Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread

[Hornynipples61]

Like you said, everyone is different.

But please don't presume to speak for anyone else when you opine in a BDSM-oriented forum that "pain is not what pussy spanking is about." (Based on your Lit profile and activity history, you don't appear to be a BDSM aficionado anyway, much less a practitioner, which I suspect reflects your more gentle disposition on the topic.)

Like many other women, my sweet sub's aroused bare cunt leaks like a Dutch dike when spanked. The temporary sharp intense pain she experiences with each slap of the hand or stroke of the crop is a big reason why.

If you saw or heard her so enthusiastically inflict this pain upon herself with her typical aroused zeal and adorable squeals you'd likely find it quite arousing too. I love sending her random internet porn pics or video links to puffy pink spanked pussies because it makes her instantly wet thinking about me doing the same thing to her.

Sure, different women will inevitably have different expectations, reactions, and tolerance for the level of pain inflicted on their tender lady bits when engaging in kinky play like this. But pain can be a powerful aphrodisiac, and especially so for those who enjoy BDSM play. As a reminder, the "M" in BDSM stands for "masochism", which generally refers to experiencing sexual gratification in association with receiving pain.

No need to take my word alone for it though. Check out this arousing video of another real-life couple for example. Be sure to turn up the volume so you can hear how much she loves it and enthusiastically begs for more.

That's the video that turned me on to pussy spanking. So amazing. You can see how much she loves it because she keeps offering her pussy for more.

These days I prefer my knees tied and spread wide. In the beginning my lips are closed but then start to swell and slowly open. I love the strap or a crop.

And once the crop hit my anus...but that's for a different thread lol

 

[BenHoping]

I've long enjoyed turning butt cheeks a nice glowing shade of pink, but always stopped short of leaving anything but the glow. Never bruises, never welts.

So when an online lady asked me to belt-strap her pussy if we met, I was pretty sure that'd be beyond my bounds. But she sent me a vid showing what turned her on, and the intensity wasn't extreme. We did, in fact, meet and holy crap! As others have reported, the slap/sting when she was already engorged and on the edge were pure ecstasy for her!

We used a belt, a wide leather paddle, a narrow wooden paddle, my hand--and carried on for the better part of an afternoon and evening without coming up for air!! My short semi-limp dick? No problem for her--sucking it turned her on too, and she needed her pussy and tits stung more than fucking me. I'm a believer!

 

[Submissivepat]

I do like mine spanked. I’ve had a crop used on me and loved it.

 

[Older_Pervert]

I do like mine spanked. I’ve had a crop used on me and loved it.

It makes my girl squirt when I spank her cunt

 

[Duck0112]

Nothing like it … slipping blindfolds over her eyes .. pulling her skimpy nice and tight and rubbing her first with the crop … Love running it over her puffy lips pushing against her skimpy panties …tapping her mound lightly watching for her nub to push against the thin matetial

 

[stxjimmy]

I do like mine spanked. I’ve had a crop used on me and loved it.

I found that to be one of the most intimate activities I’ve ever engaged in.

 

[Duck0112]

Blindfolded , panties pulled tight plus a crop sends her over the edge..

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

I'm not sure if this technically qualifies as spanking, but i once had a girlfriend who loved the quick, stingy sensation of a rubber band snapped on her clit area. We would experiment with rubber bands of varying widths, and varying lengths of stretching before letting it go. She had quite a tolerance (or should I say sensual enjoyment) of many types of pain in that area.

Have done the same with my wife and also on her nipples and asshole. She also has done it to me when spreading my peehole as open as she could while stretching the rubber band from the top of the head to the shaft underneath with her thumb and pinky. Then she would pull it out as much as she liked and let it snap back creating a red line from the top of my cock head, through my peehole to the shaft. That made me cum hard.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Interesting but is there asshole spanking too?

Wife will pull her legs up and cheeks apart while I use my hand or my belt right on her asshole. Drives her wild.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Oh man, those girls play so hard that I don’t even know what to do with myself while watching! The one, with all the candles along the rope is now a fantasy staple for me (would I do it myself...I’m questioning...)


And balls are fun. I love pulling them as far as I can until the sensation changes from pleasure to discomfort... takes a while

Love that video. I can just imagine how that pussy and clit feel when done.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

I enjoy when he uses his hard cock to spank my clit.
I'm very turned by fantasying about my clit being gently whipped, especially as a means of "punishment", but I'm afraid in reality I won't enjoy that.

I do want to experience maybe soft bites there. Its a sensitive area, so just maybe enough that it hurts good and then soft licks right away.

My wife enjoys it when I get out the suction toy and suction her clit so it stretches to the end of the little tube. I will leave it on for about 15 or 20 minutes and when I take it off it stays pointing out. Then I will usually either smack, belt or whip her there or start to lick and suck on it progressing to lite nibbles, after a while she gets pretty worked up and tells me to bite it. I will start with a medium pressure bite in conjunction with sucking and licking. Once she gets close to cumming, she'll demand I bite her hard and I will clamp down and start twisting my mouth side to side. She will end up shaking and squirting all over. She has told me it feels like I am going to rip it right off when I bite like that. For several days after, she says it is so sensitive that her panties rubbing there gets her all wet.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Easy does it!

Gentle slapping of my clit is awesome! I do it myself when masturbating too. Often squirting. Hubby likes to slap my clit with his cock. I don't care for my breasts to be slapped but my ass is okay during doggy or anal.

https://images2.imgbox.com/aa/4f/OpT7egK9_o.png

That pic is awesome!

