Choice: Dom or sub?

[jimbotjones]

Hi guys! if you are given a choice, would you like to be a dominant or a submissive? A sadist or a masochist?

Submissive. Love when my wife straps on and makes me gag on it, then bends me over and makes me take all 10 inches... Even better was when she made me strip in front of 3 different guys (different times), bent me over, stretched my ass out with a huge dildo, sucked their dicks with me and held my cheeks open while they fucked me hard. LOVE being tied up and used!

 

[desertslave]

Submissive, absolutely. I've switched at the request of a former top and while it worked for him, I was uncomfortable until we reverted back. (And a piece was always missing after that. He's sub now and very happy.)

I've chosen to live vanilla in the past. It was needful for healing after losing my first Master. Ultimately, that relationship failed because I needed to be sub and my ex just wasn't a dom in any way.

Submitting, being mastered and used, brings me joy. I suffer without it.

 

[Pleasuregiver14]

Dom --- all t

 

[Evil_Geoff]

For some, there may be a choice. For others the choice is to be who they are, or suppress it.

I am a sadist. Period. There isn't a masochistic bone anywhere in my body.

I am a Dominant in my personal relationship. Because that's how I roll.

 

[BiTodd]

I am comfortable being domiant, but crave serving in a submissive role. I want to experience being a sexy, dirty naughty ,slut.

 

[MissVianne]

I like to think that I'm floating somewhere in between labels. For me it depends on the person I am attracted to and the dynamic of our relationship makes the roles easier and come naturally. I once thought I was a sub through and through but later on I discovered that I could be a switch and that is okay too. I love receiving pain but I can be a real sadist as well. Roles are not set in stone.

 

[Chaoskitten13]

I have always preferred sub.