Confessions: What are yours? Part V

[javajug]

ICT when I don't hear from my girl for a few hours, I get heartsick. It's been nearly a day.

 

[Anastasia1999]

ICT when I don't hear from my girl for a few hours, I get heartsick. It's been nearly a day.

Awwww I can keep you company

 

[ai_joe]

ICT I have a special knack for screwing up relationships.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

ICT it was a good weekend.

 

[mixhali55]

ICT I was hitting on a married friends wife,

 

[javajug]

How did it go?

 

[Sweet_Lara]

ICT i always dread what it takes getting there but sure will enjoy it once i’m there

 

[javajug]

Why dread?

 

[Sweet_Lara]

Why dread?

oh, sometimes you make plans but then wish you hadn’t. But once there, you enjoy them and happy you made them.

 

[mixhali55]

How did it go?

she was kind of responsive, flirty, hopeful

 

[bunny4med]

ICT I'm excited to get home and hug my dog.

 

[SmartIsSexy64]

ICT I'm excited to get home and hug my dog.

Woof

 

[emperor0379]

ICT though I love my partner, she is a bit too vanilla for me,

 

[Punkrockchick]

ICT my girlfriend is naked and passed out next to me and all I can think about is a big dick right now

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

ICT I miss having someone special in my life

 

[anti_textle]

ICT I've spent most of last 700 days with no company but my dog.

At least you have a dog. Ungrateful bastard. I want a DOG!

 

[sandybrooke]

I need my face fucked by a large cock.

 

[javajug]

ICT I am trying to find the words to tell my wife of 30 years that our sex life is not now and has never been enough for me.

 

[cheekygirl75]

ICT I am trying to find the words to tell my wife of 30 years that our sex life is not now and has never been enough for me.

That’s very brave of you, good luck!

 

[javajug]

That’s very brave of you, good luck!

Thank you. But I haven't found them yet and don't know if I ever will and I feel hopeless.

 

[javajug]

I don’t want to be an asshole here, but I’d like to suggest something: I think it’s great that you are trying to talk about a VERY difficult topic with your wife. But I would like you to consider whether there’s any need to talk about the past. There’s a problem now, and that needs attention, but brining up the entirety of your history with her is going to make her consider whether or not your entire time together is a lie. It’s also going to make her feel like she’s been failing you for so very long. And I don’t think you want that. It also doesn’t gain you anything. So I’d consider maybe for using in the here and now.
(I appreciate that you may NEED to talk about the past for your own peace of mind, but I think you should consider if that is a good idea)

Fair enough. I plan on seeing a therapist first. And then maybe a couple's therapist.

 

[javajug]

I support this idea. Too many men are afraid of it.
You have a problem in your relationship, and you want to fix it. There’s nothing wrong with getting help, especially about the past, so you can focus on a solution. I love that you are getting it

I had a great therapist. Then I got derailed. Then COVID. I'm going to see if we can work together again.

ICT I'm afraid.

 

[cheekygirl75]

I had a great therapist. Then I got derailed. Then COVID. I'm going to see if we can work together again.

ICT I'm afraid.

It's scary, definitely... but it sounds like you've got this. You've done it before & can again. And you want to, which is more than a lot of spouses in sexless marriages can say...

 

[J_Bone]

ICT I've considered makings posts in various forums just to get a list of people to put on ignore.

ICT That seems rather shallow and smacks more of entrapment than anything else based on some response to a loaded precursor. Nothing against the ol' ignore function. Just prefer to let it be needed organically.

 

[javajug]

So first, there's a reason I don't do it. Second, if I express something I believe in deeply, and you come back with something against that, that isn't entrapment. That's you being given the freedom to say things I would consider shitty. There was a thread in which I posted "Transgender people deserve to be respected for their gender". A lot of people came back with some positions I felt were full of bigotry. I don't see that as entrapment. I see that as you having a chance to say a thing, choosing to say a thing, and then being held accountable for that choice. I wasn't trying to trick anyone. People jumped at the chance to say shitty things.

Why do I get the feeling we just witnessed you in action?