Chat Room Blues...

[FeatherLight]

*grins* Wow.. this thread isn't about Lil-Brandi?! *giggles* Sorry girl. Luv ya! Just had to say it. Truth? I wish I could think of things to post.

Here's my thing.

I was feeling... a tad spicy today, so I went into Yahoo's chatrooms. Roleplaying, btw. Anyway, is it just me, or do all the guys suddenly attack the women who enter?! I was there for ten seconds (not even) and I already had eight windows with guys saying "wanna cyber?"

So, what's the deal guys? You ever done that to a girl? Or have you tried to be suave? And is it just me, or does it bother the other ladies out there...?

Just curious!

Slainte!

 

[Nicole]

Happened to me in Lit chat yesterday. I actually had fun once I got past all the attacks, made a couple cool new friends which was real nice.

Wanna laugh?

We were talking about what people could give their partners for Valentines day, and I suggested that maybe a guy could melt some chocolate, let it cool then dribble it all over their partners body, licking it off once done.

Well somehow from that we got onto scanning body parts, and this guy says "I scanned my cock", so we get talking about it all, then I had to leave.

Well I go to my mail late last night and what's in there, but this guys scanned cock. (LOL).

Oh don't get me wrong the guy was real nice and all, but I didn't really want his cock you know (LOL).

Just thought I would share with you all. But I guess they have been there a while and are starting to feel frisky, so they assume that when a woman comes in they should attack her and be the first to grab her. What these guys don't realise is that a woman wants a little conversation before she cybers you.

Thats why I love it here at the BB, the men here are mature enough to know you have a brain too.

 

[Temptress_1960]

Oh, yeah. It is pretty tiresome.

I guess it works for those who want it that way.

It doesn't work for me, and if they took the time to read my profile, they would see that I don't even private chat with people I don't know.

So, again, I (chat name curious40) say:

PM guy, read my profile. Really.

 

[FeatherLight]

LOL @ Nicole.

He scanned his cock? And sent it to you?! *giggles* Okay, okay, not funny... damn, yes it is. Stupid me, I went on one of the Role-play rooms (when I first started out) and a guy found my email addy. He kept sending me more and more emails saying things like "my cock is hard. I want you." A million times over! Part of me was pissed,... but the other part just couldn't stop laughing. The nerve!

Anyway... It's nice to know I'm not alone in this.

Enjoying It: You have a point there. I guess some of the girls must go for it, otherwise the guys wouldn't even attempt. That's what's so weird.. Knowing another girl can go in, and just spread her "legs" within a heartbeat and a question. Me? I like to talk it up... flirt with the guy before the main act.

If he can't flirt well enough, then he can't be good in the cyber sack.

 

[Nicole]

LOL @ Nicole.

He scanned his cock? And sent it to you?! *giggles* Okay, okay, not funny... damn, yes it is. Stupid me, I went on one of the Role-play rooms (when I first started out) and a guy found my email addy. He kept sending me more and more emails saying things like "my cock is hard. I want you." A million times over! Part of me was pissed,... but the other part just couldn't stop laughing. The nerve!

Oh it is funny, but the guy wasn't looking for anything, at least he didn't ask me. I was just shocked that he actually sent me the pic. Hey the fact that it worked even, I didn't think you could scan body parts, or at least it never worked for me LMAO.

I like people and I like chatting, but if I felt in the mood to cyber, I'd wanna at least know the person slightly.

Oh well I had fun anyway, and let me tell you, from what I see, it's not just guys that do the whole Jummping on you bit, the women are pretty damn good at that too.

 

[Budman]

Very true Nicole. I've booted both sexes for, shall we delicately say, overzealous behavior.

 

[Guru]

 

[FeatherLight]

*chuckles* Funny, Guru... very funny

 

[Temptress_1960]

Another favorite of mine is the guy who pms you to ask if he can pm you.

Or the one who says "hello" in the lounge, and thinks that means I know him and will accept a pm. Yeah, right.

However... usually they go away if you ignore them.

I don't get mad at them, for the most part - it IS an adult erotic chat room, after all.

I will talk to most anybody in the lounge, but if I don't know you, don't pm me (quoting from my profile).

I have trouble talking to anyone whose name I'm not comfortable typing, such as Fuckmyhot12inchdick, for example. Just how would you abbreviate that one? It's waaaay out of my comfort zone to address someone as "Fuck."

When the pm guys get really out of hand, I can redline or just log out.

And, if a CM is there, they are usually pretty quick to deal with a situation - often before I even ask.

 

[Derya]

depends on chat mood

Being somewhat new to online activity I haven't done loads of chatting, but I haven't found that I get "jumped" on that much in adult chat sites. Now I do vary a little from the some of the prior opinions in that if I'm in an obvious adult chat site I'm interested in private cybering and don't care too much for the flirt and get friendly stuff, because the anonymity of the chatting allows me to be less inhibited sexually etc. and I don't feel "I have to know someone to cyber" , but if I do want to get to know people and create online friendships then I'd pursue varied chat sites etc and ones like literotica that provide a variety of communciation means etc. By the way as I've gotten involved in learning literotica a little better I'm very impressed.

 

[Xander]

You know. I can seriously say, that I have never jumped a girl in a chatroom. Not with lame remarks like that anyway.
The only times I've actually cybered. It has been on AIM, ICQ or MSN.

Oh wait, that reminds me. Go check Nobody Specials "Literotica's new themesong" thread. I belive that one applies here LOL

 

[Guru]

 

[willywanker]

I realized the other day that now that I know more people in the chat room, I do less cybering and more chatting. And, no, I never used the crude appoach. Guess thats why I never had any one night stands in real life either. I have to know a little a bout someone to feel comfortable.

And ladies, it doens't happen nearly as often, I'm sure, but we fellows get unwanted PM request also.