Confusion

Sillyman

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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you weren't really sure how you felt about someone? You don't want to hurt their feelings, you don't want to keep egging them on, and you aren't sure if your doubts are major concerns or just being silly? What do you say? What did you say? How did they react? So what happens now? :(
 
Just be honest with yourself and them. Communication is the key to any relationship.
 
Yeah, I think everybody felt like that at some time....me right now in fact...I usually wait and see what happens...I can't say that this has been a sucessful method but sometimes the feelings become so apparent you have to do something or you were right to just wait and let the confusion solve itself...
 
I think everyone has felt this way some point in their life.
Im at that point in my life right now.

Trying to decide if i want to contuine seeing my "boyfriend"(Hard to call him boyfriend.... i dont feel he is...lol) or move on.
Hard to be with someone for 6 months and not feel anything any different than you did the first time youwent out with them and knowing he cares a great deal about me and my young son.
Why is life so hard? lol
*Sigh* I need to get a life......LMAO
 
I know just how you feel, Sillyman. I wish there was a rule book sometimes, I think it would make things a lot easier.
 
Sillyman said:
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you weren't really sure how you felt about someone? You don't want to hurt their feelings, you don't want to keep egging them on, and you aren't sure if your doubts are major concerns or just being silly? What do you say? What did you say? How did they react? So what happens now? :(

been there, am there, still dont know what to do either :confused:
 
all i can say is just be honest...but dont rip out their heart and squish it to pieces!!!! its a delicate balence...but it can be done! best not to wait too long or they will beleive you to lead them on when all the dust settles...thus making everything much much worse....:(
Good luck
 
Silly, just be as direct as you can be. Rejection sucks but you will survive.
 
nasty said:
Sorry. Just luring in to see the sexy Amelia.:kiss:

you're such a sweety..i don't care what anyone else says about you...
 
ameliaishornee said:
are you talking about me?? :D

My feelings for you are quite definite sweetie. I want to take you out to the malt shop for shakes and then take you back to my place for a light spanking.
 
Sillyman said:


My feelings for you are quite definite sweetie. I want to take you out to the malt shop for shakes and then take you back to my place for a light spanking.

oh boy...two of my most favorite things!!!! :p
 
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