Confessions: What are yours?

[Inspirinious]

ICT my writing muse has reignited my desire to write that story I have long been considering.

IACT it will be a complex plot, with complex characters, and of course, some amount of sex.

IFCT I am unsure I can fulfill my own dream of how great this story should be.

 

[Bunnylily]

ICT I'm worried he'll forget me.

 

[smallgirl]

ICT Thursday at 11 I have an appt with a lawyer to start the process of separating myself from him financially and legally.
ICT ill be paying the first $325 bucks to do that as well.
IACT I wish mom would just ask me how much I need Wednesday at lunch so I could pick up and leave sooner.
IACT my fwb got a front row seat this morning to what I'm living with, and he held me as I cried.
IAFCT I know its gonna be hard, and I'm gonna struggle, but it HAS to be better than living like this.

 

[Superman2008]

ICT Thursday at 11 I have an appt with a lawyer to start the process of separating myself from him financially and legally.
ICT ill be paying the first $325 bucks to do that as well.
IACT I wish mom would just ask me how much I need Wednesday at lunch so I could pick up and leave sooner.
IACT my fwb got a front row seat this morning to what I'm living with, and he held me as I cried.
IAFCT I know its gonna be hard, and I'm gonna struggle, but it HAS to be better than living like this.

ICT... I am praying for ya. Hang in there. No matter what it costs it WILL be worth it.

 

[zhutt]

ICT Thursday at 11 I have an appt with a lawyer to start the process of separating myself from him financially and legally.
ICT ill be paying the first $325 bucks to do that as well.
IACT I wish mom would just ask me how much I need Wednesday at lunch so I could pick up and leave sooner.
IACT my fwb got a front row seat this morning to what I'm living with, and he held me as I cried.
IAFCT I know its gonna be hard, and I'm gonna struggle, but it HAS to be better than living like this.

SG, please remember not to post anything you discuss with your lawyer. I would not want you to do something that your (hopefully soon to be ex) husband could use to have any advantage by you waiving any privilege.

 

[smallgirl]

SG, please remember not to post anything you discuss with your lawyer. I would not want you to do something that your (hopefully soon to be ex) husband could use to have any advantage by you waiving any privilege.

I wouldn't. He doesn't even know lit exists, much less who I am on here or that I'm on here.
Kentucky is a no-fault state. He can't use anything against me.

 

[smallgirl]

ICT... I am praying for ya. Hang in there. No matter what it costs it WILL be worth it.

I'm trying. After this morning and him reducing me to a blubbering mess after a 10 minute phone conversation? Any kind of freedom is better then this.
I want to be able to breathe again.

 

[pfflyerhot]

ICT I'm happy and relieved to see smallgirl's situation progressing positively... as positive IS for situations like this. Things are moving. That's good. Plod on. Don't give him any juice, his provocations to argue, hurt you, goad you... Like dogs and children sounds like he'd rather have your negative attention than no attention. Give him what he doesn't want...
IACT I went through a similar situation in my late 20's... although we weren't married... but did have a child.
IFCT I'm lucky, and so fucking happy, that I came to my "it-ain't-me-or-what-I'm-doing-or-not-doing-it's-fucking-him" epiphany when I did.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Ict I am feeling super weak and really want to see him. I miss the orgasms.

 

[emma_the_librarian]

ICT I want to know if the earth swallowed up Ohio.
IACT I wish he seemed as affected by the time apart as I am.

 

[just4friends]

Just hoping

ICT I am hoping that SexKitten found a good helper....

 

[zhutt]

I wouldn't. He doesn't even know lit exists, much less who I am on here or that I'm on here.
Kentucky is a no-fault state. He can't use anything against me.

Okay, just looking out for you.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

ICT I want to run away.

 

[smtst5]

ICT I should start working out again

 

[Kat73]

ICT I really shouldn't be surprised, I'm used to being let down by men.
IACT 8 hours before I pick him up was not the best time to tell me he had changed his mind.
IFCT I'm not hurt, just dissapointed. Somehow I knew it wasn't going to happen.

 

[AllofSean]

ICT after a strange weekend I felt alone and unable to share the things that meant a lot with the person who means the most to me

IACT it left me feeling strange and longing for her even more

IFCT I'm sorry if my strange state of mind contributed to anything I may have said or done to hurt her

 

[smallgirl]

ICT after being reduced to bawling 3 times in a 24 hour period by hubby, I think he finally saw he was about to break me.
ICT I'm usually the woman who says "oh well" and I don't worry about shit, but he's about got the best of me.
ICT I told him yesterday, that he pulls a stunt like he has the last 24 hours after our daughter moves back to campus? I'll pack my clothes, I'll let my girls and mom know I am ok, and I will turn my phone off and disappear and he can take all our stuff and kiss my fucking ass.

IAFCT felt good, saying that.

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT after being reduced to bawling 3 times in a 24 hour period by hubby, I think he finally saw he was about to break me.
ICT I'm usually the woman who says "oh well" and I don't worry about shit, but he's about got the best of me.
ICT I told him yesterday, that he pulls a stunt like he has the last 24 hours after our daughter moves back to campus? I'll pack my clothes, I'll let my girls and mom know I am ok, and I will turn my phone off and disappear and he can take all our stuff and kiss my fucking ass.

IAFCT felt good, saying that.

Bravo!!!

If you decide to leave lit for any reason will you post it here? I'm always relieved to see you post, I worry for you.

 

[PetNora]

......

 

[funluvinaj]

ICT thinking this is the most fucked up group of people I have ever been exposed to.

IACT being horrified by the casual way Infidelity is referenced here.

IFCT believing that if most of the people here would pull their hands out of their pants and turn off their PCs, they might discover a life.

Don't let the door hit you on your way out.

 

[lucky17atl]

Turned on

ICT thinking this is the most fucked up group of people I have ever been exposed to.

IACT being horrified by the casual way Infidelity is referenced here.

IFCT believing that if most of the people here would pull their hands out of their pants and turn off their PCs, they might discover a life.

ICT I do not usually find rude, judgemental, and narrow minded people sexy.
IFCT This person must be the exception because I really want to see them go fuck therself.
IACT judging someone without knowing that persons exact circumstances is not only rude but not very smart.

 

[Porkwarrior]

ICT I really shouldn't be surprised, I'm used to being let down by men.
IACT 8 hours before I pick him up was not the best time to tell me he had changed his mind.
IFCT I'm not hurt, just dissapointed. Somehow I knew it wasn't going to happen.

ICT If it wasn't going to work better to find out sooner rather than later, for a host of reasons.

IACT I stood a woman up last week (but it wasn't my fault!)....though she didn't really believe that...but it turned out to be the best thing really.

 

[Porkwarrior]

IFCT you probably shouldn't feed the troll.

 

[funluvinaj]

IFCT you probably shouldn't feed the troll.

I know... And I think I've responded that way only a handful of times in my 6 years. I'm a nice person but I loathe judgement. It got the better of me.

ICT lucky17atl's confessions made me grin.

 

[Cogan]

ICT I do not usually find rude, judgemental, and narrow minded people sexy.
IFCT This person must be the exception because I really want to see them go fuck therself.
IACT judging someone without knowing that persons exact circumstances is not only rude but not very smart.

I know... And I think I've responded that way only a handful of times in my 6 years. I'm a nice person but I loathe judgement. It got the better of me.

ICT lucky17atl's confessions made me grin.

Me too!