Curious male (Ottawa Canada) sub wondering what a fem/dom is

[memyself_andi]

Hello,

New to the bd community (though I have been tied up, and "done" with a strapon in the past) But I thought I'd take it a little forward and ask about chatting, with refernce to the sub/domme relationship.

Like, is the bd part of bdsm, bondag, and what not. (I need to learn)

If you' like to chat, great, and instruct me, that would be fantastic too

if not, thank you for your time in reading this

xo

memyselfandi

 

[Shadowsdream]

Hello,

New to the bd community (though I have been tied up, and "done" with a strapon in the past) But I thought I'd take it a little forward and ask about chatting, with refernce to the sub/domme relationship.

Like, is the bd part of bdsm, bondag, and what not. (I need to learn)

If you' like to chat, great, and instruct me, that would be fantastic too

if not, thank you for your time in reading this

xo

memyselfandi

bd= bondage and discipline...

 

[MissTaken]

There is lots to read here, that will help you along your way.

Take a peek at the BDSM library and the Welcome message at the top of the page.

I would also recommend joining a local munch group. A munch group is a social organization of BDSMers adn Ottawa has several. I know of several Dommes in the area who are interested in meeting a submissive or just talking with one.

The munches can be located by doing an interenet search. They have a yahoo chat group, as well.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/thisgroup/

If you are interested in meeting a Domme on line to chat with, I would recommend posting an ad on the Personals Board here at lit or at alt.com or bondage. com.


You may also want to do some reading at Castlerealm.com.

Good luck and best wishes!

 

[memyself_andi]

Thank-you both

*bows*