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[Surferdude1891]

Don’t delete it, you’ve got to keep

I appreciate the support.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I am normally a pro-active person and would go out of my way to meet another persons needs and desires. However, this is just too much of a challenge. Firstly, I need to find somebody to marry so that I would have a husband to cheat on, then I have to move, and convince my new husband to move to VA or the 619 area and I don’t even have a clue where they are. On top of all that, we would have to connect. What if we don’t? I am stuck with a husband I want to cheat on, in a place that I never knew existed. Even if we do connect, my mental health is going to be totally fucked and you will probably spend all your time trying to put me back together. I will become a burden and you will leave me for another mistress. This is all too much, I can feel my heart palpitating already!

 

[Surferdude1891]

I am normally a pro-active person and would go out of my way to meet another persons needs and desires. However, this is just too much of a challenge. Firstly, I need to find somebody to marry so that I would have a husband to cheat on, then I have to move, and convince my new husband to move to VA or the 619 area and I don’t even have a clue where they are. On top of all that, we would have to connect. What if we don’t? I am stuck with a husband I want to cheat on, in a place that I never knew existed. Even if we do connect, my mental health is going to be totally fucked and you will probably spend all your time trying to put me back together. I will become a burden and you will leave me for another mistress. This is all too much, I can feel my heart palpitating already!

And this is why I’m trying desperately to figure out how to delete my posts

 

[Surferdude1891]

Someone help lol

 

[barefootgirl69]

I am normally a pro-active person and would go out of my way to meet another persons needs and desires. However, this is just too much of a challenge. Firstly, I need to find somebody to marry so that I would have a husband to cheat on, then I have to move, and convince my new husband to move to VA or the 619 area and I don’t even have a clue where they are. On top of all that, we would have to connect. What if we don’t? I am stuck with a husband I want to cheat on, in a place that I never knew existed. Even if we do connect, my mental health is going to be totally fucked and you will probably spend all your time trying to put me back together. I will become a burden and you will leave me for another mistress. This is all too much, I can feel my heart palpitating already!

619 is my favorite place, Amber! Not far from me. Move out here and I'll keep your hubby happy so he won't notice you missing a few weekends every few months. *wink wink*

 

[barefootgirl69]

And this is why I’m trying desperately to figure out how to delete my posts

Putting a "closed" sign out is like inviting people over.

Have fun with it. You gave us all a spot to hang out and enjoy ourselves.

 

[AmberLGreen]

619 is my favorite place, Amber! Not far from me. Move out here and I'll keep your hubby happy so he won't notice you missing a few weekends every few months. *wink wink*

I thought 69 was your favourite place

Seeing as I have yet to choose my hubby, do you have any preferences? If we are going to share him, we may as well both have an input. He has to be English though. I can’t learn a new language at my age.

There may be another option. @Surferdude1891 does your mistress have to have an husband or could they have a wife. I would happily marry bfg.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Not yet. Like searching for a mythical creature. It leaves leave you wanting more an dreading then search. But thanks for keeping the thread active. Any idea how to delete it?

Noooo!

Lit lore forbids it.

 

[Surferdude1891]

Noooo!

Lit lore forbids it.

Well fml!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Well fml!

I thought that was entirely the point

 

[Surferdude1891]

Enjoy

 

[barefootgirl69]

I thought 69 was your favourite place

Seeing as I have yet to choose my hubby, do you have any preferences? If we are going to share him, we may as well both have an input. He has to be English though. I can’t learn a new language at my age.

There may be another option. @Surferdude1891 does your mistress have to have an husband or could they have a wife. I would happily marry bfg.

Tall and interesting, a good sense of humor -- I mean humour. Definitely English. You have good taste, my dear.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Tall and interesting, a good sense of humor -- I mean humour. Definitely English. You have good taste, my dear.

