Confessions: What are yours? V2.

ICT It's more disgusting than surprising to see the truth.
ICT It's one of my most mortifying lessons I had to learn.
 
I've made a lot of mistakes and will continue to make mistakes. I'm flawed, but I feel hopeful, because I continue to work on myself
 
I'm disappointed in myself far more often than I'm proud of myself, because I know my abilities better than anyone and am uniquely qualified to call myself out for falling far short of my potential.
 
ICT this thrusting, vibrating dildo was money well spent. I'm not accomplishing much myself, but my butt feels like it's reached its potential. Positively brimming with confidence. I'm so proud.
 
ICT sometimes I miss jd’s fish, but then I just stare at his avatar and my world’s just fine.
 
ICT I'm constantly afraid I'm not good enough.

It will only feel so, if you let it. It's okay to analyze your flaws, then we should work on them, but we also need to look at the totality of ourselves. Look at the total you, think about all the good things you've done, pat yourself in the back sometimes. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Look at the total you, be honest with yourself in total, don't let insecurities dominate your analysis and you will find value in yourself.
 
It will only feel so, if you let it. It's okay to analyze your flaws, then we should work on them, but we also need to look at the totality of ourselves. Look at the total you, think about all the good things you've done, pat yourself in the back sometimes. Don't compare yourself to anyone. Look at the total you, be honest with yourself in total, don't let insecurities dominate your analysis and you will find value in yourself.

The old "argue for your limitations, and so they shall be yours".

I was a junkie. I got clean. Went to college. Hard as hell. My brain, didnt function. I would relate to something in a lecture and the next thing I knew, ten minutes had past and I didnt take notes. I struggled to write fast enough. I would have 3 exams on the same day...back to back...wtf? How could I keep up?

Well the student health services had free counseling. I went in and dumped for 45 minutes. He then asked me a question...who am i doing this for? And why? I couldn't answer. He asked, did i do the best i could given the situations? Not if i could do better under optimal conditions...but did i give my best effort? The answer was yes. So again he asked...who am I doing this for? If my best, isnt good enough.

Life is like that. We see our failures, but we need to be shown our successes.
 
Thank you. ICT you surprise me ;)
Your welcome and thank you, as well

The old "argue for your limitations, and so they shall be yours".

I was a junkie. I got clean. Went to college. Hard as hell. My brain, didnt function. I would relate to something in a lecture and the next thing I knew, ten minutes had past and I didnt take notes. I struggled to write fast enough. I would have 3 exams on the same day...back to back...wtf? How could I keep up?

Well the student health services had free counseling. I went in and dumped for 45 minutes. He then asked me a question...who am i doing this for? And why? I couldn't answer. He asked, did i do the best i could given the situations? Not if i could do better under optimal conditions...but did i give my best effort? The answer was yes. So again he asked...who am I doing this for? If my best, isnt good enough.

Life is like that. We see our failures, but we need to be shown our successes.


It's very hard to beat addiction, you did it and better for it. You should be proud of yourself

Yes you're 100% correct



The only ones we need to compare ourselves to, is ourselves yesterday

Did we improve, learn something, accomplish anything at all

If we are even a little better, than we were yesterday, it's a accomplishment we should be proud of

Most definitely, in society we are taught to keep quiet and stay humble. There's nothing wrong with being proud of yourself and saying I am proud of myself. We should be proud of our accomplishments and anything positive we've done, because you know we will beat ourselves up for no reason. Tell ourselves we aren't worthy, when it's a bs lie.


Thank both of you, for sharing
 
ICT last night I got caught up and pushed the boundaries, and I'm glad I did.
 
I'd be totally comfortable telling my partner dirty things about me and another woman to help him get off.
 
I confess I have successfully binged two seasons of Ozark and am ready for the third season to come to Netflix at the end of the month.
 
That I am really, really horny and could use a sexy lit woman to help me take care of it 😈
 
I like to shoot for guys who are seemingly 'out of my league' because how else am i going to up my game?
 
ICT in the last 24 hours I've felt more like myself sexually/libido-wise than I have in weeks.

IACT it's actually a little odd and distracting.
 
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