Clit/Pussy Spanking Discussion Thread

[ChristianJ095]

Then you really need to stop responding to my posts. All that get's you is more of what I believe. Do you see how that's obviously not in your - self stated - interest?

I have at no point said that anything was 'sick'. That's you - not me.

I have said that the percentage of people who enjoy extremes is very small - way, way smaller than the percentage who just enjoy the fantasy.

Here's another thing: The vast, vast majority of everyone on here claiming to be female, is actually male. That's just a plain internet fact.

And here's another: No argument was ever won by citing porn as proof.

I'll circle back now: Just ... don't respond to me? Ok? Good. Bye now.

You seem so angry about such a ridiculous thing. You’re on a site where certain niche kinks/fetishes are sought out. Just because YOU don’t like having your clit spanked because you find it “painful”, doesn’t mean that others don’t enjoy that. This forum is clearly going to be overwhelmingly in support of it because (guess what), people SEEK it out.

It’s almost like going on an exhibitionist forum and saying “people don’t like getting fucked in front of strangers it’s weird and people that say they do are just lying, they can’t really enjoy it because I don’t”.

Think you need to find a new site if this is how easily offended you get!

 

[Ropebunny]

Then you really need to stop responding to my posts. All that get's you is more of what I believe. Do you see how that's obviously not in your - self stated - interest?

I have at no point said that anything was 'sick'. That's you - not me.

I have said that the percentage of people who enjoy extremes is very small - way, way smaller than the percentage who just enjoy the fantasy.

Here's another thing: The vast, vast majority of everyone on here claiming to be female, is actually male. That's just a plain internet fact.

And here's another: No argument was ever won by citing porn as proof.

I'll circle back now: Just ... don't respond to me? Ok? Good. Bye now.

Lol I don’t even think you believe what you’re saying. But please continue, I’m starting to find you most amusing. One of us is a troll here but can anyone tell who??

Btw I respond to whatever I wish. Your responsibility to choose whether you read it or not but I’m not gonna stop coz some internet antagonist is feels offended in the wrong place. If anything, now I just feel emboldened to respond more. Yep, it’s childish but this part of me is goddamn Peter Pan and is never growing up so good luck to you if you wanna keep this discourse going...

 

[Lady2020]

Once again, cocktaildress derails a thread.

 

[bone251]

Once again, cocktaildress derails a thread.

Seems there is a "Cock" in that dress.

Just ignore her. She is the nicest girl that ever walked the streets.

 

[cocktaildress21]

Once again, cocktaildress derails a thread.

By which you mean 'offers an opinion that doesn't align with the fantasies and outright lies of everyone else'. Yes, happy to. You're welcome.

 

[htester]

I'm up in the air on it, but CD raises valid points.

When I read romance novels featuring clit spanking, my pussy waters. But, when someone suggested I try it many, many years ago, I was 'uh, ok' and it did nothing for me.

Then, again, I was anti even discussing anal with a partner who didn't understand lube. But, with myself, it's fun --

So, back to clit spanking, women-centered novels make it sound like the hottest thing possible. So, until I experience it properly, I'll remain on the fence --

Literally no one enjoys pain if it isn't done right. For instance, spanking. I'm willing to take any bet that you don't actually know how to do it properly.

Spanking properly done is a surface skin sensation. Regardless of the force behind, or the implement in question, be it hand or whip, it should only just touch the skin.

What is pleasurable about spanking is the burn. The sting of impact isn't. Or, well, it's not as pleasurable. It f****** hurts. But the burn, after .. well, that's something else. It makes you crave, drives you wild.

And that's the point: Spanking the clit overloads on that sting of impact that isn't pleasurable - and it does not give that pleasant burn after.

If in doubt, find a mate and ask him to kick you in the balls. Then lie there, and wait for it to become a pleasurable burning sensation. It won't.

It also doesn't for your wife. She put's up with it because you like it. That's what's going on.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

If gently, and not too much it is very arousing!

I'd be quite gentle with you, at least at the beginning.

 

[Athalia]

Then you really need to stop responding to my posts.

You are quite right.

Instead, I'll simply refer the readers to the response I made back in post #11"

I have to be in the mood for it, but when I am, I find myself "snapping" my middle finger (the thumb holds it back, then releases it) against it. Wow.

 

[cocktaildress21]

You are quite right.

Well - practice makes perfect, I hear.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Play With Pussy

Lick and kiss that pussy.
Show it loving care and consideration.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I love the tap, tap, tap on my clit/pussy. A hand, a wooden spoon, and (soon) a leather strap.

