Confessions: What are yours? V2.

I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

Shake it off. Sure seems like jealousy to me. You've been nothing but nice to me.

ICT I'm eating whatever I want today and not counting anything... AND I really don't care what people say or think about me here. Which seems to be good all things considering ... lol
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

We haven't talked in a while, but you have always been sweet.
Unfortunately some people are sneaky and manipulative.
The truth will always surface, some may not admit to it, but it will. *Hugs*
 
ICT Even though I no longer practice, it's nice to hear the call to prayer in my house again.
ICT I think it's pretty cool that my ex husband bought my youngest some gowns and scarves.
ICT I'm so proud of my daughters, they stick to their guns no matter what.
 
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ICT I was stalked and coerced to have sex more or less against my will by a woman who later decided she was a lesbian. Then I married her housemate, also more or less against my will. Life is strange.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

What incredible horseshit. You're good people. Fuck that noise, for real.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.


Unfortunately on the internet there will always be some.


Good reason to not believe everything you hear.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

While this site and the PG as a whole have some really amazing Liter's there's also the few who find their pleasure in scheming and undermining others. You can't do anything about it and publicly showing annoyance or dismay at the callousness just serves to enable the offenders. As difficult as it may appear the best practice is simply to continue to be yourself and laugh at what you hear being parroted.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

WTF??? :mad:

Whoever is saying shit about NRJ, Fuck you!

NRJ is one of the nicest and coolest dudes on Lit. Anyone who says different can fuck off! :mad:

Oh, btw....

Happy Easter everyone. :)
 
Thanks for the love, everybody. It means a lot.

I wish I could laugh it off, shrug it off, and say "Fuck the haters", or whatever other generic statement that may apply. But "He doesn't treat women well" is hurtful and destructive. A statement like that can be interpreted in any number of ways. It's not just high school shit "he said/she said" shit. I've tried shaking it off but fuck, man, I'm not wrong to feel shaken by this. There are some true sociopaths around here.

I can't say that I know you well or even casually. I only know you from your posts in threads that I frequent. From what I've gleaned from your postings in your current and past incarnations, I can't recall anything that would support the premise that you treat women badly. And the previous posts from Litsers that I respect testifying to your character support my view.

It does suck that some motherfucking asshole gets their jollies out of spreading shit about you. And they're probably jealous of you as someone above noted. Yeah, it's easy for me and others to tell you not to let it get to you and let it slide, but we're not the one's being talked about behind shadows. Just know that some of us won't jump to conclusions and believe the first rumor that comes down the road. And it sounds like you have some good friends here who will support you.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

You are right. Anyone who knows you, knows better!! You are a sweetheart. :heart:

But I understand. I thought people would know better when it was myself being talked about. But I was wrong.
 
Re: Confessions: What are yours?

I'm starting to feel neglected, sexually, by my boyfriend. :(
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.

FWIW I had someone who hated me and was jealous...trying to find out things about me from others, starting rumors. Telling people "if you talk to her, I can't talk to you". So, I posted and flirted and basically flipped her off by being happy around here.

You and I have hardly talked, but I would never believe anything like what you've heard. If you were a creepy alt like...you know who...I'd steer clear.

So, just be you and let them be found out to be liars and troublemakers. Aka fuck 'em.
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.


I’ve had the same thing happen to me here. It is hard to imagine why someone would want to make up lies about you and hurt you. At first I was pissed off and wanted to call out the haters for their BS, but ultimately decided just to block them and go on about my business. I figured people who know me know the things they were saying weren’t true. I think you’ve built up enough good will currency here to cash it in. Anyone who has interacted with you knows what a gem you are, including me. 💕
 
I'm honestly disturbed by this place lately. It's gotten back to me that someone is spreading false rumors and lies that I treat women badly. This notion is completely laughable. Anyone that knows me knows this is absolute bullshit. I honestly can't even imagine who WOULD say this.

I really wish I could laugh this off and move on but the nature of this kind of thing is deeply troubling. Why would someone just straight up tell awful lies about me? Jealousy? Narcissism? Its creepy as shit and has pretty much ruined this place for me. I mean WHAT. THE. FUCK?

There's much, much bigger things going on in the world lately. I don't need, and I sure as fuck don't deserve, this kind of shit.
This just baffles me - I can't even fathom that people do this to anyone at all, much less to a certified awesome guy like yourself. As you said, anyone who knows you knows better. I think this last couple of pages shows the ones who believe this are the ones not worth listening to.
 
Thanks for the love, everybody. It means a lot.

I wish I could laugh it off, shrug it off, and say "Fuck the haters", or whatever other generic statement that may apply. But "He doesn't treat women well" is hurtful and destructive. A statement like that can be interpreted in any number of ways. It's not just high school shit "he said/she said" shit. I've tried shaking it off but fuck, man, I'm not wrong to feel shaken by this. There are some true sociopaths around here.

I hate this...makes me angry...You are such a decent, RESPECTFUL loving, thoughtful human with the biggest heart of gold...and that is CONSISTENT...you have never changed your core of human decency the entire time of being here...

You are such a wonderful soul and I am proud of who you are...:heart::rose::heart::rose:
 
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