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Confessions: What are yours? Part V

daystate said:
Sounds like youre trying too hard to please.
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Lol I’m really not. You know how you just met someone so it’s all still new? So I’m not invested. It’s just something I noticed in passing and it annoys me. I find it rude. So I won’t continue with this person or I won’t put forth a lot of effort.
 
Chillygirl said:
Lol I’m really not. You know how you just met someone so it’s all still new? So I’m not invested. It’s just something I noticed in passing and it annoys me. I find it rude. So I won’t continue with this person or I won’t put forth a lot of effort.
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People enjoy the chase.Its a fine line between easy and standoffish.
If youve had to work for it you respect it.
Forgive the pun but if its landed in your lap then you dont tend to respect it.
 
Sunshine_ButterflyFlower said:
ICT I tried to be submissive before and talked to Dom's before but I always somehow got disappointed because they rushed things way too quickly and only saw me as a sex object and only as that. I thought it would be deeper than that. So I decided to walk away from it all together. I want to be something more than just some sex object, I actually want to be cared for, loved and respected. Someone actually told me, that's not what it's about, so I think that's probably not best for me than.
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It's obvious that you are looking for a special person, we all have. It's just my opinion, but I believe most guys that say they're Doms are just bullies and empty souls. I don't think you should have to try to be submissive, either you are or you're not. Personally, my views on a D/s relationship does not match with many people, but I'm fine with it. I don't think advertising for it is how it works, unless you're hiring it as a service, which it's not...for me I find I have always been drawn to strong submissive women, always. And that has always worked well for me and my partner in our relationships, how far we have taken it, was always carried on with respect and boundaries, for all. Just sayin'
 
goodsonformom said:
It's obvious that you are looking for a special person, we all have. It's just my opinion, but I believe most guys that say they're Doms are just bullies and empty souls. I don't think you should have to try to be submissive, either you are or you're not. Personally, my views on a D/s relationship does not match with many people, but I'm fine with it. I don't think advertising for it is how it works, unless you're hiring it as a service, which it's not...for me I find I have always been drawn to strong submissive women, always. And that has always worked well for me and my partner in our relationships, how far we have taken it, was always carried on with respect and boundaries, for all. Just sayin'
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I have to agree. The best D/s relationships are those that happen organically, where two have gotten to know one another, and nothing is rushed.

If you say you're submissive, rest assured you in box will be filled and atleast 3/4 of them will be from people who just want to role play.
 
barefootgirl69 said:
I have to agree. The best D/s relationships are those that happen organically, where two have gotten to know one another, and nothing is rushed.

If you say you're submissive, rest assured you in box will be filled and atleast 3/4 of them will be from people who just want to role play.
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Thank you for the comment, you speak the truth.
 
SkyeGirl32 said:
ICT Sometimes I think I get too emotional and worked up over stupid shit.
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I do this too, but for me it's not necessarily stupid at the time. Only after later reflection.
A lot of my issues over stupid stuff is because someone else has done the same thing to me previously and it was a precursor to something major.
 
SinfuIDreams said:
I do this too, but for me it's not necessarily stupid at the time. Only after later reflection.
A lot of my issues over stupid stuff is because someone else has done the same thing to me previously and it was a precursor to something major.
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That’s a good point. Like I know why I react the way I do. I just wish I didn’t react in that way. Yay trauma!
 
SkyeGirl32 said:
That’s a good point. Like I know why I react the way I do. I just wish I didn’t react in that way. Yay trauma!
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Don't blame yourself, trauma affects everyone differently. I have had enough of my own and spoken to enough shrinks to know I will never be "normal" best I can do is live with it.
Pre explaining helps a lot to especially if you really care about someone clue them in on things that might cause a less that desirable reaction.
 
SinfuIDreams said:
Don't blame yourself, trauma affects everyone differently. I have had enough of my own and spoken to enough shrinks to know I will never be "normal" best I can do is live with it.
Pre explaining helps a lot to especially if you really care about someone clue them in on things that might cause a less that desirable reaction.
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It doesn’t help that lately it’s just been idiot people on here who won’t care about me explaining things. Plus I’m not going to go into details with anyone from here. 😅

But If it was someone who I cared about I would let them know things. :)
 
SkyeGirl32 said:
It doesn’t help that lately it’s just been idiot people on here who won’t care about me explaining things. Plus I’m not going to go into details with anyone from here. 😅

But If it was someone who I cared about I would let them know things. :)
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Fair call, only give what you feel comfortable in sharing.
 
ICT I'm unsettled in my life so many people have come and gone recently, I don't miss one of them. I'm glad the dramatics have ceased but I can't help but look at the bigger picture am I always going to be destined to only form surface deep connections?



IACT even at my happiest times I always feel that I am missing something major in my life.
 
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