Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread

[londonolderguy]

Love it? Hate it? Crave it?

its a love hate for me, turns me on a lot but it is painfull if done right!

Love spanking my wifes pussy/clit. She does not like it all the time but when she does it drives me crazy

 

[londonolderguy]

Love it? Hate it? Crave it?

its a love hate for me, turns me on a lot but it is painfull if done right!

Have spanked my wife a few times on her pussy/clit. If done right it drives her wild

 

[Duck0112]

Have spanked my wife a few times on her pussy/clit. If done right it drives her wild

My friend loves it and squirts!!!!

 

[Monica_112]

I played with a girl who adores having her clit spanked and then immediately vibed, the immediate sensitising bring a larger reaction to a wand. Effective when restrained spread open

 

[tristantrotsky]

I so crave and enjoy this.

I've always adored and respected pussy far too much to ever want to inflict pain on such a deliciously desirable part of the female anatomy - but, reading my way through these posts, it's obvious that plenty of ladies do enjoy having their clits spanked, and I'm always willing to learn new ways of pleasuring my lovers. Perhaps you could guide me through, Misty? and show me exactly how you like it being done. I'd be so grateful. And I'd be extra delighted to kiss through clit better afterwards...!

 

[Duck0112]

Mmmmmmm

 

[crissynh50pt]

I played with a girl who adores having her clit spanked and then immediately vibed, the immediate sensitising bring a larger reaction to a wand. Effective when restrained spread open

I like mine spanked lots..when im stuffed with a pwervibe dildo also

 

[ihflrm]

I never thought i would say that slapping my pussy would be a turn on...

I have found that most women do Just can't be too intense with the spanking.

 

[DDC11B]

Having done everything from “ light tapping” to beyond. I personally have found that communication is the key.

 

[Duck0112]

Yes!! Communication is the most important part.. if done right she will be begging for it again!!!

 

[Rosiebaby1]

A little slap with a hand/cock/dildo/soft paddle is something I adore. Pushes me right to the edge if done at the right moment. I often do this while edging, and sometimes when orgasming to make it that little more intense.

 

[vibes]

if done at the right moment

Maybe with a raunchy comment growled on a low voice

 

[moonchild06]

I'm just discovering clit/pussy slapping, I love it. The stinging aching sensation and orgasming from slapping my clit with a spatula is such an amazing sensation.

Himmm, I'll have to try that?

 

[moonchild06]

What's the secret when doing it solo?
Do you use toys to spank or your own hand?

Yes, please share

 

[VikingPhoenix]

Love it! Love watching it and love having my balls slapped and tugged but not too hard...

 

[Duck0112]

Spanking her panty covered mound with my hard cock is amazing, especially when i see her panties changing colors and her moans getting lounder

 

[BackwoodsMama]

I’m intrigued. Will have to try this sometime soon.

 

[ridemybeard69]

I’m intrigued. Will have to try this sometime soon.

Please let us know if you like it!

 

[honeyandfur]

The way I do it is the way my friend enjoys it and she has a body shaking orgasm most times.
She wears panties that she pulls up tight toward her chest so that hear puffy lips are bulging inside her panties. I tell her to hold them like that till she cant due to her intense orgasm. After she has them pulled tight I take a crop with a flat leather end and just lightly tap her mound not necessarily on the clit. The tapping can be just letting the crop fall onto her mound. Watching her reaction and her instructions I can increase the tspping pressure or decrease. As she gets more stimulated, sometimes her bud starts to bulge against her panties at this point the pressure of her pulling her panties up and the tapping on her mound drives her to explode.
This is something that works for us, she enjoys it and I enjoy doing it.
I do really enjoy worshipping here most delicate parts after with my tongue.
This type of sex for us is really not spanking. Please don’t think I am whipping her.

Oh my god, that sounds amazing.
Gentle, light tapping and spanking can feel so good, it makes the lips and clit so sensitive... and oral afterwards? That'd drive someone completely wild... what a vision

 

[Duck0112]

Oh my god, that sounds amazing.
Gentle, light tapping and spanking can feel so good, it makes the lips and clit so sensitive... and oral afterwards? That'd drive someone completely wild... what a vision

Did you try it?

 

[NaughtyGnome]

An ex-boyfriend who was extremely well endowed provided the most delightful slaps with his large uncut member. I LOVED it. It felt good, not even in a pleasure from pain kind of way, it just felt good (pleasurable). This topic seems to be controversial to some. I imagine that the sensation for the receiver depends on individual anatomy. I guess mine is one that finds it pleasurable, at least in terms of the gentler slaps I have felt down there. Never went beyond a hand or penis, although I can imagine such scenarios feeling pleasurable (maybe a spatula or wooden spoon, used very gently, perhaps). Still I can't imagine, and would never be willing to submit to the whims of the person delivering this in terms of how intensely they deliver it, just because I express interest it. If it hurts or is not pleasurable, then stop.

 

[Duck0112]

An ex-boyfriend who was extremely well endowed provided the most delightful slaps with his large uncut member. I LOVED it. It felt good, not even in a pleasure from pain kind of way, it just felt good (pleasurable). This topic seems to be controversial to some. I imagine that the sensation for the receiver depends on individual anatomy. I guess mine is one that finds it pleasurable, at least in terms of the gentler slaps I have felt down there. Never went beyond a hand or penis, although I can imagine such scenarios feeling pleasurable (maybe a spatula or wooden spoon, used very gently, perhaps). Still I can't imagine, and would never be willing to submit to the whims of the person delivering this in terms of how intensely they deliver it, just because I express interest it. If it hurts or is not pleasurable, then stop.

Totally agree, maybe we should remove the word spanking. Spanking to some might be interpreted as pain . Pain is not what it is about, it is about pleasure . Everyone is different.
I have used a large wooden spoon . Once again more of a tap on her the a spank.
Thanks for your input.

 

[Duck0112]

So hot…..she really enjoys it!!!!
I have done it to my gf much softer , not sure she would last that long before squirting ….

 

[Older_Pervert]

Like you said, everyone is different.

But please don't presume to speak for anyone else when you opine in a BDSM-oriented forum that "pain is not what pussy spanking is about." (Based on your Lit profile and activity history, you don't appear to be a BDSM aficionado anyway, much less a practitioner, which I suspect reflects your more gentle disposition on the topic.)

Like many other women, my sweet sub's aroused bare cunt leaks like a Dutch dike when spanked. The temporary sharp intense pain she experiences with each slap of the hand or stroke of the crop is a big reason why.

If you saw or heard her so enthusiastically inflict this pain upon herself with her typical aroused zeal and adorable squeals you'd likely find it quite arousing too. I love sending her random internet porn pics or video links to puffy pink spanked pussies because it makes her instantly wet thinking about me doing the same thing to her.

Sure, different women will inevitably have different expectations, reactions, and tolerance for the level of pain inflicted on their tender lady bits when engaging in kinky play like this. But pain can be a powerful aphrodisiac, and especially so for those who enjoy BDSM play. As a reminder, the "M" in BDSM stands for "masochism", which generally refers to experiencing sexual gratification in association with receiving pain.

No need to take my word alone for it though. Check out this arousing video of another real-life couple for example. Be sure to turn up the volume so you can hear how much she loves it and enthusiastically begs for more.

It makes my girl squirt when I spank her bare cunt

 

[Duck0112]

Mine likes to have her panties om. It pulled mice and tight