Crossdressing

[GuitarRocker]

Anyone here do it?

I love crossdressing. I'm a 28 year old man who loves putting on women's clothes. I think it's a lot of fun and it's definitely great for masturbating. I don't think I'll ever walk out in public wearing full women's clothing but it's something I like to do in my own private fantasy at home when I'm alone.

If I had a digital camera, I would take pictures of myself in female clothes, lingerie, bra/panties...surprisingly women's clothes are much more comfortable to wear than men's clothes. Really they are.

So for those who never cross dress you should try it. You'd be surprised of how fun it can be. But the thing is though, if you don't want your wife/girlfriend/mother finding out you've been wearing their clothes while they are gone, better put the clothes back to exactly where you put them or they'll find out someone else has been wearing them, plus, after you take off the women's clothes, better take a long shower 'cause you're going to smell like a woman.

Knowing from experience, I've had some guy asking me why I smell like a woman and that was embarrasing. I just didn't say anything and made some excuse so he wouldn't know what I was doing, lol.

It doesn't make a guy gay just because he enjoys cross dressing. It's just a fantasy type of thing, nothing more. One of my biggest fantasies when having sex with a woman is me dressed up in lingerie while she is dressed up in sexy lingerie too, I've seen many pictures like that of straight couples both wearing lingerie in the amatuer photo forum and it does look a lot of fun.

What are your thoughts on crossdressing?

 

[fr34k_n45ty]

My views on cross-dressing... just like most things... if it makes you happy and isnt' gonna get you in troble ENJOY lol. I dont think I could ever see my bf dressed up but I can imagin

take care

 

[GuitarRocker]

Cool, anymore thoughts on crossdressing? I know there are people on this board that enjoy it.

 

[SweetErika]

Cool, anymore thoughts on crossdressing? I know there are people on this board that enjoy it.

There are many threads in GLBT Chatter on crossdressing. I know you're NOT gay, but you might have better luck finding more people to share with there.

 

[Little Bird]

Sometimes I spend my nights at gothic-partys and MANY men there are waering skirts an the like (me includet, I like my skirt! ). Where a totaly unique outfit is nearly required and almost everything has already been worn some people do quite much to present a totaly new outfit. Some men's dresses can only be discribed as womens dress.

I think it would be quite fun to dress in a more female style and since my 6 feet are rather short compared to the other guys here, and I'm very thin and skinny I would like to get my hair styled (more than 18 inches) and getting makeup like an woman and then see how much time everyone needs to see through my disguise.
I'm bisexual and since I don't shout it out to the world I neither try to hide it. In fact it is quite fun to surprise your straight friends with the shocking news!

But that would be only for fun at halloween or the like and is has no sexual touch to me.

 

[College_geek]

There's a pretty popular thread in the am pics forum dedicated to men wearing panties, too, if you want to stop by there sometime.

 

[tronada]

Speaking from experience, here. I found out my husband was a cd'er after 15 years of marriage. It's neither funny nor just a cute little secret, to find out your MAN likes to dress like a woman! Putting things back the way you found them and taking long showers to cover the smell is bull shit. Why not try being honest with your woman instead of a deceitful sneaking wretch? There is nothing funny about being lied to. It's not just a cute little secret. I was devastated when my husband told me, and still hurt because of it. We have 2 kids and I don't want them to find out.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but it's not all fun and games. If you're going to do this, at least have the guts to tell your woman and let HER make the decision whether she likes it or not. Not sneak around.

 

[ReadyOne]

Speaking from experience, here. I found out my husband was a cd'er after 15 years of marriage. It's neither funny nor just a cute little secret, to find out your MAN likes to dress like a woman! Putting things back the way you found them and taking long showers to cover the smell is bull shit. Why not try being honest with your woman instead of a deceitful sneaking wretch? There is nothing funny about being lied to. It's not just a cute little secret. I was devastated when my husband told me, and still hurt because of it. We have 2 kids and I don't want them to find out.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but it's not all fun and games. If you're going to do this, at least have the guts to tell your woman and let HER make the decision whether she likes it or not. Not sneak around.

Perhaps you idea of a MAN is a bit superficial? What manly qualities are inside him?

I know, it's that he breeched your implicit contract aabout sterotypes anI know, it's that he breeched your implicit contract about stereotypes and proper behaviors, like the 1950's woman must wear heels and dress to clean house?

 

[tronada]

My ideas of a what a man is or is not are not the point here, Readyone. What I'm saying is don't lie and sneak around about it. If it's what you like, tell your partner and then let what happens happen. Every potential partner has the right to decide if they want to deal with this or not. I never had that choice.
Don't you think being lied to for 15 years is something to be upset about?! I sure as hell do. Yeah, I'm still carrying around the hurt from my experience. It's hard to let go. I know that's where my responses are coming from. Shattered trust.
Like I said, it's not all fun and games. You should respect other people's feelings enough to let them make an informed decision, just as you would like to be treated, and then go from there. That's all I'm saying.

 

[GuitarRocker]

Well I am a single guy right now, so if I were to get a girlfriend, I would tell her that I enjoy crossdressing.

 

[littlebus]

My boyfriend is a crossdresser. It still is a little weird, but I knew about it before we started dating so I was prepared.

I've not yet seen him "en femme" (due to long distance relationship) but I have seen pictures... he passes fairly well.

Honesty is key.

If I hadn't known... I admit I might have balked/freaked/insert reaction here.

 

[Honeydew56]

Untill a year ago I would not even have read your post. But now since finding out my husband is a CD, well things sure have changed!

Yes, it can be very hot to make love to a man while he is wearing lots of silky lingere, as long as both partners are happy with it. Takes a bit to work your brain around it, but in the end it is still my man under all that lace...

Honey

 

[College_geek]

My boyfriend and I are actually thinking of crossdressing together. He's excited about dressing as a woman for one time, so I figured I'd dress like a man and we could just switch roles for a weekend. I'm actually pretty excited about it.