 

[CuriousDomme008]

I love it! I can’t start with it but after I’m turned on enough. A hard smack then gently played with and kissed. I love the stinging. It’s like turning on a faucet lol After a couple smacks we can hear (And feel) my juices splash! It’s crazy hott. Plus I trust him completely so I know he would never abuse my trust by taking it too far.

 

[lisaharlot]

Unpopular opinion:

If you don’t own a clit, you should not be spanking somebody else’s. Even then, proceed with caution and with full consent. When I say consent, I mean you should not have to talk her into this and it should be discussed while everybody’s clothes are on. This is painful and not enjoyable in and of itself. I’ve had it done to me but I’d only do it again for a Woman I really wanted to see me in that much pain- there aren’t that many of those.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

If you don’t own a clit, you should not be spanking somebody else’s. Even then, proceed with caution and with full consent. When I say consent, I mean you should not have to talk her into this and it should be discussed while everybody’s clothes are on. This is painful and not enjoyable in and of itself. I’ve had it done to me but I’d only do it again for a Woman I really wanted to see me in that much pain- there aren’t that many of those.

Proper BDSM is all about consent and trust. If a woman consents to clit pain, and is aroused by it, there's no reason to assume she doesn't enjoy it. And there's no reason to think that a man would be any less adept at delivering this type of pain than a woman, if he proceeds slowly and gradually, building up to her limits and boundaries, and paying attention to her verbal and physical cues.

 

[skadibound4u]

I love it!! Especially after my pussy is swollen and then I get fucked singulary or by more than one person

 

[Roughscrewu]

Luv Spanking a needy Pussy

 

[Athalia]

Proper BDSM is all about consent and trust. If a woman consents to clit pain, and is aroused by it, there's no reason to assume she doesn't enjoy it. And there's no reason to think that a man would be any less adept at delivering this type of pain than a woman, if he proceeds slowly and gradually, building up to her limits and boundaries, and paying attention to her verbal and physical cues.

I agree with that 100%. Done right, it doesn't make a difference if the person holding the crop has a clitoris or a penis, as long as that person understands the boundaries of the game. The fact that men display their arousal in a very prominent way as they play with you makes it even hotter for me; it lets me know that our play is going straight to their libidos.

Those that doubt that a man can administer this sort of thing, or that women actually get off on this sort of thing, really need to expand their horizons a little.

 

[zali]

Done properly it's a sweet, intense painful sensation that I find immensely arousing!

 

[Mariepsylckr]

What you believe is of no concern to me at all.




Can we simply agree that what turns some people on turns other people off, and leave it at that?

The whole point of this "BDSM talk" part of the forum is to give people a chance to talk with other people about things that mainstream sex doesn't encompass. It's a sort of confessional. I feel safe talking about it, and finding others who feel that way. We don't need people saying "That's sick. That's not real. That's just a fantasy."

Believe me, there's a whole industry devoted to catering to the BDSM crowd, and their customers aren't putting down their hard-earned cash for a fantasy. Do you think they buy the riding crops and whips and candles and just put them on a shelf and fantasize about using them?

Agree. This is the BDSM forum. Not the eating cotton candy and walking dogs forum

I thought the point was to be kinky with no judgement as we are all horny as fck adults?

 

[Mariepsylckr]

Pussy spanking

I realized I responded to an old thread....

Do any of the ladies here enjoy this?
I’ve found I like a firm spank, enough force to sting but not so much that it hurts.
Especially if I don’t expect it to happen.. gets me more turned on...

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I realized I responded to an old thread....

Do any of the ladies here enjoy this?
I’ve found I like a firm spank, enough force to sting but not so much that it hurts.
Especially if I don’t expect it to happen.. gets me more turned on...

I'd love to test out your "endurance" level in that area ...

 

[bone251]

I realized I responded to an old thread....

Do any of the ladies here enjoy this?
I’ve found I like a firm spank, enough force to sting but not so much that it hurts.
Especially if I don’t expect it to happen.. gets me more turned on...

I had a Dom lady friend that had a sub girl friend that got much more then a slap. Slaps would make her cum. So the Dom used a whip. But she had to stop before she came. So by my observation, there is a lot of room for what is liked, even if you are a pussy.

These girls are in my stories.

 

[Mariepsylckr]

I had a Dom lady friend that had a sub girl friend that got much more then a slap. Slaps would make her cum. So the Dom used a whip. But she had to stop before she came. So by my observation, there is a lot of room for what is liked, even if you are a pussy.

These girls are in my stories.

Hmmmm... no whip but slap with hand ok.

 

[bone251]

Hmmmm... no whip but slap with hand ok.

I agree. But it was interesting to see the boundaries they pushed.
The Bengay with a whip day was................

 

[Hot1967]

Yes, please

I love having my pussy spanked. Any kind of spanking it or whipping it is bliss.