Chastity

[swflabimale]

Even after reading this thread I don't understand why a guy cannot live in chastity without a cage? Why do you even need the cage?

As for me, it's the fact that you're unable to even touch yourself.... I find my hand going there constantly so when the cage is on, I'm not distracted by the play toy between my legs and can focus on getting things done. Also, there are various levels of frustration that go with wearing a cage for extended periods of time. You learn to deal with it.....

 

[9to5]

As for me, it's the fact that you're unable to even touch yourself.... I find my hand going there constantly so when the cage is on, I'm not distracted by the play toy between my legs and can focus on getting things done. Also, there are various levels of frustration that go with wearing a cage for extended periods of time. You learn to deal with it.....

sometimes I cant keep my hands off my cage and play with balls

 

[bjlatx]

For me it’s my wife having the key and having the control over when or if I orgasm. It also means that I can’t jerk off if we are not together. She likes knowing that.

 

[9to5]

waiting for my wife to take the key but she does control my orgasm I do not cum without her

 

[bjlatx]

I bought my wife a necklace that she can wear her key on. She puts it on when we play. It’s so hot when it hangs down between her tits as she reminds me that I only get ruined orgasms from now on.

 

[9to5]

I have one key on a neckless and left it on the counter for her, but then she doesn't wear jewelry that much at all. so she didnt take it

 

[bjlatx]

Have you just told her that she needs to do it? She may really like it. My wife does now. She was ok with it all at first but now she loves it.

 

[9to5]

I have tried a couple of times but don't want to push her to much.
she does accept that I have it on at times, says its my thing not hers. but I keep trying with her

 

[swflabimale]

I have tried a couple of times but don't want to push her to much.
she does accept that I have it on at times, says its my thing not hers. but I keep trying with her

Like me, you are fighting an uphill battle. Years back, pre menopause for my wife, she was extremely jealous of another woman even looking my way. If she would have seen a chastity cage, she would have demanded that I buy several, I would have been locked LONG term and the only sex would have been servicing her with my tongue. Her attitude fell under long term denial and a FLR.

 

[9to5]

mine is also the same and done menopause. but she doesn't like things on my cock
so still trying to convince her

 

[bjlatx]

Mine took to it like a fish to water. I don’t know that we could go back to “normal” now. She doesn’t like to see my dick out of a cage at all. My current streak is 11 days and I’ve been out of my cage twice to shave for maybe a total of 15 minutes. She doesn’t even let me out to jerk off. She only allows me ruined orgasms in my cage and even those are getting fewer and farther between. Since I figured out how to avoid sores, I’m in my cage now 24x7x365 for the foreseeable future.

 

[9to5]

I have told her my cage pushes out the balls more for her. she likes to play with my balls. so time will tell as I hope she gets more used to me in cage.
I only cum with my wife. I have not jerked off in over a year, if she don't play I don't cum. its now been 2 weeks since my last cum

 

[Bobbigurl]

Even after reading this thread I don't understand why a guy cannot live in chastity without a cage? Why do you even need the cage?

1) I have poor willpower when it comes to playing with myself and that usually leads to jerking off, 2) being caged and at the mercy of Goddess means my cock is now Hers as She holds the keys, I cum only when She wants me to, and 3) it is so hot to worship Her pussy in any way She decides while I am caged and horny as hell.

 

[9to5]

it does take some time to build up the will power but I have gotten to that place. so even not caged I might edge but not cum

 

[BillyWalrus]

I don't wear a cage nor would I ever wear one but I have not had an orgasm in months (no, I don't have ED). My trans girlfriend has the orgasms for both of us and I am content to be "the girl" who helps her cum.

 

[9to5]

I don't wear a cage nor would I ever wear one but I have not had an orgasm in months (no, I don't have ED). My trans girlfriend has the orgasms for both of us and I am content to be "the girl" who helps her cum.

good job and good self control
for me I like having things on my cock cage or strap whatever just love it contained

 

[BillyWalrus]

good job and good self control
for me I like having things on my cock cage or strap whatever just love it contained

Maybe you just like how it feels.

 

[9to5]

Maybe you just like how it feels.

yes exactly it does not stop my orgasm as I have done it caged with a vibe it just helps the tease.
I have worn parachute with weights for fun too

 

[Samantha47]

caged in public, I was thinking as I am shopping or in a mall who else is caged and walking around like me. at a home show thinking of all the guys here am I the only one wearing a chastity cage

Sounds wonderful

 

[9to5]

Sounds wonderful

it was and made a big mess in the cage. it was nothing I felt before being so tight in cage. I would do it again

 

[bjlatx]

My new pink flat cage is supposed to come in today. I’m hoping my wife tries to give me an orgasm in the flat as we haven’t done that yet.

 

[9to5]

did you aske her to do that for you. I hope the new cage is a good fit and fun to have on

 

[bjlatx]

I did. I asked her last night if she would try it in my “regular” cage and she said no. I might get one this weekend since it’s Father’s Day.

 

[supermorningboobs]

I think there are online doma that would do it. I’m lucky enough to be married to a woman that loves it.

Thank you. I will try to look for one.

 

[9to5]

Thank you. I will try to look for one.

most I find want money.