Climaxing During Intercourse

[Rob_Royale]

My ex used something similar to get her O when she was on top riding me.

Yeah it's perfect for that. And it feels damn good for me too.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

It was okay for me as I felt it thru her pussy..

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me.

I'm not a woman, so I can only speak from the aspect of the one with the moving penis. I am fully aware that most women don't climax just by penetration. I learned from my very first introduction to partnered sex that a woman almost always needs clitoral stimulation to cum. My wife and I always have oral sex, and I make sure she cums, before I fuck her.

I have never had an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone either.. when I rode cowgirl, I orgasmed. But that's because I was rubbing my clit on his pelvic bone..

I would agree that that has been the trick for most women who have orgasms when being fucked. Even if they aren't consciously aware of it - there has been stimulation of their clit.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I recommended to everyone who requires clitoral stimulation for orgasm to include something like this to your bedroom play. Small enough not to embarrass your man like a big vibe might, but when sandwiched between you, will take PIV sex to a whole new level.

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I would say that the vibrations will also be very pleasurable for the man too.

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

Very common! My wife can cum if she's on top but it takes a long time (and it can be hard for me to hold out that long). She actually prefers to do it sideways lying down and rub her own clit while I fuck her. She always cums very nicely from this combo. Although the hardest I've ever made her cum has been from fingering her g-spot while licking her clit, or using a dildo on her while licking her clit.

 

[Live4themoments]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

Not sure if this works with others, but for us it helps if I have my 1st orgasm, then she has her 1st (by oral, fingers, toys). This gives me a little time to "recoup" and also after her 1st then her 2nd orgasm is much quicker (and she says more intense). For me it takes a little longer to orgasm a 2nd time thus it "usually" lets her orgasm by penetration.

 

[CajunFisherman]

When wifey gets engorged and her clit is sensitive, she prefers a quickie from the rear with me, rubbing my glans along her sensitive spot, intercourse seldom lasts more than about 2 to 3 minutes, and she is urging me to deposit my seed while rubbing her clit. Once I make my deposit in the closet, she needs to clean the up after she has thoroughly smeared my load all over her clitorial area, by having a vigorous rubbing action with the deposited semen. She will clean herself up, but she will sometimes require me to wear a condom if we go for a second go round. Even though we’re in our 60s, my wife does not care for a semen deposit on her sheets.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife is the same. I know that I need to get her totally excited through oral or finger stimulation before entereing her for the final push of intercourse. That always leads to her orgasm. She says that she has had a few experiences of orgasm just with intercourse, but she doesn't recall what might have helped trigger the orgasm.

 

[Foolhen]

My wife not only climaxes during intercourse, but she will come when being fucked from behind. Of the women I have been with, some definitely did not climax during intercourse and some couldn't climax at all. Maybe some were faking it, but a lot of them did climax from penetration. Only a smaller number were able to come when I took them from behind, which is something that I find exceedingly hot. For my wife and some of these others I might even venture to guess that is is one of their favourite ways to orgasm. The only problem for me is lasting long enough to make it happen before I come, so I often make sure to give the wife an orgasm with my tongue or fingers before penetration happens. Sometimes this just seems to get her more aroused and I love how tight and sensitive her pussy is after she's just climaxed...she really gasps when I push my cock into her at that point and if I manage to last long enough she will have a second orgasm during the intercourse.

 

[southdakota2005]

Very common! My wife can cum if she's on top but it takes a long time (and it can be hard for me to hold out that long). She actually prefers to do it sideways lying down and rub her own clit while I fuck her. She always cums very nicely from this combo. Although the hardest I've ever made her cum has been from fingering her g-spot while licking her clit, or using a dildo on her while licking her clit.

