Not trying to turn this into a dating site, but does any ever link up with other guys from here? I have talked with a couple of guys from here, but it always seems to fizzle out. Granted, I am not suggesting that every offer needs to be follow up, or even meet anyone ever. I was just curious if there was any good stories out there that people would share. The only "steady" place I get "dates" are from Doublelist, Reddit, and one guy from SilverDaddies.
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I have had several really good pm conversations on here with men and women but have never met anyone from Lit irl. Some conversations last for a while but they all seem to fizzle out over time.
Illgiveitatry1
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Well I can tell you if you don't live too far away in our schedules would work out You and I could meet up and have a good time.
luvslingerie200
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I met a guy on here in the chat rooms who lives close. we keep talking about meeting but thus far have not
dingdongditchding
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do it
luvslingerie200
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Oh I want to, reluctance on his part. It will be his first time. Both of us are married so it makes it more challenging
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I think that's one of the tough parts of meeting someone one here-the geographical limitations. At least with some of the other sites, you can change the scope. IF you're lucky enough to have someone who is close to you, you then have to account for attraction, chemistry, availability, compatibility, etc.
Lit is a great site for conversation and discussion, but it can be difficult to steadily rely on as a way to meet up with people
Lit is a great site for conversation and discussion, but it can be difficult to steadily rely on as a way to meet up with people
Agreed, can make some very hot connections that can be very gratifying for self pleasure as you communicate. I’ve had some connections here and some where we chat for months and months. For me, it’s great, your always yearning for the real thing but living them out in PM or forums chat/posts can be thrilling at times and very sensual. It builds a lot of sexual frustration though….
pntyhseluvr
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I do work travel and would love to meet when in the road. Start with some public chat and a drink or two before moving on if the vide is good.
dingdongditchding
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we did!!!! A++++ I was worried that if I came first (and 2nd) I would lose interest but I did NOT. I still wanted to get him off
dingdongditchding
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fuck yea, I could be your friendWould love to meet someone that was close and compatible! Wife would know him as a friend and let the games begin
Hold it?! You saying you linked up because of this post? Really would love to hear more from both of you!
dingdongditchding
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no, we met months ago, didnt meet face to face for a while after going to private msg then phone calls (hot as hell)
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SexyInMy60s
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I’ve connected with two guys in person via Lit. I travel quite a bit so one meetup was a side trip when I was in his area. The other was another guy from right here in the greater Cleveland area who reached out. We enjoyed a sexy afternoon at our local bathhouse.
BTW, if you go to the LBGQT thread on Lit Personals sections and search based on your zip code or even state, you’ll probably find guys near you.
BTW, if you go to the LBGQT thread on Lit Personals sections and search based on your zip code or even state, you’ll probably find guys near you.
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