Curious in San Antonio

[southtxcouple]

Hello. We're a typical married couple trying to venture out to explore our wilder side (actually trying to see if we have a wilder side). We're both new to this and are no-where near being pros. Wife is bi curious and interested in a 3some (MFF or MFM) with tons of questions. If anyone has some info, we would appreciate your input. Hope to hear from you soon.

 

[VincentFloyd]

i'm originally from san antonio, in fact visiting over x-mas holiday

 

[Thundercat]

I'm originally from S.A but I live in D.C now..... too bad! I'm plannin on moving back this summer, so maybe we can hook up then......21/m/bicurious

 

[southtxcouple]

Why always the guys offering?

Tell us, why do the guys think they are always sooooo hot?? We've noticed the ones to offer right away usually don't know that much anyway (after talking with them). Shouldn't conversation and compatability be considered?

 

[nice2try]

It's hot because...

...pleasuring a woman who is so sexually alive that she desires two men is like making love to a goddess. Doing whatever she craves while being respectful of her limits enables the ultimate in sharing and attaining passionate fulfillment.

There is no feeling like joining her man in sharing her in all her favorite, or imagined ways, giving her repeated orgasms...until she has had enough.

And, yes, first establishing a friendly rapport is essential. Something so intimate is not likely to be thoroughly enjoyed with strangers. Taking time to determine if all are compatible, totally healthy, and completely discreet will greatly increase the chances for everyone ending up with very fond memories. You may find that repeated occurrences of your threesome will be desired.

Good luck in finding the right man. Incidentally, I live in San Antonio. Meet for coffee?



Incidentally, I live in San Antonio. Meet for coffee?

 

[SuperFunCouple]

What about another couple?

 

[Jibsheet]

What about another couple?

Hi There,

Maybe this Dallas couple can answer a few of your questions? We are both enjoy what MFM play brings to our lives - what would you like to know?

 

[Jibsheet]

Re: Why always the guys offering?

Tell us, why do the guys think they are always sooooo hot?? We've noticed the ones to offer right away usually don't know that much anyway (after talking with them). Shouldn't conversation and compatability be considered?

*LOL* You know, it's amazing how many men out there think they simply have to say "Let's Do It" and we'll hop into bed with them.

We're *very* selective about who we play with, and compatibility is a very important criteria when we're looking at someone. We like the men we play with to be able to hold an intelligent conversation, laugh with us, and be able to have just as much fun having coffee or drinks or dinner as they do in bed.

So many people seem to forget that the mind is the most important erogenous zone!

But it's also important that there be some physical attraction between the three of us - after all, that physical attraction makes the mind start down those erotic pathways, doesn't it?

In any case, there's no need to be confused by this - if you reach the point of actively searching for a 3rd for your fun, you'll be turning down so many men that at first you think you'll never find the right one...but you will!

 

[southtxcouple]

Thanks for the input

Thanks to everyone who had something constructive to say, especially Jibsheet. You put it into perspective for us. And SuperFunCouple, we're not ruling another couple out. After the holidays we're going to come to a decision and go from there. Happy Holidays to all and speak to more of you soon.

 

[southtxcouple]

She wants a woman to be her first

Well, wife has decided and she wants to try a 3some with another woman first. Any offers?

 

[Lovin_to_death]

just a bit O advise

heh being in a few myself I can only say make sure that both of yall are REALLY comfortable with the situation and to leave and jealousy behind cause someone always gets to be the center of attention and usually one person kinda gets left out a bit any other questions yall might have just ask and Ill see if I can help yall out

 

[southtxcouple]

Re: just a bit O advise

Thanks for the advise

heh being in a few myself I can only say make sure that both of yall are REALLY comfortable with the situation and to leave and jealousy behind cause someone always gets to be the center of attention and usually one person kinda gets left out a bit any other questions yall might have just ask and Ill see if I can help yall out