monster666
COOKIE!!
- Joined
- Jan 21, 2002
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I love the holidays, Christmas especially. The well dressed Santa has a red suit with white trim, and black boots and belt. I am not too keen about how corp america starts selling Christmas each labor day like they have it cornered and it's for sale in a box. And I am not crazy about stupid tv programs trying to decipher it's "true meaning." It's insulting. I really don't like all the crap and trappings that go with it, but I still love the holiday itself, and what it quietly means to me and the time I have with my family.
It seems to me that BDSM is becoming big business too, and a well dressed Domme might wear black leather or PVC, including boots and accessories, with a peculiar similarity to St. Nick's attire. I saw "novelty" handcuffs sold at a auto parts store, with a nearly-nude model pictured on the packaging in a pair of the cuffs. BDSM imagery is the rage on so-called cutting edge prime time TV. There's a BDSM look; a BDSM attitude that all seems to be part of this hollywood image. It's so bad it's supposed to be good. But to me it just isn't.
I think if I were with a Domme in that sterotypical black leather or PVC outfit, it would make me feel like a cheap joke and not in some good way. The word Dominatrix bugs me, and I don't know why. Maybe it sounds too manufactured, and therefore commercial.
To me, BDSM is a more base, more primal need. I want to feel her desire. I want to explore it. I need her attention and I need her to need mine. I need to feel her pointiness. To be her outlet. There is not going to be any real hollywood Kodak moment. It's just not going to be hollywood pretty, and more likely to resemble crime story ugly. It's certainly not about the outfit. I realize that the costume stereotypes are based on real life fetishes, but they just aren't mine.
Does anyone else ever feel this way?
It seems to me that BDSM is becoming big business too, and a well dressed Domme might wear black leather or PVC, including boots and accessories, with a peculiar similarity to St. Nick's attire. I saw "novelty" handcuffs sold at a auto parts store, with a nearly-nude model pictured on the packaging in a pair of the cuffs. BDSM imagery is the rage on so-called cutting edge prime time TV. There's a BDSM look; a BDSM attitude that all seems to be part of this hollywood image. It's so bad it's supposed to be good. But to me it just isn't.
I think if I were with a Domme in that sterotypical black leather or PVC outfit, it would make me feel like a cheap joke and not in some good way. The word Dominatrix bugs me, and I don't know why. Maybe it sounds too manufactured, and therefore commercial.
To me, BDSM is a more base, more primal need. I want to feel her desire. I want to explore it. I need her attention and I need her to need mine. I need to feel her pointiness. To be her outlet. There is not going to be any real hollywood Kodak moment. It's just not going to be hollywood pretty, and more likely to resemble crime story ugly. It's certainly not about the outfit. I realize that the costume stereotypes are based on real life fetishes, but they just aren't mine.
Does anyone else ever feel this way?