bimbo slut and not a lil girl.

live and learn, i guess? maybe there is maybe there isn't, but i won't be uncomfortable

Rose-

I've been a silent lurker on this thread, but respect for that line between what arouses you and what crosses a line is something that he needs to have for you, whoever he is. These things are to be fun, not stress-inducing.

Just my unsolicited 2 cents

 

[roses_n_thorns]

Rose-

I've been a silent lurker on this thread, but respect for that line between what arouses you and what crosses a line is something that he needs to have for you, whoever he is. These things are to be fun, not stress-inducing.

Just my unsolicited 2 cents

your 2 cents nailed it. it was stressful and i didn't feel that i was respected. but the good thing is now i can have fun

 

[sereneone4u]

hiya all,

i took your advice and told the daddy i was seeing that as his requests makes me uncomfortable, its better that we dont do this...

it was hard, but youre all right. its better this way. maybe there will be a daddy for me who respects me for me.

Good girl,

very good girl.

 

[sereneone4u]

Rose-

I've been a silent lurker on this thread, but respect for that line between what arouses you and what crosses a line is something that he needs to have for you, whoever he is. These things are to be fun, not stress-inducing.

Just my unsolicited 2 cents

Well put.

 

[roses_n_thorns]

Good girl,

very good girl.

thank you sometimes, its enough to call myself a good girl for doing the right thing!

 

[Lustful_Intentions]

your 2 cents nailed it. it was stressful and i didn't feel that i was respected. but the good thing is now i can have fun

Good-that's the whole point of this place. I hope you find exactly what it is you need

 

[roses_n_thorns]

Good-that's the whole point of this place. I hope you find exactly what it is you need

thank you i hope so to but i guess i learned my lesson and will move a bit carefully.

and have lotsa fun.

and this was my 100th post lol.

 

[INeedLove]

thank you i hope so to but i guess i learned my lesson and will move a bit carefully.

and have lotsa fun.

and this was my 100th post lol.

Congratulations on 100 posts! Now you can get an av pic if you want one.

 

[StoneWorker]

Passing thru

Hugs and kisses to the ladies

Quick nods and handshakes to the gents

Just got in from a long day. I wish I could have squoze in earlier for the group hug. In any case, it rubs off! I feel better just reading. Cool, huh?

Rose, I think you know you are not alone. We have all been through this to some extent. I know I have. Every relationship is a negotiation. Even those meant to be fun! We don't like reducing it to that most of the time, but in the end it is. Those too selfish to work on balance don't deserve the benefits of our friendship, even if we are, umm?, unconventional.

No matter in which direction played, submission is a gift to be given and received as a luxury, and to be savored as if it were the last time every time.

 

[INeedLove]

Hugs and kisses to the ladies

Quick nods and handshakes to the gents

Just got in from a long day. I wish I could have squoze in earlier for the group hug. In any case, it rubs off! I feel better just reading. Cool, huh?

Rose, I think you know you are not alone. We have all been through this to some extent. I know I have. Every relationship is a negotiation. Even those meant to be fun! We don't like reducing it to that most of the time, but in the end it is. Those too selfish to work on balance don't deserve the benefits of our friendship, even if we are, umm?, unconventional.

No matter in which direction played, submission is a gift to be given and received as a luxury, and to be savored as if it were the last time every time.

Hi and welcome home after your long day! Hugs!

I agree with your last statement too. Submission is a special present to be given and received. Not demanded. Savored--good word.

 

[RawHumor]

i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired...

Sounds to me like a HNG (Horny Net Geek).

Some guys (especially online) can often confuse porn with reality. They don't get the idea that teachers can't go around in short skirts without panties, or officer workers can't walk around in a sheer blouse with no bra. It's not "exciting" or "daring" when it puts your career at risk.

 

[RjThoughts]

thanks ineedlove it was really really hard

i think we just moved too fast and right off the bat he made some strong requests that could get me fired... i think he just wanted a bimbo slut and not a lil girl.

live and learn, i guess? maybe there is maybe there isn't, but i won't be uncomfortable

It is always a good idea to have your limits - both soft and hard - expressed and written. If he cannot abide by this, the person is not a Daddy, just a wannabe confused by porn and/or the internet.

 

[INeedLove]

Guess it's off to bed. Sleep well daddies and girls. May your dreams be filled with soft kisses and big snuggles!

 

[RjThoughts]

Guess it's off to bed. Sleep well daddies and girls. May your dreams be filled with soft kisses and big snuggles!

Sleep well, dream better