The sex positon you describe (spooning I believe it's called) is my preferred position when I want to climax. But instead of me stimulating my clitoris my bed partner will normally do it so I can just enjoy the sensation. What I enjoy is first being mounted missionary, get a good pounding, the whatever positon the man wants until it's time to get serious and we go into the spooning position. I also enjoy this positon because when the man ejaculates inside of me he doesn't have to get off of me but can stay where he is with his penis still deeply embedded inside of me, blocking the sperm from leaking so I can enjoy a relaxing short snooze. if he's a young man, I normally wake up to his penis still hard and ready to give me round two without him ever having to pull out of my body. Boy, talk about being filled to the brim with semen when we are done.

 

[NancyPan]

Very common! My wife can cum if she's on top but it takes a long time (and it can be hard for me to hold out that long). She actually prefers to do it sideways lying down and rub her own clit while I fuck her. She always cums very nicely from this combo. Although the hardest I've ever made her cum has been from fingering her g-spot while licking her clit, or using a dildo on her while licking her clit.

My wife prefers her vibrator inserted (7 inches) while I orally worship her. She has made it quite clear to me that her “toy cock” never ejaculates prematurely, stays hard, and is bigger than my four inches. Plus, Icould not eat her and fuck her at the same time. As a result, she has no interest in PIV sex —why would she?

 

[crem]

My wife would get on top of my small dick and climax a few times before we were thru.. she knew how to ride a dick

 

[UtilityCurve]

Sounds like what my wife has always said. Even so, it makes me feel a little guilty when I get to cum during intercourse and she does not.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Know what you mean about guilt. But I've not known a single woman who differs from what @southdakota2005 said about being satisfied, genuinely satisfied, with nonorgasmic (for her--if it weren't for me, there would be trouble indeed--from her!) intercourse sometimes.

(To the females reading this: The words "satisfying nonorgasmic intercourse" are almost complete gibberish to men. It's purely a function of our, well, functioning.)

Vive la difference and all that, but this is one of those things that cannot be understood by the opposite sex, no matter how articulate the explainer.

 

[staciliv]

For me it's mostly mental. I can climax from penetration, oral, or sometimes (rarely) from just kissing or making out. The first time this happened to me I think it scared the guy, he must have thought he'd given me a heart attack.

I'd say I get off 90% of the time even if the man is fast. One former BF used to say, "Take it bitch!" as he entered me. This made me cum immediately. As I explored my response to this I discovered that I was submissive, and when a man talked down to me it really got me going!

 

[staciliv]

Know what you mean about guilt. But I've not known a single woman who differs from what @southdakota2005 said about being satisfied, genuinely satisfied, with nonorgasmic (for her--if it weren't for me, there would be trouble indeed--from her!) intercourse sometimes.

(To the females reading this: The words "satisfying nonorgasmic intercourse" are almost complete gibberish to men. It's purely a function of our, well, functioning.)

Vive la difference and all that, but this is one of those things that cannot be understood by the opposite sex, no matter how articulate the explainer.

Interesting.

If you want to learn more about this I suggest that you engage in sex, bring your partner to orgasm several times. Make it last a long time - but don't cum yourself. You may find that you enjoy the sex and enjoy your partner's reaction to it as much or more than you enjoy your own orgasm.

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

My wife prefers her vibrator inserted (7 inches) while I orally worship her. She has made it quite clear to me that her “toy cock” never ejaculates prematurely, stays hard, and is bigger than my four inches. Plus, Icould not eat her and fuck her at the same time. As a result, she has no interest in PIV sex —why would she?

Women are so varied. My wife loves her dildo, which is actually 4". She's afraid of bigger ones. My cock is average (6") and she likes it well enough, but she doesn't like larger dildos because they don't have the give that even a very hard actual cock has.

 

[Greaseman93]

my late wife could have multiple orgasms from intercourse with minimal extra stimulation. What really got her going was when I kissed her. LOL. If I started kissing her, she couldn't resist me. My current wife is more like you, she doesn't have an orgasm from intercourse, she needs clitoral stimulation, usually oral.

 

[NancyPan]

my late wife could have multiple orgasms from intercourse with minimal extra stimulation. What really got her going was when I kissed her. LOL. If I started kissing her, she couldn't resist me. My current wife is more like you, she doesn't have an orgasm from intercourse, she needs clitoral stimulation, usually oral.

