Confessions: What Are Yours?

[SassySheDevil]

ICT it sounds like you need a hug...offering open arms to you.....

Thank you...

ICT- I am going to go to the gay pride parade and forget all about this stuff.

 

[BiTodd]

Thank you...

ICT- I am going to go to the gay pride parade and forget all about this stuff.

I confess, I did not know about the parade and wish dearly I was going with Sassy.

 

[Deprived_in_AZ]

ICT I think I really have to do it
ICT I'm not sure I have the strength

 

[John_Whittaker0826]

ICT that being obsessed with the gym has been a good thing.

IACT I lost another 2.6 pounds this week.

IFCT I have never felt better!

Awesome, congrats!

ICT 3 days and no contact, I'm doing ok
IACT it's rough
IFCT keeping busy makes it easier

 

[veryviolet1]

ICT using my wang last night
IACT enjoying it more than I should have
IFCT it's been over a year- those muscles are far too out of shape.

 

[sassylilthang]

ICT there is nothing like a good conversation to get you mentally and sexually stimulated

IACT It was a long wait to get home and take advantage of myself. But the wait was worth it.

IFCT I am happily relaxing now, with a big smile on my face

 

[Arianthe]

ICT after 5 months, I still have no idea where it's going, or if it's going anywhere at all.

IFCT I suspect it's starting to mess with my head.

 

[mrmphilllll]

ICT after 5 months, I still have no idea where it's going, or if it's going anywhere at all.

IFCT I suspect it's starting to mess with my head.

I hear you there been going thru the same thing. Gives me such a headache...

 

[ketrell]

ICT: being irked by having plans cancelled three nights. I understand sleep and family, but not saying anything for hours at a time like - "I'm a little tired, I'm gonna cancel" or "maybe we could reschedule."

Am gonna turn my phone of a few days and just enjoy my last two days off in solitude.

 

[RimaKneeler]

Sounds good to me! I occasionally suck cock in the shop where I work, once a customer even paid me a few pounds! kneeling at work is such a buzz!!!

 

[RimaKneeler]

I confess that I am lonely tonight

I also confess that I miss intimacy...someone to cuddle close to at night, someone to reach out and take my hand while we stroll, someone to wipe the tears from my face when it's been a bad day

Yes, intimacy is important sometimes, i'm missing it in my life too. hope u find it...

 

[bigrlnsocal]

Awesome, congrats!

ICT 3 days and no contact, I'm doing ok
IACT it's rough
IFCT keeping busy makes it easier

Thanks!!

 

[java_girl]

ICT i just kicked some butt on song pop! lol!

 

[BTlvr]

ICT it's been ages since I've posted here, I think.

ICT I was innocent back then.

ICT now? Not so much.

 

[Kat73]

ICT the fantasy I had going through my head as I walked at dusk at the park was very arousing!

 

[isseii]

I confess that sometimes I feel like I'm back in school where all the cool girls are flocked around that one super hot guy and they know just what to say, they've got these awesome witty comments and can join in the banter with ease ... and then there's me, standing in the back just hoping to be noticed and at the same time terrified he'll say something to me and I'll just stammer and blush or say something completely dorky.

I also confess that I never know what to say to guys I find attractive, even here on lit where it's easier to express myself because I can hide behind a screen.

I further confess that reading all the smartass (in a good way) replies and fiery comments on a good looking guy's thread from the ultra hot and sexy women on lit intimidates me

And finally, I confess that this is why I lurk and don't post much on men's threads

ICT: The above post is a couple of days old now, so it's possibly that Shy won't see my response, but I really wanted to say something about this anyway. I'm the exact same way that you are, and it's really difficult for me to comment on some people's threads. However, I know that it's as difficult for most men to put themselves out there and start a thread as it is for women. I know that this is made even more difficult by the fact that so few women actually take the time to comment and support men's threads.

What I have started doing is watching the threads for a few days and paying attention to how the thread starter interacts with the girls (and guys) that post on their threads. It becomes quickly obvious when the guy only wants attention from, and wants to flirt with hot skinny chicks. I wander off and stop paying attention. It becomes quickly obvious when the guy only wants to play the "what would you do with me if you found me like this" game...and I quickly wander off and stop paying attention. There are quite a few male thread starters though, who treat each and every woman that posts nearly the same. They respond to and appreciate each and every comment and make it feel like your visit to their thread was appreciated. I make note of that and do my best to continue to support their threads. It doesn't matter to me if they find me physically attractive, visit my thread, or whatever. It only matters to me that they have the class and decency to accept a compliment graciously and to understand that even on Lit friendship doesn't have to be about mutual attraction or dress size.