Plus, those ears give you something to hold onto when getting a good pounding.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Welcome to Lit @Surferdude1891
*Waves hi from RVA *

 

[Chillygirl]

Months ago I brought up the bullying question…at what point does teasing become bullying. This is a perfect example. The man has voiced his displeasure a couple of times but people just keep running with the joke. Damn I feel sorry for new people who try to join in here.

@Surferdude1891 i think you can ask a mod to delete this thread for you.

 

[AmberLGreen]

Months ago I brought up the bullying question…at what point does teasing become bullying. This is a perfect example. The man has voiced his displeasure a couple of times but people just keep running with the joke. Damn I feel sorry for new people who try to join in here.

@Surferdude1891 i think you can ask a mod to delete this thread for you.

It is just teasing. It is a way to try and include him.

How would he have felt if nobody had said anything to him at all? If nobody had posted anything to him.

This is no longer a playground. It is becoming a highly policed, political, war ground.

@Surferdude1891 if I have made you feel bullied, victimised or offended in any way then I sincerely apologise.

Chilly, I hope that you are also going to call out actual bullying when you see it happening. If you need me to, I can give you a nudge when I see it just in case you have your rose coloured glasses on

 

[Chillygirl]

It is just teasing. It is a way to try and include him.

How would he have felt if nobody had said anything to him at all? If nobody had posted anything to him.

This is no longer a playground. It is becoming a highly policed, political, war ground.

@Surferdude1891 if I have made you feel bullied, victimised or offended in any way then I sincerely apologise.

Chilly, I hope that you are also going to call out actual bullying when you see it happening. If you need me to, I can give you a nudge when I see it just in case you have your rose coloured glasses on

Well aren’t you sweet. I’ve called it out before and I’ll call it out again no worries

 

[AmberLGreen]

Well aren’t you sweet. I’ve called it out before and I’ll call it out again no worries

It is good to know you are out there looking after everybody. Next time I see it happening I will remember to tag you so you can come to the rescue.

 

[Surferdude1891]

Months ago I brought up the bullying question…at what point does teasing become bullying. This is a perfect example. The man has voiced his displeasure a couple of times but people just keep running with the joke. Damn I feel sorry for new people who try to join in here.

@Surferdude1891 i think you can ask a mod to delete this thread for you.

Thank you for chiming in. I appreciate it. I didn’t feel bullied and I did apparently post in the wrong bored. However it was a sincere post.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I get what Chillygirl is saying.

Like Amber, I was trying to be inclusive and could definitely overstepped a line. There's a fine line when it comes be being playful and it does seem that of late the line  really wants to move.

Surfer dude, if you want us to stop, please do tell us. I'm sorry for flaring it up, too.

But if you like the attention...

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I dunno.
I like the PG a lot more than when everyone was pretending they were “just friends” with OldUncleOxfordJackOff.

Why the fuck did I think of 46 when I read this ?!?! Lol

 

[aussiegeekygal]

There are bigger hills to die on than this thread. Just saying.

I appreciated the cognitive dissonance. I got to think a little deeper about how people may interpret playgrounders being playgrounders as bullying.. it took months of observation for me to get a feel for this place.

 

[AmberLGreen]

@Surferdude1891

The Playground can be a fun place to be. I would say that the best way to start conversations whether for friendship or something a little more intimate, is to have a bit of flirty fun on the threads. People will then get to see your personality and you will see theirs. If they like your personality, they will soon start talking with you.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

@Surferdude1891

The Playground can be a fun place to be. I would say that the best way to start conversations whether for friendship or something a little more intimate, is to have a bit of flirty fun on the threads. People will then get to see your personality and you will see theirs. If they like your personality, they will soon start talking with you.

For sure. Be active

Hell, this thread is a hit in terms of the PG in my opinion. There are some strong personalities here and surfer seems like he could really mesh well.

This is one of the sillier corners of the internet. With boobs.

 

[Surferdude1891]

Well this has certainly given me a glimpse into quiet a few personalities lol