Challenges.
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Nora
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Spiffy's way good! It's only one step down from spiffarific, afterall!
What it means is that even though I've rarely spoken to you directly, you always seem to have something kind and cheerful to say, and that's something I admire and respect. =)
What it means is that even though I've rarely spoken to you directly, you always seem to have something kind and cheerful to say, and that's something I admire and respect. =)
SqueakyMongoose
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Aquila said:
Thats probably because real men beat the shit out of you and take your lunch money.
Mischka
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INora said:
you. Spiffy is part of my daily vernacular.To answer Freya's question, I don't care for "challenges." I find it disrespectful if a person is going to pretend to be less interested or aloof just to make me chase them. What's the point? If we like each other, cool. We can hang out, screw, make love, etc. If we don't, that's fine. We can then move on to people that do spark that interest. There's enough awesome people out there to explore that I don't care for wasting time in mind games that just prolong getting to the real person and the real relationship.
Freya
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Mischka said:I
To answer Freya's question, I don't care for "challenges." I find it disrespectful if a person is going to pretend to be less interested or aloof just to make me chase them. What's the point? If we like each other, cool. We can hang out, screw, make love, etc. If we don't, that's fine. We can then move on to people that do spark that interest. There's enough awesome people out there to explore that I don't care for wasting time in mind games that just prolong getting to the real person and the real relationship.
Aloof! That's the word I was looking for! Thanks Mischka.
And yes, that drives me buggy as well. It's understandable that people have things going on in their lives, at times, that hinder their ability to be more chummy with you, but when they are purposefully aloof, it becomes a mind game. (now I'm going to use that word 47 times so I don't forget it again!!) Either tell the person you aren't interested, or back off totally - it's the hot and cold that makes me snarl.
Eumenides
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I'm in complete agreement here. I hate games. Sometimes I allow myself to be pulled in, and then i get resentful and I play games back. *slaps hand*
I am not good at asking direct questions, for fear of looking utterly moronic, so sometimes I hint around the subject. I hate that about myself. However, I more despise people who act as if you're the bee's knees at one moment, and the next act as if you don't exist. GRRRRRRRR. Makes the Emeanie come out in me. You don't have to say "hey, i like you"...words, after all, are easy. Act as if you do, though. If you don't, I will automatically make the assumption you are not interested.
I am not good at asking direct questions, for fear of looking utterly moronic, so sometimes I hint around the subject. I hate that about myself. However, I more despise people who act as if you're the bee's knees at one moment, and the next act as if you don't exist. GRRRRRRRR. Makes the Emeanie come out in me. You don't have to say "hey, i like you"...words, after all, are easy. Act as if you do, though. If you don't, I will automatically make the assumption you are not interested.
