D/s and/or BDSM Games

Ebonyfire

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Do you have any D/s favorite games that you would like to share?

Have you ever attended a private or public fetish party, and found a game or two that you really loved?

Here is the place to share them.

Eb
 
Balloons & whips

I remember going to a party where the subs were on all fours, and the had big balloons between their ass cheeks and people paid to see if they could burst the balloon without hitting the asscheeks to much.

Of course the asscheeks seem to get their share of red marks.

The whip was a single tail, and the purpose was to train people to be more accurate with it. It worked, and the subs had a good time.
 
Re: Balloons & whips

Ebonyfire said:
I remember going to a party where the subs were on all fours, and the had big balloons between their ass cheeks and people paid to see if they could burst the balloon without hitting the asscheeks to much.

Of course the asscheeks seem to get their share of red marks.

The whip was a single tail, and the purpose was to train people to be more accurate with it. It worked, and the subs had a good time.
Damn...now that sounds like a party I could really enjoy!
 
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Shadowsdream said:
Damn...now that sounds like a party I could really enjoy!

Me too! It is a game I would love to play again.
 
I have a particular memory of a MISS Dinner I attended that keeps coming to My mind...it was the diversity of activities going on simutaneously that I enjoyed.
One of the Mistresses was doing incredible rope bondage on Her live in slave while another was candle waxing the ass of a bound submissive She had been assigned for the event. I was alternating between spanking My trainee and cropping the slave as both presented their almost naked beauty for My enjoyment.
A new member was trying out her Domination, stepping out of her usual submissive role by commanding the cook to massage her feet for over 2 hours. Another had Her live in slave suspended by the wrists from an overhead beam while She brought him to a slow painfully frustrating orgasm to the delight of a small crowd of Dominants. Several Dommes were just sitting
back with their feet resting on the backs of the toys they had chosen from those fortunate enough to have been allowed to serve at this event.
One day I will try to remember what the male Doms were doing...it was the first time the Doms had been invited to a Domme Dinner.
 
hmm ok before we met in person.. we had a bet. He bet he could make me cum within 15 minutes..
I was under the impression that just ment oral LOL Well the bet was that the loser had to do whatever the other wished for at least one hour the night before he leaves. I was sure I was going to win so I said SURE! but then I started doubting and wondering what hed have me do if I lost LOL I was a little concerned. he said not to worry I'd have fun he wouldnt make me drink drano or anything :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

anyway he got here and yeppers he managed to get me to cum with a vibrating egg in like 5 minutes
I didnt say anything..I figured maybe hed forget the bet. he doesnt forget anything LOL he didnt bring it up neither one of us did. I was sure he forgot. anyway a few months ago he said "you thought I forgot?? do you wonder what I wanted to do with you?" I was like... yes???
I should say the night before he left we had a beautiful night together. anyway he answered "I wanted to make love you to nice and slow" hehe

well it seems he hadnt forgotten our game plan LOL
was.. rather.. an interesting game/bet hehe

I didnt know the beautiful night we had was in the result of the bet. I honestly thought h eh had forgotten. when he told me this a few months ago. I was like I should make more bets like this then :devil:
He said that the next time doesnt mean he will do the same thing.
 
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Pixie Mischief said:
Me and BF have had some sex games.. but not sure if they apply here hehe

If they are just sexual, no they do not apply here. They must be BDSM or D/s oriented. Sexual stuff belongs on the GB or the playground.
 
Shadowsdream said:
Another had Her live in slave suspended by the wrists from an overhead beam while She brought him to a slow painfully frustrating orgasm to the delight of a small crowd of Dominants.

I am adding this to my list of party pieces....
 
Sometimes, Dommes or female submissive friends would be over. We made a bdsm list of truth or dare items to be picked out of a sack (or hat). This was done just for amusement and a "girls" night out precursor to going out to the club.
 
WynEternal said:
Sometimes, Dommes or female submissive friends would be over. We made a bdsm list of truth or dare items to be picked out of a sack (or hat). This was done just for amusement and a "girls" night out precursor to going out to the club.

I have noticed that the game "Truth or Dare" has made a comeback at parties.

It sure beats charades.
 
Ebonyfire said:
I have noticed that the game "Truth or Dare" has made a comeback at parties.

It sure beats charades.

My knees shook like heck if I won the dice toss and Mistress lost.
 
Naked Twister

I wonder if this game can be revised to a BDSM slant.
 
Re: Naked Twister

Ebonyfire said:
I wonder if this game can be revised to a BDSM slant.

