Crop play, especially down low

[iicemann]

My wife and I have discovered that she likes her clit hit by a crop with high frequency. (Frequency is an engineering term I know - it means as frequently as possible - the springy shaft of the crop really helps with that.) she also gets turned on by having her lips and clit pulled on. I am looking for your proven techniques in these areas that have taken your woman to sexual heaven because I want to make my wife "lose it" by pleasuring her in many MANY ways like this. Starting tonight!

Thank you so much. I'm looking forward to playing with her with your recommendations. FWIW this is my first post. Been reading Lit for years, just joined today for more.

 

[Kitty]

I love my pussy being slapped with the crop!

Me personally I have had all fours bound to something, with my ass propped up, legs spread enough. For vulnerability and more exposure. He would eat me (softly but sternly pull on my labia and clitty with his teeth) and tickle with the crop, then spank, make a pattern of it really. Of course not stopping. Just swatting. A sharp one. Then a series of little taps. Over my ass cheeks, on my pussy. Maybe stick a finger in. Or not, to tease me.

Then he would straddle me facing my lower area, while I'm still on my hands and knees and bound, or my legs hanging off the bed, or ottoman if he has, or me spread eagle on my back. And proceed. Calling me filthy things as well, whatever strikes your imagination or lady's fancy. Impact play is the best. Temp play to literally heat things up....

 

[iicemann]

Thanks Kitty, we think alike

Kit, my next plan was to tie all 4 of her limbs. The pattern play is good, too! And the hotter I get her the more dirty I can talk to her - when we're really rolling she's my slut and I LOVE her that way.

More more!

 

[TbegetsT]

My wife enjoys being bound, and her ass is fair game for thwacking of many sorts. She seems to react to my interest in pinging her clit as a fetish of mine, rather than a notion on my part that this is something she might really enjoy. So, it hasn't happened.
However, I am in the process of rigging the ceiling downstairs with ropes for suspension or more extreme bondage, and perhaps there will be future developments. I love feeling the rhythm of a crop!

 

[iicemann]

It is for her pleasure. And

Mine. Tbegets - we crop the clit because I get into how she responds. I get into it because SHE gets into it. Joyous!

Literoti, I will share our last session soon. It was mutually satisfying...

 

[Peppadance]

I love my pussy being slapped with the crop!

Me personally I have had all fours bound to something, with my ass propped up, legs spread enough. For vulnerability and more exposure. He would eat me (softly but sternly pull on my labia and clitty with his teeth) and tickle with the crop, then spank, make a pattern of it really. Of course not stopping. Just swatting. A sharp one. Then a series of little taps. Over my ass cheeks, on my pussy. Maybe stick a finger in. Or not, to tease me.

Then he would straddle me facing my lower area, while I'm still on my hands and knees and bound, or my legs hanging off the bed, or ottoman if he has, or me spread eagle on my back. And proceed. Calling me filthy things as well, whatever strikes your imagination or lady's fancy. Impact play is the best. Temp play to literally heat things up....

Kitty, you/that sounds just delicious... Gettin kinda hungry!

 

[desertslave]

The crop is a love-to-hate item for me. Master will get serious shrieks out of me, I almost always get in trouble for trying to close my legs (bondage? I should be so lucky! evil, evil man), and the orgasms disintegrate me.

Swatting my inner thighs is an evil (did I mention evil?) warm up.

Our crop also has these leather 'feathers' just above the business end that can tickle or poke into otherwise safer places.

 

[Kim_Burly]

I love a riding whip, which is just a crop with a thin strap of leather, as opposed to a wide one. What is especially torturous for me is when he does it and won't bind me, so I have to keep my legs from moving with willpower alone, when the blow is delivered. Or, he has made me do it to myself, while he watched to make sure that my blows were aimed properly and powerful enough. That, for me is VERY hard, but I am proud of myself when he tells me I did it right. If I do it wrong, he demonstrates the proper technique, and I get to start over . That left me so sore once that I really can't describe it.

 

[Kitty]

Kitty, you/that sounds just delicious... Gettin kinda hungry!

Kit, my next plan was to tie all 4 of her limbs. The pattern play is good, too! And the hotter I get her the more dirty I can talk to her - when we're really rolling she's my slut and I LOVE her that way.

More more!

Hope you make it happen, but your dirty imagination is the best you can count on.

 

[uncle easy]

really hot

We love crop play. If you ask my wife she will deny it. But if you start to do it she will stand still until you are finished. And she will be very wet for sure. We have done this for many years and it just gets better with each time.

 

[Torinona]

...Me personally I have had all fours bound to something, with my ass propped up, legs spread enough. For vulnerability and more exposure. He would eat me (softly but sternly pull on my labia and clitty with his teeth) and tickle with the crop, then spank, make a pattern of it really. Of course not stopping. Just swatting. A sharp one. Then a series of little taps. Over my ass cheeks, on my pussy. Maybe stick a finger in. Or not, to tease me. Then he would straddle me facing my lower area, while I'm still on my hands and knees and bound, or my legs hanging off the bed, or ottoman if he has, or me spread eagle on my back. And proceed. Calling me filthy things as well, whatever strikes your imagination or lady's fancy. Impact play is the best...

