Cfnm...your thoughts?

Feels like this would be difficult to do in real life, to perfect the timing like in this video.
The fun is is in the practice.

Imagine keeping him in chastity. Letting him out occasionally for his shower. Then have him make a video for you playing with himself and if he can ruin it this perfectly he is rewarded. Otherwise, he punished and back in chastity.
 
Hello everybody. This is my first post, I'm a Brazilian man and this is my first time talking more openly about my feelings about CFNM.

I love being naked anyway. But exposing myself to the female gaze feels very different. The first times I had a CFNM experience (~20 years old) were with a very close friend, with whom I only had sex much later, but had some intimacy to change in front of her and talk openly about everything. But when I did, I felt my heart flutter. I kept my back to her, because I was shy, while she watched me smiling. I don't know if she knew this, but I was hiding the beginning of an erection.

I don't know if you women have any idea of this, but if a guy doesn't want to have an erection in a certain situation, it's basically the recipe for the opposite to happen. At least for me, this dichotomy is the engine of my interest in CFNM, I am passionate about this kind of mixed moment between arousal and discomfort.

Being naked in front of a woman who hasn't seen me naked before is a kind of exposure that makes me lose control of my own body. And it is possible that some women delight in provoking this with just the look. Simple as that: you wink, and suddenly my body responds to your gaze, inevitably revealing a secret.

I'm currently in a long-term relationship, but my imagination is having a naked moment with my girlfriend and a couple of female friends, to feel this frenzy of suddenly being erect for no reason and having to act naturally, knowing that it actually happens, only because they are women and the mere presence of them moves something in me that I cannot disguise. This excites me even more. Anything else is a bonus :X
 
You have covered many of my emotions and feelings regarding CFNM. The possibilities are endless.
 
For me, CFNM is ultimately a form of submission through mental restraint. For those who've never practiced it, the power dynamic shifts dramatically towards her when she's not naked with you. You are vulnerable to her desires once you are naked and at her mercy. She can choose to worship you or humiliate you. She can choose to stimulate you to insanely pleasurable heights, but she can just as easily ruin or even deny your orgasm.

It's the unknown that excites me. It's the opportunity that excites her. All body parts are exposed and "in-play", and it's understood that I will be ready for whatever she decides.
 
They seem to be hard to find.
Yes. Very hard to find.
Years ago I read an article on subs trying to find a FemDom. It may have been Jay Wiseman that wrote it.
I’ll see if I can give the cliff note version
For a male sun to find a FemDom. It’s like finding a Unicorn or Holy Grail. There’s a number of FemDom out there. There’s fewer good ones for whatever reason. Then there’s a lot of male subs all trying to get her attention. Out of those there’s a few good ones. She’s got to take time to sift through all the crap to find a good one. Lotta times she gets fed up with all the players, games, etc. She may get jaded at it all. The male sun needs to do things that make him stand out above the rest. As someone special. Someone worthy of her attention. Not one that wants to play her. He needs to prove he’s a good catch for her
 
Yes. Very hard to find.
Years ago I read an article on subs trying to find a FemDom. It may have been Jay Wiseman that wrote it.
I’ll see if I can give the cliff note version
For a male sun to find a FemDom. It’s like finding a Unicorn or Holy Grail. There’s a number of FemDom out there. There’s fewer good ones for whatever reason. Then there’s a lot of male subs all trying to get her attention. Out of those there’s a few good ones. She’s got to take time to sift through all the crap to find a good one. Lotta times she gets fed up with all the players, games, etc. She may get jaded at it all. The male sun needs to do things that make him stand out above the rest. As someone special. Someone worthy of her attention. Not one that wants to play her. He needs to prove he’s a good catch for her
My late wife knew I was hers to do with as she pleased and that I would do anything she wanted, any time, anywhere. We never got too crazy, but we had some amazing experiences. She wasn't into sharing, but she made sure that I was seen when she wanted to play. I loved it when she exposed me.
 
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i posted in another spot a few days ago now putting here.

... went to nudist campground this weekend. hiked about two hours in woods nude except for boots. it was chilly and my little guy turtled. at least 6 women stole a glance grinned/smiled when they stopped to talk or passed, best was a clothed woman in front of her husband (they were moving into their cabin) stopped me as i left trails and returned to campground and asked me lots questions, and glanced at it several times. we were ten feet apart. i was in heaven being exposed. she was fully dressed and arriving for weekend at campground. i stayed soft entire time. however, i beat off so hard when i got home.
 
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