Confessions: What are yours?

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ICT hubby is being sensible and agreeing to a divorce.
ICT he brought me all the paperwork ...Check stubs, stock and 401k papers.
ICT I had to be slightly deceitful in letting him think a divorce was our way of "starting over with a clean slate".
ICT I'm too afraid to let him know the divorce for me is permanent and ill move out one day while he's at work.
IACT this is the only way I can get out peacefully.
IACT I started therapy last week, and he did as well, and she told him he should be in jail for what he did.
IACT I think her telling him that is why he's being so agreeable now.
IACT I don't care about getting "my half ". I just want out and this is my way of doing it, being able to disappear after and not be found by him.
IAFCT I know he will hate me forever when this is over.

ICT you should be so proud of yourself for taking such steps and that it is good to see you on the right path.
 
ICT I spent the day with my girls.
ICT I was very open and honest with them about how unhappy and miserable I am.
IACT both shocked me by supporting me in my decisions.
IACT they shocked me again by saying I should have left years ago.
IAFCT I felt like the world has been taken off my shoulders.
 
ICT I spent the day with my girls.
ICT I was very open and honest with them about how unhappy and miserable I am.
IACT both shocked me by supporting me in my decisions.
IACT they shocked me again by saying I should have left years ago.
IAFCT I felt like the world has been taken off my shoulders.

ICT I hope you have a lot more of these types of shocks.
IACT it is so good that your future is looking very bright.
 
ICT I spent the day with my girls.
ICT I was very open and honest with them about how unhappy and miserable I am.
IACT both shocked me by supporting me in my decisions.
IACT they shocked me again by saying I should have left years ago.
IAFCT I felt like the world has been taken off my shoulders.
ICT I am so relieved for you SG.
IACT I was sure your girls would be totally supportive of their mother
 
ICT I was hoping for an invitation today.
IACT I think I might not ever get another one.
IFCT I hate being called 'perfect' and then being invisible.
 
ICT I am trying to be. I know he has a temper he cannot control. I know the only thing that's keeping that under control right now is the Therapist telling him if it happened again, she'd report him. I know I'm doing this the low down, sneaky way, but after him threatening to kill me with his hands around my throat? Well that changed the rules.

That's just called survival. You do what you have to too survive.
Move out, then let your lawyer fight for your half. Don't give it up.
 
ICT I'm meeting mom for lunch Wednesday to tell her everything.
ICT I'm really nervous.
ICT ill be really glad when I'm on my own and can breathe...
 
ICT I'm scared to let myself be excited... I almost always end up hurt
ICT I'm anxious (good) that my gut tells me he's different
ICT he challenges my mind, quickens my pulse and dampens (and then some) my panties
 
ICT I'm scared to let myself be excited... I almost always end up hurt
ICT I'm anxious (good) that my gut tells me he's different
ICT he challenges my mind, quickens my pulse and dampens (and then some) my panties


Wishing you luck, AJ!

ICT I'm feeling a bit more daring, and thinking a certain Ms. Somebody is coaxing me in all the right ways. :eek:
 
ICT I coded his text messages to slide across my screen in purple.
IACT I left the other one in green.
IFCT I have a favorite.
 
ICT my in laws are snobby, think they're shit doesn't stink and think they're all that just because they're millionaires :mad:

ICT I feel belittled and resentment from them because I can't have children. :(

ICT while out for dinner with them last night I bit my tongue and stayed sitting uncomfortably even though I wanted to just get up and leave.

ICT this morning I'm wondering wtf am I doing sexually. :confused:

L:rose:
 
ICT my in laws are snobby, think they're shit doesn't stink and think they're all that just because they're millionaires :mad:

ICT I feel belittled and resentment from them because I can't have children. :(

ICT while out for dinner with them last night I bit my tongue and stayed sitting uncomfortably even though I wanted to just get up and leave.

ICT this morning I'm wondering wtf am I doing sexually. :confused:

L:rose:

*big hug* :rose:
 
ICT this morning, I am craving the taste of something sweet. ;)
 
ICT my sarcasm often gets me in trouble
IACT it gets me in trouble sometimes.
 
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