Cum Question

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[DelicateFlower]

Are there girls out there who just do not "ejaculate" when they cum? And if there is none, not just wet pussy juice but cum, does that mean you have not really orgasmed and came or cum, whatever the correct usage is? I really need to know...........

I don't "ejaculate" when I have an orgasm, but by God I know that I have had them...so I don't think it matters. SOme do and some don't.

DF

 

[wolf2002]

Most girls don;t ejaculate when they cum... it's really a special gift, and I think it says little about the intensity of an orgasm... squirting orgasms are usually caused by g-spot stimulation and I hear that can be pretty intense...

 

[SlyKitten]

"While all women have a G-spot, it has been estimated between 10% and 40% of women are capable of ejaculation. The G-spot need not be stimulated for ejaculation to occur, but most women say that their first ejaculation experience came from massaging their G-spot. The response varies from a light sprinkle to a huge gush. I have experienced women who gushed huge amounts of fluid 10 feet out."

Didn't have the time to find more percentages or studies or what-have-you.
Maybe search for something on that subject from Masters & Johnson.

I do not ejaculate and I have orgasms.

 

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[silverwhisper]

i see pics of girls with cum just dripping everywhere and i want to cum like that and so does he and then i get to thinking something must be wrong with me.

relax; i'm fairly certain that all men don't actually have 8" penises. :>

ed

 

[SlyKitten]

Is it just me or do the said female ejaculations in those videos look like
a) pee or b) milk or cream poured on the vulva?

And I don't think there is anything wrong with you, JenStar. Some women just will not ejaculate, no matter how hard they cum. Just like some women will never cum from penetration alone, no matter how much they like it or how skilled their partner is.

 

[lauracmk]

Hi JenStar, SlyKitten has said it pretty well, some girls are just not built that way (to squirt). Don't try too hard and don't feel bad about it, if your hubby likes the whole squirting thing then perhaps you can ask him to enjoy your pussy cream instead. Hope it works out for ya sweetie.

 

[MR.GGG]

Geeez !!

Just as men have been traumatized for years by not having an "18 inch dick of death" that some porn star FREAK is sporting, women are now thinking something is wrong if they don't spew goop when they cum. The porn industry has found a few women who, when stimulated the right way (note the intensity and angle just before they have a GSpot orgasm as per my TECHNIQUE in the TRY THIS thread) not only spew enormous amounts of liquid but at firehose velocity and ranges too. It is a GREAT trick for the cameras and who needs a fly swatter to get the bug off the ceiling when you have a REAL woman in the house, right?

Thinking this is "normal" is complete NONSENSE. Just because you or your woman can't put out large house fires when cumming does NOT mean she's faking orgasms either. Some women even at the very height of sexual stimulation barely get wet. Hellooo ... Why do you figure vaginal lubricants are so popular.

A recent study based on a huge poll of women sez that 15% of women NEVER orgasm and another 14% RARELLY orgasm during sex. Fully one third aren't getting any at all so there IS a huge amount of disinformation and ignorance out there now. This just compounds it by potraying cuming as spewing and that again is rare as twat teeth. If you rely on the porn industry for guidance you KNOW that a REAL woman can cum buckets if only the pool guy looks at her and scratches his crotch! It's very important to get real when it comes to differentiating between normal and what the doity movies show.

And most men DO have 12 inch erections! Some are much longer. The problem is about 60% of the actual erection is the "anchor" and it is INSIDE OUR bods where it attaches via ligaments to our pubic bone.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I agree with GGG. You certainly shouldnt' get hung up about this, it's jsut the way you are made. Nothing wrong with it.

I would mention one other thing that might interest you. The amount of lubrication not only varies from woman to woman, but from time to time. My wife has always been pretty wet, but she recently started taking hormones that increased her progesterone(trying to have a kid). Now she isn't wet, she's more like a water faucet. She doesn't squirt, but she gets EXTREMELY wet. When she quit takign the drugs for a month, she produced noticably less lubrication. I would say that there's a connection. Also pregnant women (at least friends I've known) seem to produce more lubrication. i wonder if this could be connected to higher progesterone levels.

Not saying that this is a scientific study or anything, jsut saying that there are lots of factors in a woman's body that effect these little things. Neither way is right or wrong, just different.

You poor girls and those complex, wonderous bodies you have to deal with. One of the reason I admire women so much is their ability to adapt to their ever-changing physical situations.