I will confess that with some of my closer friends my compliments and flirting have been embarrassingly over the top at times. It's because I know the people so well and am comfortable with them, but I have been made aware of the fact that it has sometimes made things uncomfortable for other people so I have tried to stop doing it even though it really was all in fun. That said...the compliments or comments really don't need to be over the top and there's never any need to try to outdo anyone else comments. I tend to babble on about angles and lighting and lips and such...but as you can see I tend to babble on anyway. You can really just keep it simply and to the point, it's a compliment, not a competition. Fantastic picture, great legs, or sexy pose are all short and simple...but wonderful comments if their genuine.

Also, there are maybe three of four male posters that seem to have earned their place in the women's minds as the "hot men of Lit". A couple of these guys are cool...a couple not so much. Actually I was surprised to recently find out just how cool one of them really was and felt bad for being afraid to post in his thread for so many years. Anyway...I had a point I swear... There are a lot of new guys that try to start threads every week and I have noticed something disturbing. The women of Lit are always guaranteed to receive positive comments. Whether we be stick thin, average, fat (I hate bbw...I am just fat thank you), or over the age of "hot young thing". No matter what we are...someone will find us attractive, or at least pretend to in the hopes that we will cyber with them. The men though...unless their the perfect fucking ten...they won't receive a single comment. It makes me a little sad. We all need to show our male posters a little love now and then too. As long as they don't immediately start PM'ing us and asking us for more than that.

IACT: I am in a really strange place lately. I feel like my world is falling down around me and I would love nothing more than a nice safe place to be myself and to be free from all of it. If that safe place was within a pair of really strong masculine arms then all the better.

IACT: I just slept for almost 20 hours straight after not sleeping well at all for the last four or five days. It's left me very disoriented.

IFCT: I have a Lit friend that means a lot to me. It also confuses me a lot. I'm not sure that I have been handling things well at all or being the type of friend that they deserve to have.

 

[haha_on_me]

ICT: The above post is a couple of days old now, so it's possibly that Shy won't see my response, but I really wanted to say something about this anyway. I'm the exact same way that you are, and it's really difficult for me to comment on some people's threads. However, I know that it's as difficult for most men to put themselves out there and start a thread as it is for women. I know that this is made even more difficult by the fact that so few women actually take the time to comment and support men's threads.

What I have started doing is watching the threads for a few days and paying attention to how the thread starter interacts with the girls (and guys) that post on their threads. It becomes quickly obvious when the guy only wants attention from, and wants to flirt with hot skinny chicks. I wander off and stop paying attention. It becomes quickly obvious when the guy only wants to play the "what would you do with me if you found me like this" game...and I quickly wander off and stop paying attention. There are quite a few male thread starters though, who treat each and every woman that posts nearly the same. They respond to and appreciate each and every comment and make it feel like your visit to their thread was appreciated. I make note of that and do my best to continue to support their threads. It doesn't matter to me if they find me physically attractive, visit my thread, or whatever. It only matters to me that they have the class and decency to accept a compliment graciously and to understand that even on Lit friendship doesn't have to be about mutual attraction or dress size.

I will confess that with some of my closer friends my compliments and flirting have been embarrassingly over the top at times. It's because I know the people so well and am comfortable with them, but I have been made aware of the fact that it has sometimes made things uncomfortable for other people so I have tried to stop doing it even though it really was all in fun. That said...the compliments or comments really don't need to be over the top and there's never any need to try to outdo anyone else comments. I tend to babble on about angles and lighting and lips and such...but as you can see I tend to babble on anyway. You can really just keep it simply and to the point, it's a compliment, not a competition. Fantastic picture, great legs, or sexy pose are all short and simple...but wonderful comments if their genuine.

Also, there are maybe three of four male posters that seem to have earned their place in the women's minds as the "hot men of Lit". A couple of these guys are cool...a couple not so much. Actually I was surprised to recently find out just how cool one of them really was and felt bad for being afraid to post in his thread for so many years. Anyway...I had a point I swear... There are a lot of new guys that try to start threads every week and I have noticed something disturbing. The women of Lit are always guaranteed to receive positive comments. Whether we be stick thin, average, fat (I hate bbw...I am just fat thank you), or over the age of "hot young thing". No matter what we are...someone will find us attractive, or at least pretend to in the hopes that we will cyber with them. The men though...unless their the perfect fucking ten...they won't receive a single comment. It makes me a little sad. We all need to show our male posters a little love now and then too. As long as they don't immediately start PM'ing us and asking us for more than that.

