confused......

[mikeinmn]

I dunno where this whole discussion is going. I was taught that being gay was a lot more than just taking it up the ass. Did somebody mislead me? I am straight, and I like a woman who takes me up her ass. Does that make me bi, bi-curious, gay? What?

Lets stop name calling, stop developing strategies on how to increase the gay population, and let people be themselves. That will be more fun.

Am I making sense, or I am full of good ideas?

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

I think you truely are confused.

If you like giving your woman anal and she likes it too, you are straight.

Gay is a lot more than the type of sex you enjoy.

stop developing strategies on how to increase the gay population

This statement is way off base. And makes you look trollish instead of just lost. The only real way to increase the gay population is to have more children who grow up to be gay. Or for more already gay people to come out of the closet.

 

[Angel]

PS is the only thing in this thread that doesn't make my head hurt.

 

[Cigan]

No offense but I have no idea where you are coming from. Of course you liking to give your girlfriend anal sex doesn't make you gay, hell you can like to take it up the ass (via sex toys ) from your girlfriend and it doesn't make you gay. Men are physically wired to derive sexual pleasure from that. Being homosexual is a matter of what you find attractive. The best way to know if you're gay is to think of how to react to actions which aren't associated with gender preference. Don't think about a sex act, think about other intimate things like how you feel when you think of man caressing you or a woman caressing you. Think about how you react to gender. Sexual acts can be either way, and it kinda gets to me when people try to associate anal sex (giving or recieving on the male end) as being gay. It's really not.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

PS is the only thing in this thread that doesn't make my head hurt.

Thank you sweetie, that's a high commadation.

 

[69forever]

RE: Confused

Stratagies to increase the gay population? WTF are you talking
about?

First of all, being gay, lesbian or bi is NOT a choice. You are or
you're not. Second, there is NO insideous plan to increase the
"gay" population. We're just networking with each other
because of the social bias against us, in a safe enviroment.

Get a clue friend.

 

[ExistentialLuv]

and it kinda gets to me when people try to associate anal sex (giving or recieving on the male end) as being gay. It's really not.

This is just another sterotype from the igrnorant straight community.

 

[Queersetti]

I dunno where this whole discussion is going. I was taught that being gay was a lot more than just taking it up the ass. Did somebody mislead me? I am straight, and I like a woman who takes me up her ass. Does that make me bi, bi-curious, gay? What?

Lets stop name calling, stop developing strategies on how to increase the gay population, and let people be themselves. That will be more fun.

Am I making sense, or I am full of good ideas?

I hope those aren't our only two choices.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

Hey 'Setti

You noted that too, huh?

We could just leave some of it off..

Am I making sense, or I am full of goo?

Creative editing, no?

 

[Chicklet]

I am straight, and I like a woman who takes me up her ass. Does that make me bi, bi-curious, gay? What?

It makes you a guy who likes to fuck your girl up the ass. Nothing more, nothing less. If you feel that you would also like to fuck a man up his ass, then maybe you're bisexual or bi-curious. If you feel that you would like your woman to use a strap-on to fuck your ass, you're still straight. If you like the idea of a guy doing you up the ass, maybe you're bi-curious or bisexual.

Here's my opinion: You can want to have sex with a same-sex partner and still be straight. The current trend of using the word "gay" as an insult *is* insulting, but not to the person being called that. Anyone who's going around calling someone "gay" is just childish and dumb. Ignore them. Who cares what other people think of you? (we do, of course!) but seriously, sometimes you just have to swallow your fears and answer back "Proud of it!"

-Chicklet

 

[Pookie]

I dunno where this whole discussion is going. I was taught that being gay was a lot more than just taking it up the ass. Did somebody mislead me? I am straight, and I like a woman who takes me up her ass. Does that make me bi, bi-curious, gay? What?

Lets stop name calling, stop developing strategies on how to increase the gay population, and let people be themselves. That will be more fun.

Am I making sense, or I am full of good ideas?

Your sigline is most appropriate ...

"Ideas are like assholes. Everybody has one. And, most of them stinks. Do you have a good one?"

We're still waiting on your good one.

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Mike...you're not making sense, nor do you have a good idea.

You like to fuck women up the ass...good for you.

Every other thing you said is bull shit.

The only thing you're confused about is that you have good ideas.

 

[Mary Hall]

I really can`t stand idiots who post dumbass things on message boards, everyone believe me, i have to deal with this shit on a lot of message boards, why the hell did the moron start this thread anyway? Oh wait, he`s an attention whore, my mistake..


That`s my $4 worth of opinion ignore it, it`s just me venting...bad day

 

[mikeinmn]

hahahahaha.

First of all, I would like to appologize for creating a confusion. However, I must say, I enjoyed your responses.

I had intended posting a reply in a different thread. But, I hit the wrong button and it became a new thread. Of course, without the history, it is difficult to misunderstand my message. I must say, I agree with most of you in the general content of messages. Therefore, I am not going to respond to each of you. However, I still want to respond to some of you individually.

 

[mikeinmn]

Re: RE: Confused

Stratagies to increase the gay population? WTF are you talking
about?