 

[lauracmk]

The amount of lubrication not only varies from woman to woman, but from time to time. My wife has always been pretty wet, but she recently started taking hormones that increased her progesterone(trying to have a kid). Now she isn't wet, she's more like a water faucet

I am going to have to do more research on that progesterone thing... I am as you describe a water faucet of pussy cream and I thought I was semi abnormal, now I know a possible cause of it =). Exactly how wet does your wife get if i may ask? Personally my pussy 'feels' like its flooded when I get aroused after a while where the cream builds up and it can actually start to leak from my pussy.

 

[SweetErika]

While we're talking about hormones and drugs, it should be noted there are a ton of things that can affect lubrication, including where you are in your cycle, (de)hydration, hormonal birth control (I've produced WAY more since I quit taking the pill), age, and tons of medications like decongestants.

I agree... porn is a poor thing th judge/compare yourself or your mate to. Have fun getting as wet as possible and exploring g-spot stimulation though!

 

[TBKahuna123]

God just thinking about it...

hormonal birth control (I've produced WAY more since I quit taking the pill)

Say doesn't the pil supress progesterone production as the means of stopping conception? Not sure, but seems like another link.

Exactly how wet does your wife get if i may ask? Personally my pussy 'feels' like its flooded when I get aroused after a while where the cream builds up and it can actually start to leak from my pussy.

Oh fuck, sopping! Ever seen a wet spot through a pair of jeans? We were at a concert fooling around for about an hour and she soaked clean through her blue jeans. As for leakign out, yeah without question. The sexiest sound in the world is that nice wet squishy sound. It's not uncommon for her to get so wet during sex that MY ass is soaked when we're done. The sexiest thing I have ever seen though was watching her touch herself and actually seeing cream oozing (not spurting) out as she masturbated.

Does that give a good enoguh idea of how wet she gets? This may very well be abnormal, because I have never been with another woman who got THAT wet. If it is, I consider my self lcuky. I like nothing better than a wet dripping, ummm.

Self pussy-cum eating slut addict and proud of it.

Damn. Excuse me, I gotta go now. I just wish my wife wasn't working this evening.

 

[BobJones69]

Just as men have been traumatized for years by not having an "18 inch dick of death" that some porn star FREAK is sporting, women are now thinking something is wrong if they don't spew goop when they cum. The porn industry has found a few women who, when stimulated the right way (note the intensity and angle just before they have a GSpot orgasm as per my TECHNIQUE in the TRY THIS thread) not only spew enormous amounts of liquid but at firehose velocity and ranges too. It is a GREAT trick for the cameras and who needs a fly swatter to get the bug off the ceiling when you have a REAL woman in the house, right?

Thinking this is "normal" is complete NONSENSE. Just because you or your woman can't put out large house fires when cumming does NOT mean she's faking orgasms either. Some women even at the very height of sexual stimulation barely get wet. Hellooo ... Why do you figure vaginal lubricants are so popular.

A recent study based on a huge poll of women sez that 15% of women NEVER orgasm and another 14% RARELLY orgasm during sex. Fully one third aren't getting any at all so there IS a huge amount of disinformation and ignorance out there now. This just compounds it by potraying cuming as spewing and that again is rare as twat teeth. If you rely on the porn industry for guidance you KNOW that a REAL woman can cum buckets if only the pool guy looks at her and scratches his crotch! It's very important to get real when it comes to differentiating between normal and what the doity movies show.
And most men DO have 12 inch erections! Some are much longer. The problem is about 60% of the actual erection is the "anchor" and it is INSIDE OUR bods where it attaches via ligaments to our pubic bone.

Great post!

 

[muddpuppy]

You know what? I have been asking that same question... I feel like i cum but nothing ever comes out, it started to make me wonder if i have ever really came. I mean, i get juicy and stuff but nothing ever squirts out... Its nice to know that im not the only one.

 

[muddpuppy]

Is it just me or do the said female ejaculations in those videos look like
a) pee or b) milk or cream poured on the vulva?

I will go with option A, i watched a movie called squirters and it looked like they were pissing all over the place.

 

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[lauracmk]

Hun, being dripping wet with pussy cream is much much sexier than being able to squirt, not to mention it tastes better as well, go ahead and try it and see for yourself . The squishy noises I make when fisting turns even myself on lol.

