curiouskinksplorer
Daddy Dom, Master
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- Sep 29, 2020
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I am looking for a long term relationship where we build trust over time and figure out the dynamic that works the best. We can start online, location is not an issue as I am always travelling around the world and work remotely.
About me and my dom philosophy: Politically - Socialist Feminist Anarchist - Think a Daddy Dom Hippie. A tech startup founder and ex software engineer by day but an art connoisseur by night. I am a new dom with loads of knowledge and lots of fantasies. I am feminist in real life but I love BDSM and dominating women in my fantasies. I don't think that's contradictory. My philosophy is that the patriarchal society and the animal instincts that we have condition us to want to dominate and hetero women to want to submit. I have seen in my previous relationships that my girlfriends who were strong feminists would secretly want to give up control in bed. Of course this is not to say that all women are submissive or women are naturally submissive but I think that controlled BDSM play is a nice psychological exercise to release the latent submissive and dominant tendencies that we secretly harbor. As much as I love domination, I do not crave for 24/7 control of the other person. Instead my view is that outside the play I will be using my privileged position to enable my partner and within play I will be a support for my partner to explore their submission and for them to experience their fantasies to be child-like if they are a little.
So it is clear from above I think that I am a Daddy Dom, while I love rough play, tying up and impact play. The thing I enjoy most is after play and taking care of my partner from a dominant side. I love doing even emotional labor for my partners and helping them work through their anxiety and shame in a safe environment.
Domination for me is just a word, what I really enjoy is to have someone trust me enough that they know they can be safe around me to explore the darkest recesses of their imagination and trust me to keep them safe from their psychological, emotional and sexual fears.
Stroking my partner's hair as she cuddles with me, resting her head on my chest and kissing her forehead is my favorite position.
About what I like in a partner: Submissive and self-aware about it. Willing to explore limits but not controlled by their fear completely. Open and obedient and loyal. I have no time for brats, no offence but I hated playing with my ex who was sub but bratty. So, now I only play with obedient and goody-two shoes subs who enjoy obedience more than punishment. Feminist in real life. High sexual libido. An awareness of mental health and willingness to learn more.
I love petite women - think angela from office. I am open to have an older submissive. In fact, it's a big fantasy of mine. And I have only ever had older gfs. I generally don't want anyone below 25 unless you are extremely mature for your age. And no way I can go below 21 (I would advise to explore vanilla and ideally with guys your own age till then. Older men might take advantage of your inexperience.)
Specific kinks and scenes: Pet Play, Impact Play, DDLG, high protocol periods, doll, inspection, rope play, tasks, rules and punishments, cum play, spit play.
Maybe want to explore: Watersports
Not interested: Medical play, scat, prolapse... Mostly extreme stuff.
PM me or reach out at curiouskinksplorer@gmail.com. Be you in the first email and tell me what you want.
About me and my dom philosophy: Politically - Socialist Feminist Anarchist - Think a Daddy Dom Hippie. A tech startup founder and ex software engineer by day but an art connoisseur by night. I am a new dom with loads of knowledge and lots of fantasies. I am feminist in real life but I love BDSM and dominating women in my fantasies. I don't think that's contradictory. My philosophy is that the patriarchal society and the animal instincts that we have condition us to want to dominate and hetero women to want to submit. I have seen in my previous relationships that my girlfriends who were strong feminists would secretly want to give up control in bed. Of course this is not to say that all women are submissive or women are naturally submissive but I think that controlled BDSM play is a nice psychological exercise to release the latent submissive and dominant tendencies that we secretly harbor. As much as I love domination, I do not crave for 24/7 control of the other person. Instead my view is that outside the play I will be using my privileged position to enable my partner and within play I will be a support for my partner to explore their submission and for them to experience their fantasies to be child-like if they are a little.
So it is clear from above I think that I am a Daddy Dom, while I love rough play, tying up and impact play. The thing I enjoy most is after play and taking care of my partner from a dominant side. I love doing even emotional labor for my partners and helping them work through their anxiety and shame in a safe environment.
Domination for me is just a word, what I really enjoy is to have someone trust me enough that they know they can be safe around me to explore the darkest recesses of their imagination and trust me to keep them safe from their psychological, emotional and sexual fears.
Stroking my partner's hair as she cuddles with me, resting her head on my chest and kissing her forehead is my favorite position.
About what I like in a partner: Submissive and self-aware about it. Willing to explore limits but not controlled by their fear completely. Open and obedient and loyal. I have no time for brats, no offence but I hated playing with my ex who was sub but bratty. So, now I only play with obedient and goody-two shoes subs who enjoy obedience more than punishment. Feminist in real life. High sexual libido. An awareness of mental health and willingness to learn more.
I love petite women - think angela from office. I am open to have an older submissive. In fact, it's a big fantasy of mine. And I have only ever had older gfs. I generally don't want anyone below 25 unless you are extremely mature for your age. And no way I can go below 21 (I would advise to explore vanilla and ideally with guys your own age till then. Older men might take advantage of your inexperience.)
Specific kinks and scenes: Pet Play, Impact Play, DDLG, high protocol periods, doll, inspection, rope play, tasks, rules and punishments, cum play, spit play.
Maybe want to explore: Watersports
Not interested: Medical play, scat, prolapse... Mostly extreme stuff.
PM me or reach out at curiouskinksplorer@gmail.com. Be you in the first email and tell me what you want.
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