Completely Creepified

[polarstar]

...sorry to interrupt...but now I would really like to know what kind of underwear nice men wear...for those of us who don´t like stained hole ridden boxers...perhaps someone can tell me?

 

[MissTaken]

...sorry to interrupt...but now I would really like to know what kind of underwear nice men wear...for those of us who don´t like stained hole ridden boxers...perhaps someone can tell me?

Aha!

That is probably the most important question or thought on this thread!

Thanks for giving it meaning.

Nice guys don't wear underwear.

 

[Sillyman]

Generally clean briefs with no holes, or boxers that are the right size, again have no holes, and have a heart, smiley face, or Garfield pattern.

 

[polarstar]

Generally clean briefs with no holes, or boxers that are the right size, again have no holes, and have a heart, smiley face, or Garfield pattern.

...Garfield?...wouldn´t that mean that they´re more into lasagna than sex?...and MissT, I don´t mind walking around without underwear sometimes...but it´s not so fun to do it with the rest of your clothes on...I guess it´s a different feel under a skirt...

 

[Sillyman]

Good men like lasagna.

 

[k¡tty]

His loss.

lol I have to get up in an hour. This is a bit silly to even pretend I am going to be able to work tomorrow.

Then, I guess we do what we have to do.

I harbor no real ill will toward the man.
We do try to do things as well as we can for the kids. But, if not for the children, it is likely we never would had said a single word to one another after the separation. There just isn't much there and whatever was there, he did a good job destroying while I lived here, at his house.

Ah well, random thoughts and yes, I realize divorce is a two way street. We both made mistakes, and in the end, what we have now is better than what we ever had together.

Babble Babble Babble

and he has only Generic Brand coffee! Gosh!

You're a good person MissT. just in case I haven't fawned all over you lately as I tend to do.

I don't exactly hate my ex, tho quite frankly, I'd have every reason in the world to. If it wasn't for the beautiful lil rugrat we created together.. I'd never speak to him again and be very happy with that. It takes two to make or break a marriage, but y'know what? One person can't alone keep the marriage going. Some people don't seem to realize that love can be killed..

I told mine a few months back ( before the fire and all his new bs lol) that he was a good man, I was a good woman.. we just didn't fit together tho.. we didn't bring that out in each other anymore. My indifference that I aquired to counteract his emotional instablity just fueled him on.

I swear.. I'm going to blame my rambling on the time. lol

I will say this though, that once my ex moves out onto his own, out of his parents home, I'd love a peek at his digs. I'd love to know if he will actually do his own laundry or not.. how clean he'll be after those years of complaints over 2 dirty dishes in the sink and a small amount of our sons toys on the floor. Hell I'd just love for him to be on his own and trying to make it.. like I've had to do for the past 10 months.


Polarstar I think the non-holey boxers and boxerbriefs are the way to go. ;-)

 

[Lost Cause]

I'm missing something........

If you lost power, how come your computer is working? Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmm.......

 

[Sillyman]

Always seeking the escape from pain...

Yeah, it's best you don't hate him. It's too easy to translate that over to your kid, and that can be an awful experience. I have already found that out.

 

[Lost Cause]

Sorry, I get it now.....

Ex's house must be away from village, in another grid. Go through the drawers, look for money. It should be an "emotional trauma fee." Stay warm.

 

[polarstar]

Polarstar I think the non-holey boxers and boxerbriefs are the way to go. ;-) [/B]

...glad you think so, Kitty...I´m mostly into boxerbriefs...there are some really good Danish and German brands out there...

...on the more serious side, I sure hope you find a better man next time...not all men are bad...and didn´t he ever wash up the dishes if he was so bothered?...in this part of the world, that would never be tolerated...but don´t look through his laundry...look for some new sexy male underwear instead...right on the bearer...

 

[k¡tty]

Takes more time and effort to hate him than I'd care to put towards him, to be honest.


My son loves him, he loves my son. That's all that matters.

I grew up in a home where my mother despised my father and hearing her say to me, "you're just like your dad" hurt. I knew that she intended it as an insult.. I refuse to put my son in the middle as I was.. I informed my ex when we separated that he and his family are to keep their thoughts and opinions about me, to themselves as I would do the same.


lol I was 18 when we married polarstar, wtf do any of us know at 18?

As to finding someone new.. I will eventually. When the time is right and my life isn't filled with so many issues of divorce and such.. when I'm able to open up my heart to another.



heh you have the idea Lost Cause, I was also thinking of porn and sexual devices that could cause him to be embarrassed if he knew anyone saw them. Something to give her a good giggle over having to be in this situation.

 

[Sillyman]

lol I was 18 when we married polarstar, wtf do any of us know at 18?

What do any of us know, ever?

 

[polarstar]

lol I was 18 when we married polarstar, wtf do any of us know at 18?

As to finding someone new.. I will eventually. When the time is right and my life isn't filled with so many issues of divorce and such.. when I'm able to open up my heart to another.

heh you have the idea Lost Cause, I was also thinking of porn and sexual devices that could cause him to be embarrassed if he knew anyone saw them. Something to give her a good giggle over having to be in this situation.

...I for sure didn´t know anything at 18...glad I didn´t marry until much later...also, I think you have exactly the right attitude...mature and just wanting to cause some embarrassment...not a bad idea...wishing you all the best...also it´s a good thing he loves his son...as I´ve got a 10 yr old son, I know they need their dads...

 

[MissTaken]

What do any of us know, ever?

Nada!

I was 30 when I made the decision.



OH and yes, Lost Cause, the ex has a pc and heat. So that is where we stayed.

Home again!
Home again!

Jiggity jig jig....

Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Home with heat, power, fresh coffee and no dog odor.

And the pets made it !

 

[MissTaken]

Always seeking the escape from pain...

Yeah, it's best you don't hate him. It's too easy to translate that over to your kid, and that can be an awful experience. I have already found that out.

Yep.

We do our best to keep faces up and do parent together, more than we did when living together.

There have been times when I have felt I needed to confront him in front of the children. Perhaps when he is rough with them at my house...I will speak up, but we dont' argue.

They need not only to think we get along, but that they are safe. Unfortunately, they dont' always feel that way.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

Umm dont' mistake him for someone who gives a damn, please!

Actually, he allowed us here for the children's sake.

My comment was of a more general nature.
But could he not have simply kept the kids himself and told you to find somewhere else to sleep?

 

[Jimi]

Look what I just found!

My comment was of a more general nature.
But could he not have simply kept the kids himself and told you to find somewhere else to sleep?

Hey, Bud?

Yeah, he did a nice thing - outta character - leave it, OK.

We all know that "she done you wrong" by your "nick" - don't project onto a situation that is different.

MissT is my friend, and it appears that Sunday night was rather traumatic - something I'm just now aware of - so I ap[ologize if I sound a bit "overprotective".

I am party to a great deal MORE of her story than you, logically - and the fact that she had to spend a whole NIGHT alone in her ex's residence would be very very freaky without support from friends - I'm going to have to spank her next time she sees us, because she didn't CALL!

 

[MissTaken]

My comment was of a more general nature.
But could he not have simply kept the kids himself and told you to find somewhere else to sleep?

No, he works midnights.

And has never taken a day off work for anything to do with the children.

I do appreciate his letting us go there.

From the gal who offered to take her ex father in law to doctor's appointments and welcomes all of the family into her home for birthdays and such

I am not bad for a divorcee!

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks, jimmi,

Mon frere!

There was no way I was waking you up with my evening!

Besides, my lit friends kept me company on this nasty ass thread.

 

[Sillyman]

I am not bad for a divorcee!

Not all break-ups result in you forming a life long enemy.