Subbies with oil on themselves. A large see through tarp over the twister mat. The subbie who ends up on the bottom has to submit to the one on top or tied up for a flogging or anything else...

Edit: All for the amusement of the Dominants of course.
 
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WynEternal said:
Subbies with oil on themselves. A large see through tarp over the twister mat. The subbie who ends up on the bottom has to submit to the one on top or tied up for a flogging or anything else...

Edit: All for the amusement of the Dominants of course.

That works for Me. Sounds like fun.
 
A story:

Once, Mistress was entertaining a Dom who brought one of his boys and a girl over. His boy was given permission to look at the toys and pick them up. As I was walking past, I received a swat by the crop the boy was holding.

Both Mistress and his Dom were shocked by this breech of etiquette. Instead of having him punished, Mistress had a better idea (and one more amusing). The two of us would duel (Mistress knew at this time I was a fencer, so the poor boy didn't really have a chance, but he was so cocky and full of himself that he didn't know). I went and retreived Mistress' crop.

Simple rules. We stayed in the immediate area, and no head shots. The winner would get to deliver ten flogs to the loser with their choice of floggers.

My coach would've been proud. LOL. The poor boy didn't have a chance, and after several minutes of getting hit all over his body and getting parried, he smacked me in the face. He was disqualified and was bent over a stool while I picked out a horse-tail flogger (like the one James has).

I had never administered a flogging before and ended up missing the first time, and just brushing him lightly the second time. He was laughing at me now, to the amusement of both my Mistress and his Dom. They decided to step in at this point and to administer the flogging themselves, much to the boy's chagrin.
 
Re: A story:

WynEternal said:
Once, Mistress was entertaining a Dom who brought one of his boys and a girl over. His boy was given permission to look at the toys and pick them up. As I was walking past, I received a swat by the crop the boy was holding.

Both Mistress and his Dom were shocked by this breech of etiquette. Instead of having him punished, Mistress had a better idea (and one more amusing). The two of us would duel (Mistress knew at this time I was a fencer, so the poor boy didn't really have a chance, but he was so cocky and full of himself that he didn't know). I went and retreived Mistress' crop.

Simple rules. We stayed in the immediate area, and no head shots. The winner would get to deliver ten flogs to the loser with their choice of floggers.

My coach would've been proud. LOL. The poor boy didn't have a chance, and after several minutes of getting hit all over his body and getting parried, he smacked me in the face. He was disqualified and was bent over a stool while I picked out a horse-tail flogger (like the one James has).

I had never administered a flogging before and ended up missing the first time, and just brushing him lightly the second time. He was laughing at me now, to the amusement of both my Mistress and his Dom. They decided to step in at this point and to administer the flogging themselves, much to the boy's chagrin.

It is a shame that he had never learned to be gracious in defeat.
 
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Ebonyfire said:
It is a shame that he had never learned to be gracious in defeat.

It was all in fun. I actually also was laughing along with him (and blushing at the same time). Afterwards, he was a quiet observer to the rest of the procedings. That was the only time his Dom brought him over though.
 
Re: Balloons & whips

Ebonyfire said:
I remember going to a party where the subs were on all fours, and the had big balloons between their ass cheeks and people paid to see if they could burst the balloon without hitting the asscheeks to much.

Of course the asscheeks seem to get their share of red marks.

The whip was a single tail, and the purpose was to train people to be more accurate with it. It worked, and the subs had a good time.

Thank you for the excellent idea Eb. :)
 
*hops eagerly* more! more! i'm loving these!

i've never been to a public scene or really played any "games" as such, but i'm hoping to get ideas!
 
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navarre said:
Thank you for the excellent idea Eb. :)

You can also use a bullwhip. A variation is to blindfold the person with the whip.
 
A Dominant Auction

Have any of you ever attended a Dom/me and/or slave auction?

The BDSM Group I belonged to had fundraisers. The money was used to fund future parties and activities.

One fun games was a Dom/me & slave auction where submissives and other Dom/mes could bid on subs/slave & Dominants for play time in 30 minutes increments.

It was a turn the tables on a Dom/me kind of thing, and other subs who had permission to bid could try the other side of things in a safe environment. It used to raise a lot of money.
 
The club I used to attend had slave auctions, but it wasn't used to raise money. Actually, the patrons were given play money when they entered and negotiations were done both prior and after the bidding.
 
WynEternal said:
The club I used to attend had slave auctions, but it wasn't used to raise money. Actually, the patrons were given play money when they entered and negotiations were done both prior and after the bidding.

Play money would work. Excellent! Then it could be done just for the hell of it.
 
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