Can it be taught

[mark05]

I've asked this question elsewhere and I want to try with all if you.

In sports, it's often said that "You can't teach speed". You're either have it or you don't.

So, women, can you learn to deep throat or is it an ability/talent that you were born with?

Thanks!

 

[ladyadonia30]

............

mind over matter

 

[Jenny_Jackson]

I've asked this question elsewhere and I want to try with all if you.

In sports, it's often said that "You can't teach speed". You're either have it or you don't.

So, women, can you learn to deep throat or is it an ability/talent that you were born with?

Thanks!

Most women can learn to deep throat. Some women never want too. There is a natural "choke reflex" that has to be overcome. Because of that deep throat can be unpleasent during the learning process. In addition, because of the architecture of the throat with a cock shoved into the opening of the esophgus, the tube to your stomach) the trachia (the tube to your lungs) closes and the woman can't breath. The result is a gagging sensation.

First time I did it I threw up all over him.

 

[Carnevil9]

Depending on which way he curves, certain positions may be easier than others. If he curves upward, make sure your heads are pointing in the same direction. If he curves downward, straddle him with your head pointing toward his feet.

If he curves to the side, you're on your own!....Carney

 

[devoted lilgirl]

I definitely think you can learn to deep throat, but then there are those people who just are born with less of a gag relfex than others and it kind of comes naturally.

The only times I have had trouble were when I was pregnant and the gag reflex went awry...just was unable to control it...but it went back to normal after I had the baby, (I know my boyfriend was worried for a while there... )

 

[Vixandra]

Its a learned thing, not a born ability.

And following the curve of the penis makes life much easier.

Woman on top 69 type possition works well for a man that curves toward his belly.

 

[mark05]

Thanks

Excellent feedback. Thanks for the help!

 

[lettinggo]

I never could in the past; my gag reflex was too strong. I found a guy who was willing to "help", and let me practice lots and lots. It's harder in some positions than others. I've found that it's easiest for me if he stands and I kneel in front of him. I focus on breathing, while he holds my hair in one hand and my chin in the other and fucks my mouth. I've gagged, I've coughed, and I've learned not to do it too soon after eating. Ew! But my guy has the patience of a saint and was seflessly willing to let me try as often as I wanted until I could get it right. And I've gotten it right. Not only does he love the tightness of my throat, but on a really good day I can work the muscles around him while he's in there. Good times.

 

[hogjack]

It can be taught. But taking out several thousand dollars in loans to attend training school for two years is a major committment of time/resources.

 

[Kimberly39]

I definitely agree!

mind over matter

Desire...Determination...and Definitely...Mind over Matter

 

[Lust Engine]

First time I did it I threw up all over him.

Wow...talk about buzzkill.

 

[carrie-on]

Practice Practice Practice As lettinggo wrote Him standing in front of me works the best as my nasal passages aren't blocked and i can still breathe.

 

[StuffItIn]

My wife can nearly take me all the way in. She gets right at the entrance to her throat and usually that's it for the std oral before sex.

Sometimes she'll get really into it and will push me in/out of her throat. It's *definitely* learned (unless you have no gag reflex at all), because she used to not be able to take me in that far and only lately has been 'practicing' more I guess you could say, and there is obvious progression.

I always need to hold back though, I always have the urge to push her head down as far as possible and hold her there. lol

Re-reading that, it sounds weird, but it's true.

 

[Kimberly39]

My wife can nearly take me all the way in. She gets right at the entrance to her throat and usually that's it for the std oral before sex.

Sometimes she'll get really into it and will push me in/out of her throat. It's *definitely* learned (unless you have no gag reflex at all), because she used to not be able to take me in that far and only lately has been 'practicing' more I guess you could say, and there is obvious progression.

I always need to hold back though, I always have the urge to push her head down as far as possible and hold her there. lol

Re-reading that, it sounds weird, but it's true.

Sounds like you need to find a place to keep your hands busy and off your wifes head during a blowjob. Use your imagination

 

[StuffItIn]

Sounds like you need to find a place to keep your hands busy and off your wifes head during a blowjob. Use your imagination

Well yes. Except half the time she is kneeling down between my legs while I'm laying down. But oh yes, they are exploring her during the process

Any other creative suggestions are appreciated of course.

 

[Stanard]

Deep throating

Align your throat with the dick. (69-type position). When the dick is at the back of your mouth (at the entrance of your throat) make sure your tongue is not extended, or you will gag before it even enters your throat. Take a deep breath, swallow, and right after that slide it into your throat, or slide your throat down on it--whichever. Your throat is already accustomed to feeling stuff go into it. The tongue-extended position can trigger gagging. You're not supposed to be able to breathe while swallowing.

 

[rosebud5446]

it can be learned.

 

[Malaria]

I have a hair trigger gag reflex, literally a hair too far down my throat will make me gag, I often have a hard time cleaning my teeth. Deep throat is not something I can do, in oral I can manage very little of my boyfriend cock without gagging.

Plus in some porn the other day I saw a woman deep throat and it looked so uncomfortable and disgusting not to mention the panic in her eyes and the sounds she was making...I couldn't do it after that.

 

[Sexual_Es]

There's a thread in the HT Cafe that deals with deep throating. While it's initially about someone having problems doing it, there's some useful advice in there regarding techniques etc..

Might be useful

Here it is