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We love women, of any age, who are comfortable with their sexuality and know what the want. Usually that means older in my experience.
 
query said:
On the one hand it is a matter of what they perceive might be available to them. Older women are more receptive to fumbling compliments and it makes the suitors feel like they are on track. The dynamic is win-win. Validation for a woman having concerns about aging and wanting reassurance about her continuing appeal, and practice for a young man that probably spends more time fantasizing than approaching and who is puzzled why the homecoming queen does not fall into his arms when he informs her "yer purty." The probable reality is that it does not come to fruition often. Most older women are not out there being casually sexual with random strangers on the daily. Both get to feel that it almost happened.
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Validation about aging and sex appeal over what almost happened?

GTFO. I am in it for the bang.

Edit to expand upon my post as GB's resident "cougar" I have some experience.

The idea that young men are enjoying the practice with an older woman and the older woman enjoys the validation is most true online. When I first got a divorce my younger hookups were online based and for the most part this fits the bill.

However, when it comes to pairing IRL, you are a long way away from reality. The guys who hit on me aren't the ones who fantacized about the home coming queen and enjoy getting practice. Nope, the irl guys are the same ones who are getting all of the pussy in their own age group too. They are the confident ones who just enjoy a variety when it comes to sex; when they see someone they want to fuck they go for it. These men are confident. They do not have any problems with approaching whatsoever.

Here is a list of younger dudes I have fucked with the last year and a little bit about how I met them. These are not men who are afraid to approach:

"Jimmy" - 30 ish, white redneck singer/guitar player who hit on me between his band's sets

"Dan" - 30 ish Dominican hustler type who allegedly fucked more women than anyone else in that bar scene. He basically asked me (discreetly) if I wanted to bone so I did. Turns out he is a coke dealer which learned by fucking:

"Will" - 30ish black wall street trader. Scores coke off Dan. Walked over and started hitting on my apropos of nothing. But of course, he is a trader.

"Mex" - 28 year old Mexcian-American stand up comedian. Hit on me on the subway

"Lawton" - 25 year old white up and coming artist, well respected. Somehow we were out drinking after meeting at random somewhere, I don't recall.
 
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query said:
On the one hand it is a matter of what they perceive might be available to them. Older women are more receptive to fumbling compliments and it makes the suitors feel like they are on track. The dynamic is win-win. Validation for a woman having concerns about aging and wanting reassurance about her continuing appeal, and practice for a young man that probably spends more time fantasizing than approaching and who is puzzled why the homecoming queen does not fall into his arms when he informs her "yer purty." The probable reality is that it does not come to fruition often. Most older women are not out there being casually sexual with random strangers on the daily. Both get to feel that it almost happened.

The popularity of the trope in the media is because 3-4 decades of societal shaming of May-December romances between young, fertile women and older, established successful men, the age old practice continues. It is a matter of "Oh yeah, we could do it too if we were as pervy as you!

The is no biological basis for the so called cougar phenomenon. If a young man and an older woman find each other attractive, go for it. Sitting around waiting for it to happen because an article in Cosmo says it is happening all the time is silly.

Look at it this way: There are plenty of very attractive older women. You cannot convince me that a young man would have been less attracted to that same person if a time warp introduced him to her at 20. Attractive is attractive.
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No, we are talking about "cougars" cougars are not older housewives who feel neglected by hubby and are looking for compliments

Cougars are older sexually aggressive women and they, not the young men they seek, are the ones on the attack. In fact most of that type would roll their eyes at an idiot trying to flatter them. They see what they want and take it.

I know that's hard for a lot of men on these boards to grasp because it means the woman is in control and we can't have that.. because if we do...

It leads to more hatred from LJ reloaded about feminists raping 21 year old men.
 
lovecraft68 said:
No, we are talking about "cougars" cougars are not older housewives who feel neglected by hubby and are looking for compliments

Cougars are older sexually aggressive women and they, not the young men they seek, are the ones on the attack. In fact most of that type would roll their eyes at an idiot trying to flatter them. They see what they want and take it.

I know that's hard for a lot of men on these boards to grasp because it means the woman is in control and we can't have that.. because if we do...

It leads to more hatred from LJ reloaded about feminists raping 21 year old men.
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Completely disagree. I never approach.
 
LadyFunkenstein said:
Completely disagree. I never approach.
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But its still your call and your shot, they can approach and they can lay down their game-if they even have one-but its your choice and rules.

And I was approached by more than a few back when cougar or milf wasn't a term yet. Cougars are predatory. Hence the term....
 
lovecraft68 said:
But its still your call and your shot, they can approach and they can lay down their game-if they even have one-but its your choice and rules.

And I was approached by more than a few back when cougar or milf wasn't a term yet. Cougars are predatory. Hence the term....
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"It's you call and your shot" applies to all women regardless of age when they are sexually approached. This has been so since the beginning of time.

The term "cougar" is a fad that is almost done (fortunately). Women have been fucked younger men for thousands of years. We aren't doing anything new today nor has anything changed based upon a catchy label being applied 15 years ago.
 
Leaving myself and my partner gasping is the way sex should be! I don't care what the age of the participants are.
 
I'd far rather have a confident, experienced woman with an active imagination :)
 
As I always say, YUH GOTTA HAND IT TO THE YOUNGSTERS BUT NOT TO THEIR COUGAR SISTERS.

Cougars want a nice meal, booze and laughs, then some enthusiastic fucking. The young women bring along a goddamn bag of bullshit to deal with, first.
 
wife is 12 years older than me, loves taking my big cock in her and I love spewing semen deep in her pussy, her body is like that of a 25 year old, just doenst come with all the drama, she knows what she wants and there is nothing else besides what she wants
 
steamboat610 said:
wife is 12 years older than me, loves taking my big cock in her and I love spewing semen deep in her pussy, her body is like that of a 25 year old, just doenst come with all the drama, she knows what she wants and there is nothing else besides what she wants
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I am doing the math...

So she is 24 then, or 26? I am confused. How is someone in their 20's a "Cougar?"
 
I love an older woman... I love her experience and maturity and they lovea hard big cock...
 
The Dutch (who else) have a wonderful saying "You don't learn to ride on a new bicycle". When I was 18ish sex with girls my age seemed to include a lot of guilt, angst, fear of pregnancy and 'will he love me in the morning' stuff.

The I got invloved with a 36 year old who had lived past the hangups and know how to share and enjoy sex. Loved that well used bike...
 
jayceedeekay said:
The Dutch (who else) have a wonderful saying "You don't learn to ride on a new bicycle". When I was 18ish sex with girls my age seemed to include a lot of guilt, angst, fear of pregnancy and 'will he love me in the morning' stuff.

The I got invloved with a 36 year old who had lived past the hangups and know how to share and enjoy sex. Loved that well used bike...
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"Well used bike..." A romantic, I see.


I would like to cougar claw your eyes out!
 
MaryanneB said:
Leaving myself and my partner gasping is the way sex should be! I don't care what the age of the participants are.
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For me its the maturity and confidence of an older woman who know what she wants, knows what I need and is not playing any games, other than building and carefully nurturing the attraction, pleasure and breathless climax. The confidence of an older woman is a a major turn on for me. Always has, always will be. Something about knowing that she wants to fuck me and I want to fuck her that seems so wrong yet so perfectly honest. If its about intimacy, it doesn't get more honest and intimate at that.
 
Um, I like women. Age doesn't have anything to do with it.
 
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