Lonelywife1205
Lonely no more
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- Jan 15, 2019
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Amber, you’re right…if I thought your behavior was shitty I would have been direct about it as I would be with any of my friends and I do consider you a friend. Tbh, when I posted that, you never even crossed my mind.Thank you bogeyPssstt.. I also think you are a really nice guy and funny as hell.
I know in my heart that what I posted was not done with any malice. Surferdude has said he didn’t feel like he was being bullied and the moderator has said that the thread reads as playful. I can sleep at night knowing this.
LW you mention shitty behaviour. I don’t know who you are referring to but if you think my behaviour has been shitty at any time, I would like to think that you would tell me. In fact, out of all of your circle of friends, I would have expected you to be the one to feel that they could be that direct with me and it disappoints me to think that you couldn’t.
I am logging off now because I need a good orgasm or four but I shall return for more flirting and laughter in the near future.
I will say though that sometimes you and I and lots of other people are quick to dismiss or overlook the shitty behavior of our friends. I’ve mentioned this before I think, but I had a friend here who was pretty mean to other people but was always good to me. I struggled with that friendship. I think it’s easy to want to see the best in our friends and to hang on to the parts of them we know are good. The harder thing is to call them out when they need it and not turn a blind eye to their bad behavior.