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Striking my clit is usually too acute, and I often have to rebuild my orgasm. But if it pleases my partner, that's exciting all by itself, and I'll take it. (I've gotten close to cumming just giving a degrading blowjob before, so there might be some mental training). I get direct sexual pleasure from having my entire vulva or my anus slapped, though.

So does my wife.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Some wives I fuck like me to spank they clitoris and use a wire brush on it like the stiff wire brushes for cleaning toilets.

Yep, we have used a stiff bristled sonic toothbrush, toilet brush and bottle brush. She loves all of them.

 

[GoodGirlsDeserveFun]

I love it, I need someone else to do it though I find it hard to get the angle right slapping myself. Also having my tits and nipples slapped is such a turn on

 

[Cowboy34]

There's nothing better than knocking before you enter!

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

I like this too and eventually pulling them tight with my lips pulled out

That's awesome

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

That's the video that turned me on to pussy spanking. So amazing. You can see how much she loves it because she keeps offering her pussy for more.

These days I prefer my knees tied and spread wide. In the beginning my lips are closed but then start to swell and slowly open. I love the strap or a crop.

And once the crop hit my anus...but that's for a different thread lol

One of my wife's favorites, right on the anus!

 

[RogerThat208]

LOL, this thread reminds me of a sweet submissive girl I met here after responding to her personal ad seeking an online Dom to give her the special attention she so desperately needed. We enjoyed a great time online together for several months before eventually going our separate ways.

When I first got to know her it turned out that she was already prone to chronically masturbating (just like so many of you other kinky sluts here, lol.) So at first I was challenged at how to best shift her sexual focus and arousal from pursuing her own selfish pleasures and indulgences to focusing and responding selflessly to mine.

To be clear, there was nothing "wrong" with what she was doing previously, but her penchant for so frequently pleasuring herself to orgasm wasn't aligned with her enthusiastic desire to submit to my Male authority for her pleasure, nor my desire for her to seek it there. So I put this sweet horny thing on an orgasm diet and limited her to edging herself silly to her heart's content as long as she didn't cum without my permission.

She quickly discovered, on her own initiative, that I enjoyed hearing the vocal and other sounds of her edging-related arousal. So I was able to listen to everything she experienced, albeit in delayed fashion.

So I learned fairly quickly that she was often surfing really close to the edge of orgasm—dangerously close—because she didn't have sufficient previous experience to know where the actual edge of her orgasm limits were. It was increasingly obvious to me that the more she edged and denied herself for me, the more of an submissive ticking orgasmic time bomb she was becoming.

In edging session after edging session (yeah, I prescribed a lot of those, lol) she kept pushing herself closer and closer until she was literally a hot gasping incoherent mess. "Please Daddy" and "Good girls don't cum without permission" became her alternating mantras and she repeated them over and over as though in a trance, which I suppose in hindsight was probably the case for her.

It was quite arousing really. For both of us. But being the considerate Good Dom that I am, I knew I had to do something to help her control herself. She really wanted to deny herself for me, and she also really wanted to cum for herself, and it was diabolically arousing to hear her cycle back and forth between her breathless pleading desperation for both.

So I told her I'd help her control herself. I explained that going forward, when she felt she was getting close to the edge she was to immediately STOP edging her needy clit, and instead firmly spank her cunt with loud open-handed slaps until the urge to cum passed. The objective, I explained, was to temporarily replace the pleasure of masturbating with the sharp stinging painful punishment of spanking her most tender lady bits until the urge to cum receded... and then she could begin edging again.

Pleasure, then pain, then pleasure, then pain, and so on. All administered by her own hand, alternately pleasing herself and then suffering for my enjoyment. She was such a good girl for so bravely trying and working hard for me to that end. I was so proud of her.

That's when we both discovered that the sensations and sounds of spanking her own denied cunt when already aroused were even more arousing to her than rubbing her throbbing needy clit was before that. She tipped over the edge so fucking fast it was almost like she'd been shocked with electricity. The sensual orgasmic sounds she made, the surprise in the incomprehensible gibberish she uttered, and the clear disappointment she felt in herself afterwards for failing to maintain control were priceless.

I think I still have that audio around somewhere. Few things make a dom/domme who's into orgasm control happier than a sub who's sincerely sorry and remorseful for failing to control themselves and cumming without permission by their own hand. It's a tender moment, lol.

Anyway, after that self-inflicted cunt spanking and pussy slapping for this sweet girl were doled out as rewards and incentive towards orgasm. Because they were abject failures at deterrents or punishment lol. There's something special and quite adorable about an eager denied sub who will enthusiastically spread her tender thighs and eagerly spank herself silly until she inevitably orgasms from the sensations, sounds, and associated humiliation of the act.

On a side note, it's kind of funny how so many of you submissive sluts will orgasm so fuckin' easily from pussy spanking—and so quickly too—if your Dom/Domme does it to you or makes you do it to yourselves while we watch. But when left to your own devices and whims it seldom seems to be your preferred method of self-satisfaction. You're such interesting feminine creatures that way!

Feel free to prove me wrong though pets. And be sure to report back when you're done too!

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

That's the video that turned me on to pussy spanking. So amazing. You can see how much she loves it because she keeps offering her pussy for more.

These days I prefer my knees tied and spread wide. In the beginning my lips are closed but then start to swell and slowly open. I love the strap or a crop.

And once the crop hit my anus...but that's for a different thread lol

That is one of my favorites.