IMO, you are lucky to have a wife who “needs” oral stimulation. To me, pussy worship is the ultimate act of lovemaking. I am totally addicted to it, as my wife well knows, and finds quite amusing, as well as uses to her distinct advantage.

 

[Jw75766]

I admit, I generally don't climax with just a moving penis inside of me. It takes more stimulation using other methods such as fingers on my clitoris to bring me to an orgasm. That's not to say I don't enjoy intercourse if I don't climax. I love the feeling of a man inside of me and the feel of his moving cock between my legs is a pleasure like no other. But still, unless he does other things I won't orgasm. But sex for me isn't always about an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I want one or two or three. It's just that I recognize that sex isn't like porn movies where the woman climaxes after every tenth thrust. It just doesn't happen that way in real life. I have orgasm a few times with a moving penis, but that was after lots and lots of foreplay with someone who knew how my body worked. Strangley, my ex husband was one of the few men who was able to bring me to my peak with just his cock. Too bad he preferred having cocks inside of him as well and eventually thought sex with me was disgusting. But it was good for the first few years.

Sometimes staring a man in the eyes while he's on top of me moving between my legs is all I need to have a satisfying sexual encounter.

Anyway, what about the experiences of others?

I have a difficult time enjoying sex if my wife doesn't orgasm. I don't like feeling selfish. There are definitely times its understood it's a quickie and nothing more and that's ok. However, I'm more of a giver personality than a taker, at least at first. Once she's had 3 or more orgasms, then I allow my selfishness to have a turn.

 

[Jw75766]

I cannot have an orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. It took me an embarrassingly long time to realize this actually very normal. I used to think there was something wrong with me.

My wife uses a vibrator while I'm in her and she has great success. However, she also has thyroid issues that can make orgasms more difficult, especially if she forgets to take her meds. I love watching her using her vibrator while I'm inside. She orgasms so hard she'll push me out no matter how hard I try to stay inside. Perhaps try a vibe next time you have sex and see if that will enhance your penetrative sex. (Hope you don't mind my suggestion)

 

[jsmiam]

This thread should be required reading, and turned into an entrance exam! (Yes, pun intended. ;-)

 

[Jw75766]

I recommended to everyone who requires clitoral stimulation for orgasm to include something like this to your bedroom play. Small enough not to embarrass your man like a big vibe might, but when sandwiched between you, will take PIV sex to a whole new level.

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Man, I tell my wife to use whatever size she needs. Men need to stop being so intimidated by such things. As long as the vibe isn't so big it's interfering with penetration, what's the problem? Hell, if it is too big, finger her for a while while she gets her fill. She'll let you have yours too I'm sure. Men need to realize, she CHOSE to have sex with you, almost certainly she's thinking about you and your thrusting as she's enjoying the sensations on her clit and inside. I don't understand men who are so intimidated by a woman who uses additional things to increase pleasure. I want the sex I have to be as pleasurable for her as it possibly can be. Her satisfaction only increases mine. Men should take pride in that the woman they are with chose to orgasm with you.

 

[cheney_dude_2022]

If I'm on top and in control of the movements I can orgasm most of the time.

@Beth_Anne90 , what kind of movements do you prefer to get you to orgasm??

 

[hiker283]

I have been lucky in that I can make both my wife and my girlfriend climax during penetration. I hold my penis deep inside her and push with my pelvic bone against her clit. I alternate that with in and out movement till she comes and then I can come. Both tell me they love the feel of me coming in them, especially after they climax.

 

[Nellie60]

Very common! My wife can cum if she's on top but it takes a long time (and it can be hard for me to hold out that long). She actually prefers to do it sideways lying down and rub her own clit while I fuck her. She always cums very nicely from this combo. Although the hardest I've ever made her cum has been from fingering her g-spot while licking her clit, or using a dildo on her while licking her clit.

Similar licking her clit rapidly and/or fingering at same time until her first orgasms before penetrating works.

If I have sex too quickly tend to cum far too quickly before satisfying her.