First of all, being gay, lesbian or bi is NOT a choice. You are or
you're not. Second, there is NO insideous plan to increase the
"gay" population. We're just networking with each other
because of the social bias against us, in a safe enviroment.

Get a clue friend.

Thank you for enlightening me on what is gay or not. If you had read my message carefully and take a moment to think, you would have understand WTF I am talking about.

 

[mikeinmn]

Re: Hey 'Setti

You noted that too, huh?

We could just leave some of it off..

Am I making sense, or I am full of goo?

Creative editing, no?

of course, you have a lot of choices. You must ask yourself whether you have chosen wisely. So far, I don't think you did. At least the way you write is not very polite. Still you have chosen a polite name. Are you trying to fool people?

 

[mikeinmn]

Re: Re: confused......

It makes you a guy who likes to fuck your girl up the ass. Nothing more, nothing less. If you feel that you would also like to fuck a man up his ass, then maybe you're bisexual or bi-curious. If you feel that you would like your woman to use a strap-on to fuck your ass, you're still straight. If you like the idea of a guy doing you up the ass, maybe you're bi-curious or bisexual.

Here's my opinion: You can want to have sex with a same-sex partner and still be straight. The current trend of using the word "gay" as an insult *is* insulting, but not to the person being called that. Anyone who's going around calling someone "gay" is just childish and dumb. Ignore them. Who cares what other people think of you? (we do, of course!) but seriously, sometimes you just have to swallow your fears and answer back "Proud of it!"

-Chicklet

Hey chicklet,
Thank you for your response. At least you were trying to approach the situation politely unlike some people who pretend to be polite only in name.

 

[mikeinmn]

I really can`t stand idiots who post dumbass things on message boards, everyone believe me, i have to deal with this shit on a lot of message boards, why the hell did the moron start this thread anyway? Oh wait, he`s an attention whore, my mistake..


That`s my $4 worth of opinion ignore it, it`s just me venting...bad day

Mary,

You have a nice name, but, you don't deserve it. I am sure I can find you an appropriate name, but, I don't like calling people names. I am sure you don't understand that approach. Do you think these people want to hear your insults while you are venting? Go do it accross a mirror or something.

If you were not such an ass (ooooo!!!!! name calling. my bad. sorry) and spent sometime thinking about my message instead of making assumptions and jumping to conclusions, you would understand where I was coming from. I have not said anything bad against gays, instead, I was trying to be positive. And, believe me, I am not that confused.

I am sure you will want to vent again. But, try this approach for a change. IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY ANYTHING.

 

[SweetCherry]

IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY ANYTHING.

Maybe you should take this bit of advice yourself next time.

Have a nice day.

 

[Etoile]

Yo, mikeinmn -

I ain't sayin' this as a mod or nuthin', but shut the hell up.

That said, I am the mod around here. I have a pretty light touch, but I also don't tolerate gay-bashing even if it's disguised as a legitimate question.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

Re: Re: Hey 'Setti

of course, you have a lot of choices. You must ask yourself whether you have chosen wisely. So far, I don't think you did. At least the way you write is not very polite. Still you have chosen a polite name. Are you trying to fool people?

Only the foolish.

 

[PoliteSuccubus]

Re: Re: Re: confused......

Hey chicklet,
Thank you for your response. At least you were trying to approach the situation politely unlike some people who pretend to be polite only in name.

I am cut to the quick by this remark; esp when I was the frist person to respond to your thread and I pretty much said the same thing as Chicklet, which you chose to ignore.

Since you missed the joke: You left two responses which left no room for your being in error in your orginal message, which 'Setti pointed out and I responded to 'Setti lightheartedly.

But, you are it appears, a defensive person and rather than take my sincere response you take the joke to heart.

And then you attack me twice and infer that I am not a nice person which I never did to you. I did infer that you were confused, and now infer that you are foolish.

Others have, and I my guess will, call you worse.

 

[mikeinmn]

Based on some sweet recommendations, below, I am listing the thread I intended to post my original message.

Literotica Discussion Board > Main Literotica Forums > GLBT Chatter > Anal sex and bi curiosity

Please read it and then read my original message. It may make sense to you then. I did not intend to offend anybody. I appologize if I did. But, I do not appologize for my other messages posted. They were well deserved by some. For others, I appologized in PM.

kisses to ya all.

Etoile, you were very sexy when you theaten me. See if I care.

 

[69forever]

RE:Mod

Thank you Etoile...we jump on it when we see it, but thanks.

 

[Mary Hall]

You have a nice name, but, you don't deserve it. I am sure I can find you an appropriate name, but, I don't like calling people names. I am sure you don't understand that approach. Do you think these people want to hear your insults while you are venting? Go do it accross a mirror or something.

I feel sorry for you, because you`ve pissed off the wrong girl, i`m not someone to be pushed around by dumbass jerks.

Yeah do call me names, please, i`m just begging to hear the waste of of bandwidth your going to inflict on us..

All you deserve is to get slapped in the face for being so fucking rude, i may only be 23 but i`ve come across jerks like you before and i eat them for breakfast..

I`m ready willing and able to defend myself from pathetic flames from you.



Sorry guys..i cannot tolerate jerks on message borads, i am sorry.