IACT: I am in a really strange place lately. I feel like my world is falling down around me and I would love nothing more than a nice safe place to be myself and to be free from all of it. If that safe place was within a pair of really strong masculine arms then all the better.

IACT: I just slept for almost 20 hours straight after not sleeping well at all for the last four or five days. It's left me very disoriented.

IFCT: I have a Lit friend that means a lot to me. It also confuses me a lot. I'm not sure that I have been handling things well at all or being the type of friend that they deserve to have.

Wonderfully said, thank you. You are absolutely right, I'm nowhere near a 10 (barely in the numerical scale), but try to interact intelligently (I hope), have witty fun, but the lack of response to a male thread is why I deleted mine years ago, and would be utterly disappointed to venture a new one. I also, confessing, that I fear to post on threads just for the fact that it is disheartening to be ignored and not replied to for the sheer "competition" of the thread starter's attention. So, thank you for this post.

 

[SmileyGirl]

ICT I don't post much on guys ampic threads even though I have subscribed to a couple I really never know what to say either. My comments are usually lame hehe But it can be very intimidating when you see lots of people posting and you never know what to say. But I think isseii is right the comments no matter how lame you think they are....are appreciated by most of the guys that have pic threads. I do think it's nice when you're aknowledged for posting it always makes me want to post again but alot of the time I stop myself because I'm probably going to post that same lame comment again haha!

ICT I have work today and I really cannot be bothered.

ICT 12 months ago how things were very different and how much your life can change in that time......good and bad.

 

[isseii]

ICT I don't post much on guys ampic threads even though I have subscribed to a couple I really never know what to say either. My comments are usually lame hehe But it can be very intimidating when you see lots of people posting and you never know what to say. But I think isseii is right the comments no matter how lame you think they are....are appreciated by most of the guys that have pic threads. I do think it's nice when you're aknowledged for posting it always makes me want to post again but alot of the time I stop myself because I'm probably going to post that same lame comment again haha!

Hehe...I have that same problem. I like to tell them that they're too hot for me to be able to come up with anything intelligent to say other than, "damn you're hot!" It's probably true too!

 

[haha_on_me]

ICT I don't post much on guys ampic threads even though I have subscribed to a couple I really never know what to say either. My comments are usually lame hehe But it can be very intimidating when you see lots of people posting and you never know what to say. But I think isseii is right the comments no matter how lame you think they are....are appreciated by most of the guys that have pic threads. I do think it's nice when you're aknowledged for posting it always makes me want to post again but alot of the time I stop myself because I'm probably going to post that same lame comment again haha!

ICT I have work today and I really cannot be bothered.

ICT 12 months ago how things were very different and how much your life can change in that time......good and bad.

Hehe...I have that same problem. I like to tell them that they're too hot for me to be able to come up with anything intelligent to say other than, "damn you're hot!" It's probably true too!

I think sometimes it's the simple, yet goofily awkward posts that gets my attention....therefore tend to be that kind of a poster.

 

[ShortChangeHero]

I confess that ever since high school I've had a strong curiosity about what it would be like to mess around with another guy. I've never acted on it, at least not physically. The opportunity has just never manifested itself, or when it came close I was too cold-footed to try. My girlfriend knows this, and she's never judged me for it. However, she has said that it's something that she would never be able to deal with as long as we're together, and since it looks like we're in it for the long haul I don't expect I'll ever scratch this particular itch. Just another one of those things that you should really get out of your system while you're still young, I guess.

 

[Xerxes82]

ICT I need release. To feel sexually desired. To share in the passion and the joy of the act of sex. Definitely feeling pent up.

 

[whynotjustsayit]

I confess that ever since high school I've had a strong curiosity about what it would be like to mess around with another guy. I've never acted on it, at least not physically. The opportunity has just never manifested itself, or when it came close I was too cold-footed to try. My girlfriend knows this, and she's never judged me for it. However, she has said that it's something that she would never be able to deal with as long as we're together, and since it looks like we're in it for the long haul I don't expect I'll ever scratch this particular itch. Just another one of those things that you should really get out of your system while you're still young, I guess.

ICT I find that a very interesting confession.

 

[ShortChangeHero]

ICT I find that a very interesting confession.

Personally, I think it's one that most people have, honestly. They just don't choose to vocalize it. But, what is the purpose of internet anonymity if not this very thing? It's good to get it out in the open, especially in a non-judgmental atmosphere.

Either way, I'm glad to have at least amused your curiosity.

 

[Xerxes82]

ICT sometimes I just wish I could reach through the internet and give a friend a hug when they need it.