^^^Oh... my... yum...^^^

I broached the topic with Hubby a while back about him trying a crop or flogger on me. We now own one of each and a number of Kitty's scenarios have been played out and I hope for numerous others to happen in the near future! I've become very fond of the crop being used on my breasts and pussy and our inside joke is that I've created a monster, as Hubby doesn't just do it and tolerate it for my sake, he thoroughly enjoys my reactions and it's enhanced things for both of us.

It's probably partly due to the endorphins and the pain/pleasure connection-overlap, but oh my, the way things get when Hubby gets into a certain rhythm or pattern, I get sooo very zen and mellow but simultaneously also get very intensely stimulated - things pulse and I don't just mean only the body parts involved directly in the cropping/flogging. Things often get very tantric-y, very slow/extended climax-y, I can't describe it adequately... it doesn't happen every single time, but it's fuckin' epic stuff when it does and makes you greedy for more!

 

[TbegetsT]

I love the candor of the replies! Thank you all! This is something I will try, but am unsure of her acceptance. Should I thwack thru??

 

[Torinona]

This is something I will try, but am unsure of her acceptance. Should I thwack thru??

Just ask her, check in with her as you two proceed.

Pain tolerance can range vastly with the same individual, depending on many factors, such as her menstrual cycle, for starters. There are days when Hubby can be downright mean to my nipples and I love it, other days delicate rubbing and tickling can be incredibly uncomfortable and any sort of tugging/pinching gets an "Oh hell no!" from me, LOL.

Hubby and I use two safe words. If I say "Pink" he only slows down or he moves the action to another body part. If I say "Red" everything stops, we access the situation [weird angle, muscle cramp, circulation/breathing effected], make necessary changes and/or stop altogether if need be.

Communication should always be the first choice in good, safe, sane play... we should never guess or make assumptions, that's my dos centavos.

Edited for a typo

 

[TbegetsT]

Thank you. Good advice and encouragement.

 

[CherylLee83]

I understand where she is coming from

I love I crave it. Nothing better then being tied spread blindfolded then all of a sudden having a crop or paddle spank my clit

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I understand where she is coming from

I love I crave it. Nothing better then being tied spread blindfolded then all of a sudden having a crop or paddle spank my clit

Have you tried that with small, thin, very stingy whips by any chance? I have a cute cat-o-nine which is perfect for precision impact in smaller size target areas.

 

[CherylLee83]

No not yet had that opportunity

Ruler/crop are the thinest that I have been spanked with

 

[Kim_Burly]

Have you tried that with small, thin, very stingy whips by any chance? I have a cute cat-o-nine which is perfect for precision impact in smaller size target areas.

Sir has used an old thin, leather dress belt that has a metal tip on me with delicious results. Now I'm glad I couldn't bring myself to throw it away when we moved .

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Sir has used an old thin, leather dress belt that has a metal tip on me with delicious results. Now I'm glad I couldn't bring myself to throw it away when we moved .

mmmm ... that metal tip must have had quite an "impact" (pun intended!) I've had the pleasure/pain of being whipped between the legs with a small cat-o-nine tails with metal tips at the ends --- and that was quite the boundary-pushing experience at the time.

 

[CherylLee83]

mmmm ... that metal tip must have had quite an "impact" (pun intended!) I've had the pleasure/pain of being whipped between the legs with a small cat-o-nine tails with metal tips at the ends --- and that was quite the boundary-pushing experience at the time.

That sounds so painfully Lovely

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

That sounds so painfully Lovely

It was! The whipping started out gentle enough, but slowly built up in intensity. It took about a week for all the bruises and small welts to disappear.

 

[LizVegas79]

I keep a toy box under our bed and my crop is always on top.

I love getting into bed before my husband and then handing it to him when he crawls in. Especially when he isn't expecting it. Then I usually throw back the covers, get on all fours with my ass high, high in the air and then grin at him.

Sometimes I'm already completely naked, sometimes I'm wearing something new and skimpy, sometimes I'm just wearing one of his t-shirts (which is usually what I sleep in) or sometimes I'm still wearing whatever I wore out and he has to undress me ... or spank me thru it.

The feel of the crop striking my anus or soft pink crease sharply just makes me tingle and gasp so much sometimes!

LOVE THIS THREAD!

 

[desertslave]

Once upon a time, when I was young and limber, my Sir-of-the-time put me in a sling, with my legs raised and attached (in a way I never did see) so they were raised but not too spread apart. He had a helluva good time smacking the insides of my thighs, back and forth, gawdawful fast.

 

[schoolszone]

my wife loves putting me on all fours and swatting my asshole with her crop. She usually traces my ass and really gives it to me good.


Everytime she does this it makes my cock throb

 

[DarkerNeeds]

I bet the first time you had to do it to yourself was hard. But I bet the rush is amazing.