Cumming

Aqua

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*sigh* It seems I have the hardest time cumming. When I first got to college and became more sexually aware (but stayed a virgin for.. awhile) my beau was able to get me off by fingering me.. but never anyway else. (He went down on me).. Well we broke up and I ran into a friend (who used me as a one nite stand.. what a way to lose my virginity) and we got a hotel room and spent a few days together.. but again he could only get me off by fingering me.. so I started dating someone else.. and no matter what he did I couldn't cum! I'd get right on the edge and just couldn't have an orgasim. Now.. there is someone that I really like.. and he's the only guy I've enjoyed eating me.. but I still can't cum.. any suggestions?
 
Hi Aqua...

I had the same problem with my ex...I was with him for 6 years and only had 2 orgasms that I didn't have to produce myself. I wouldn't exactly call myself sexually experienced, but my current BF is more adventurous with sex. My advice is to explore as many different positions in bed and try to find a couple that work just as well as I did.

Have fun and good luck :)


Angel
 
Thanx for the advice.. I guess it's a good thing he wants to try "everything" with me.. maybe we'll find something that works.. although this hasn't worked in the past.. maybe he'll be able to do something right...
 
Listen, women are complete mystries to many men. You say that maybe he'll be able to do something right? Poor guy, he's lost in the wilderness without a map. Give him a map! Tell him what you want and let him know when he's on the right path. Not after he fails, but during his explorations. We men can't read minds.
Can you reach orgasm by yourself? That is the way for you to learn your own body so you can suggest ways for your beau please you. Then during sex, if you know what will get you going, you can move or position yourself in a way that does it for you. Nothing is more exciting for a man than to have a woman takea really active role in satisfying herself. Don't be afraid to let him know.
 
Young women cumming

The harder you try the less likely you are to orgasm.
Enjoy sex for the pleasure it gives you, not for some end result. If you do this the big O will come in the most wonderful ways...:D
 
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