 

[lauracmk]

Oh fuck, sopping! Ever seen a wet spot through a pair of jeans? We were at a concert fooling around for about an hour and she soaked clean through her blue jeans. As for leakign out, yeah without question. The sexiest sound in the world is that nice wet squishy sound. It's not uncommon for her to get so wet during sex that MY ass is soaked when we're done. The sexiest thing I have ever seen though was watching her touch herself and actually seeing cream oozing (not spurting) out as she masturbated.

That's exactly how wet I get! So glad to know I am not 'abnormal' lol. Thanks for enlightening =).

 

[Wet Lady Ariel]

I produce a lot of cream when I am building up to orgasm, and if I am with a gal with a gal who is turning me one all during the evening, by the time I get down to business, my jeans are usually pretty sticky(I go commando ) However when I come it seems to be a mix of cream and clearer fluid, I do not squirt, but am working on that...I do believe that women who do ejaculate squirt a clear fluid that is not pee or the cream...been focuing a lot on the g spot area the past few days, and like they have described, I am seeing a swelling in that area and the vulva, so maybe I am on my way...
As far as orgasm, you know if you came, regardless of what type of juices you create, for me I am a dead give away, I spasm and throb for up to a few minutes or more after depending on the level of the orgasm, which can be a thrill to the giver!

 

[Cakegirl]

I don't ejaculate and never have, but I do have g-spot orgasms.

 

[wolf2002]

Some time ago I described a technique to stimulate a squirting orgasm... to be honest, I have never had positive results with this, but here it is...

"First condition is that the lady in question is very aroused, maybe has had an orgasm already and is very at her ease. Squirting can be triggered by stimulating the g-spot, so the lady's partner better concentrate on that. Slide one or two fingers in her pussy, the palm of the hand upwards and go for the 'spongy' little place which is the g-spot. Stimulating it will make it swell. It is usually less sensitive than the clitoris so you can use some pressure. The best is to rub the g-spot with your fingers as in a 'come here' movement. Ask the lady in question what she likes best and rub faster/slower/harder/softer if necessary.
At a certain moment she might feel as if she has to pee. Don't hold back at that moment, you really won't pee when reaching an orgasm. Continue fingering, arousing her, stimulate her nipples and clit, do whatever makes her very hot... When she starts cumming tell her to PUSH your fingers out of her pussy. Then let her relax. Once more let her push again really hard, but keep on fingering her with the 'come her' movement... Let her push and relax -- push and relax -- and repeat this till she starts to cum.
When she's relaxed enough and pushes again while cumming she might just squirt her juices out. TADDAA! Don't be embarassed, it's definitely not pee, it really are cum juices."

 

[TBKahuna123]

Nice and wet

Well, it just so happens that I had an interesting experience last night. My wife and I were discussing this thread and my progesterone theory. Of course she just rolled her eyes (she things I intellectualize things too much, where as she'd rather have me just shut up and make her cum ), but agreed there might be something there. So anyway, we've been playing aroud with the g-spot thing, and I do this thing similar to what Wolf2002 describes. I use two fingers inside, curled up against he g-spot and then my thumb on her clit. Basically I put pressure as if pinching my fingers together with her g-spot and clit (and everythign inbetween) between my fingers and thumb then make make small circular motions in opposite directions. Fun part is I picked this up from a story on Lit and thought I'd try it. hey it works!

Well of course she was wet and came hard, but I'd never felt her spams like that before. She made me stop because of overstimulation, but stay inside her and I could feel her absolutely throbbing around my fingers. Everytime she spamsed I could feel her wetness ooze out around my fingers. Not really a squirt, but defintely an expulsion.

It could be that these women who "squirt" may be able to just build up a store of wetness, if you will, and then forcefully expell it with a contraction of their vaginal muscles.

See, I knew I should have been a gynocologist! Either way, women who can't squirt shouldn't worry about it. Truth is I've never met a woman who did, so you certainly are not abnormal, you are in fact in the majority. If you do decide to keep up your quest, just be sure you do it as a fun adventure, and don't get so hung up on the goal. It's not a failure if you can't do it, but the exploration might sure be fun.

 

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[hairball101]

thanks Jen

A good discssion, I will try a few of these things on my so. I would realy like to give her a g-spot orgasam. To give is divine, Right?