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Lol. I just saw the smiley face. That's pretty neat.

And I do hope your poor sausage isn't offended. I'd hate to think I made it blush.
 
I sooo don’t see “Tony” in my handle. Aching? At times for damn sure, but not in a bad way
I’m going to admit publicly that I still don’t get your name, but I’ve also not slept much in two days so I’m just going to try again tomorrow 🤣

Otherwise, I’m asking Panda or Aussie for a hint!
 
Hint: four-word phrase
Why…this is a fascinating game :)

@Surferdude1891 - let me know if you do want the thread deleted. I have the power, lol. I do read it as playful, and I do think you should post your original OP in the Personals board. But, like others have suggested, you’ll likely meet more people just playing around here in the Playground. (Also, though, I would imagine several people who’ve posted in your thread would comment on your new Personal ad which would keep it bumped to page 1, at least at first).
 
@Surferdude1891 - I'm curious whether we'd chatted before? I used to talk to a "surfer dude" a while back, not sure if thats you though...? maybe not, and if so, my mistake.
 
I am normally a pro-active person and would go out of my way to meet another persons needs and desires. However, this is just too much of a challenge. Firstly, I need to find somebody to marry so that I would have a husband to cheat on, then I have to move, and convince my new husband to move to VA or the 619 area and I don’t even have a clue where they are. On top of all that, we would have to connect. What if we don’t? I am stuck with a husband I want to cheat on, in a place that I never knew existed. Even if we do connect, my mental health is going to be totally fucked and you will probably spend all your time trying to put me back together. I will become a burden and you will leave me for another mistress. This is all too much, I can feel my heart palpitating already! 🤯
@AmberLGreen - you made me smile/laugh with this. Good one, love it. :)
 
I like parties involved on both sides of the issue here but hate to see every other thread turn into this. Bullying? Come on. We know these players. Amber might be the nicest person on the board. She happens to be funny as hell. Why raise this?

The ability to laugh at yourself is a very desirable quality, imo. Amber possesses it in spades. The last guy (Grant) that placed his personal ad here and got grief for it wound up with an inbox full of boobs and butts. I think he's plotting right now how to screw up again.

Were this you chilly, I'd be defending you as well. I think I have a good idea of your character and I would certainly give you the benefit of the doubt.

More importantly, why does everything here have to turn into a dust up? That was a rhetorical question and I'm not looking for finger pointers to come in and place blame. I'm hoping to get people to stop.

I get surfer dude wants this to go away. I also get that LW wants to learn how to surf 😉😁
***Dear PC Police,
That last sentence was a joke. I know LW and know she will understand. ***

What surfer dude needs to do is just let it die. By the weekend, this will be on Pg 5 if he let's it go.

What we all need to do is assume the best in each other....laugh more, bicker less. This place is supposed to be fun. It's a playground, not a boxing ring.

Peace.
 
I like parties involved on both sides of the issue here but hate to see every other thread turn into this. Bullying? Come on. We know these players. Amber might be the nicest person on the board. She happens to be funny as hell. Why raise this?

The ability to laugh at yourself is a very desirable quality, imo. Amber possesses it in spades. The last guy (Grant) that placed his personal ad here and got grief for it wound up with an inbox full of boobs and butts. I think he's plotting right now how to screw up again.

Were this you chilly, I'd be defending you as well. I think I have a good idea of your character and I would certainly give you the benefit of the doubt.

More importantly, why does everything here have to turn into a dust up? That was a rhetorical question and I'm not looking for finger pointers to come in and place blame. I'm hoping to get people to stop.

I get surfer dude wants this to go away. I also get that LW wants to learn how to surf 😉😁
***Dear PC Police,
That last sentence was a joke. I know LW and know she will understand. ***

What surfer dude needs to do is just let it die. By the weekend, this will be on Pg 5 if he let's it go.

What we all need to do is assume the best in each other....laugh more, bicker less. This place is supposed to be fun. It's a playground, not a boxing ring.

Peace.
First of all, I have no desire to want to learn how to surf. :D 😂

I agree with much of what you said. I do think maybe the word bullying might be a little strong for what usually goes on here, but the definite egging on that takes place can get out of control especially when the person has indicated they would like it to stop. It really is no wonder new people feel uncomfortable or intimidated when there is a mob mentality and a pile on ensues over something as innocent as posting on the wrong thread or heaven forbid referring to a woman as a “female” etc.

I agree with the laugh more and bicker less, but I think we are too far gone to assume the best in each other, unfortunately. People have shown their true colors (not necessarily in this thread) and as my favorite saying goes…When people show you who they really are, believe them.
 
I get it but I'm going to choose optimism. It doesn't cost me anything to assume someone's being funny rather than caustic. I do think far too often something that occurred previously influences how people treat each other.
I've done it. We are all guilty of it. I thought Mr. Tenant was being a dick and piling on in a thread and called him on it. At some point I realized no one comes here to see me in a pissing match. I've since realized Mr. Tenant can be a funny dude. No grudge. Live and let live.
 
I get it but I'm going to choose optimism. It doesn't cost me anything to assume someone's being funny rather than caustic. I do think far too often something that occurred previously influences how people treat each other.
I've done it. We are all guilty of it. I thought Mr. Tenant was being a dick and piling on in a thread and called him on it. At some point I realized no one comes here to see me in a pissing match. I've since realized Mr. Tenant can be a funny dude. No grudge. Live and let live.
I disagree with you in that it’s hard to be optimistic about someone’s motives and intentions when you have seen their shitty behavior repeatedly.

You’re still sexy tho…😘😁
 
That's fair. I likely haven't got as involved here and therefore, that may be easier for me. It doesn't mean there aren't people I don't enjoy. I just tend to avoid them or put them on ignore. Sometimes it has nothing to do with them being a good or bad person but more that our personalities don't blend, or more accurately, I don't enjoy them.
 
I like parties involved on both sides of the issue here but hate to see every other thread turn into this. Bullying? Come on. We know these players. Amber might be the nicest person on the board. She happens to be funny as hell. Why raise this?

The ability to laugh at yourself is a very desirable quality, imo. Amber possesses it in spades. The last guy (Grant) that placed his personal ad here and got grief for it wound up with an inbox full of boobs and butts. I think he's plotting right now how to screw up again.

Were this you chilly, I'd be defending you as well. I think I have a good idea of your character and I would certainly give you the benefit of the doubt.

More importantly, why does everything here have to turn into a dust up? That was a rhetorical question and I'm not looking for finger pointers to come in and place blame. I'm hoping to get people to stop.

I get surfer dude wants this to go away. I also get that LW wants to learn how to surf 😉😁
***Dear PC Police,
That last sentence was a joke. I know LW and know she will understand. ***

What surfer dude needs to do is just let it die. By the weekend, this will be on Pg 5 if he let's it go.

What we all need to do is assume the best in each other....laugh more, bicker less. This place is supposed to be fun. It's a playground, not a boxing ring.

Peace.
Thank you bogey ❤️ Pssstt.. I also think you are a really nice guy and funny as hell.

I know in my heart that what I posted was not done with any malice. Surferdude has said he didn’t feel like he was being bullied and the moderator has said that the thread reads as playful. I can sleep at night knowing this.

LW you mention shitty behaviour. I don’t know who you are referring to but if you think my behaviour has been shitty at any time, I would like to think that you would tell me. In fact, out of all of your circle of friends, I would have expected you to be the one to feel that they could be that direct with me and it disappoints me to think that you couldn’t.

I am logging off now because I need a good orgasm or four but I shall return for more flirting and laughter in the near future.
 
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