can anyone do deep throat??

[groban]

my partner has dared me to take him all the way...for some reason he has a deep throat video on his mobile and yday he showed me it and would kinda like me to try...im a little nervous...i dont wanna gag...and i have this fear of choking that ive had from childhood...so i laughed it off...but i know hed like me to try.

is there any tips for me to take before i try??

 

[Koneko]

Okay first off dont let him take control seeing as how its your first time, I'm going to assume that you've given blow jobs before and are fine with them i.e dont choke as if you do this is gonna be even harder. What I've heard is a good way to do it is to lay on your back with your head hanging off the bed so your neck straightens out from its natural L shape to more of a _ shape. Many people can't do this no matter how hard they try so dont be dissapointed, let him know this as well.

I'm not sure how far you have to go to be considered deep throating but I can get to about 7 inches on quite a thick vibrator (gotta love lubing it up the sexy way for the girlfriend ^_^)

Oh and does he know you have a fear of choking? Let us know how it turns out

 

[Kryocide]

Not sure how big he is, but you might want to start with a dong. Doc's 6" Ultraskin dong is a good one to start with, then after that try the 8" "Perfect Pecker (white)," which feels VERY real and stays very slippery with spit.

In any case, you'll really have to enter into a state of mind where you're VERY sexually heated/aroused, and then just start going down on him little by little.

I started my girlfriend off by getting her aroused, then suctioned a dong to the closet door while I sat in a chair. I then put on some audible porn (groans, moans and slurps of women having sex) and then she fucked the dong while sucking me and taking it in deeper and deeper. Soon, her eyes were rolling back and fluttering as she intentionally gagged on it, and then she went freakin' insane and asked me to fuck her throat. It was an experience, for both of us!

The spit in the back of your throat is the best and slickest. Think of it as fun and you might enjoy it. Keep that cock wet though, and don't start deepthroating until you're really in the mood. Relax your throat and allow it to slide in, and do NOT think of it as choking on something bad.

Good luck!

 

[M's girl]

When you start trying this you need to stay in control the first few times until YOU know how much you can handle. I would still hold his penis at the base as a natural buffer so only I could control how far he went in. It's understandable for the guy to want to push further, in a reflex, but that's why you need to stay in control at first. You will have a natural gag-reflex, everyone does. With one it's stronger than with the other. Find out what yours is. Relax. If you have a strong gag-reflex there's nothing you can do about it. I've heard you can train your throat to get used to the stimulation.... the question is.... do you want to? If so, I guess the dildo's are fine for that purpose.

I agree it's also connected to your state of arousal but I guess that's natural because I think you are more relaxed also then. When you start to deep throat you must remember you also still have to breathe... Now.... I found that the biggest sensation about it for a man seems to be the idea that he's just that far in your mouth and throat. That's a big part of the excitement. There is no initial need to suck him hard at the same time (you can try that later on when you've gotten used to the feeling and idea). So keep your mouth wide open and let him 'probe' your throat with his glans. You will be able to stir him to a 'corner' that produces the least gag-reflex and because your mouth is wide open you will be able to breathe easier. Also... this way it makes sounds that are very sexy too. Try it.

But first of all.... take it slow and at your pace. Plus, indeed, mention the fear of choking/gagging to him. It's already great you want to try it despite of that so he should be willing to take that into consideration as much as he can. You won't choke or throw up (that's what I was a little afraid of at first) that easy, by the way, if that is your fear. The throat does have this gag-reflex for a purpose, and that is to not let that happen. "Listen" to that...

One last thing... I find that my gag-reflex behaves different every time. I sometimes surprise myself (and M ) by easily taking him in all the way and at other times I just can't, don't know why... So don't let that bother you either....

 

[Vixandra]

And its a called a gag reflex for a reason. I've had to stop before to take a moment to calm mine down or I was going to throw up.
Nothing wrong with taking a break if you have to.

And definantly talk to him about your fear of choking. It would be awful to finely be able to deep throat and then have him move wrong beinging your fears to the forefront and terrifying you.

Good luck!

 

[TBKahuna123]

Well something both you and especially your partner need to understand is that you may not be able to do it the first time. If you really want to do this you need to take it slow, just a litle at a time pushing the envelope a bit each time. If your lover really wants you to do this, he'll understand that you are trying and that it may not happen over night. You both need to be happy with the effort.

I had a girlfriend who had a really bad gag reflex who simply could not deep throat me, and I'm not overly large. Her problem was that she couldn't relax and accept the fact that it might take a bit of time. She kept rushing it, and it discouraged her. Just enjoy the challenge, don't get hung up on success. Now, I can understand the appeal of this to your man. I'm blessed with a wife with amazing talents who can deep throat me. The sensation is incredible, and yes part of it is mental.

The one thing that was said up above that I totally agree with. Make sure you are in total control. If you are going to try this, make sure your man knows that you ahve this fear and that you need to be in control to try it. And then just relax and have fun!

 

[fungirl911]

I'll give you a hint my kid's pediatrician told me, to keep them from gagging during that aweful tongue depresser part of a dr. visit.
Hold your breath.
When you breath and suddenly the airflow is stopped by something in your throat it makes you gag. It has something to do with a connection between your gag reflex and your lungs.
And do take control and take you time. Cause one he starts stabbing, it's hard not to to either laugh and start gagging or just plain choke......
Take the time to enjoy the moment, and giving him pleasure.

 

[ferntree]

I'll give you a hint my kid's pediatrician told me, to keep them from gagging during that aweful tongue depresser part of a dr. visit.
Hold your breath.
When you breath and suddenly the airflow is stopped by something in your throat it makes you gag. It has something to do with a connection between your gag reflex and your lungs.

wow...didnt know that one. Thanks, i'll keep that in mind for the clinics.

 

[Different Guy]

*Tries it with a pen...*

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Check out the blank manual as well as this little thread:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=356770&highlight=deep+throat

Despite the direction that thread went there was some pretty decent info in it on this subject. I get the feeling that whatever you read here or there will pretty much all be the same info anyway.

Let us know how it goes for you, and if at all possible try to bring back some pics.

 

[Domain Master]

Hope this helps some of you.



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~~~~~~~~~~~ Deep throat How To ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Here for the first time ever are simple and explicit instructions on
how to deep throat
a penis. Position is important; you'll want to in position where you
can extend and
straighten your neck by slightly tilting your head back. This helps
line up your throat
with your mouth allowing the penis to slide in deep. The best position
for beginners is
with the receiver lying on his back with the giver lying on the stomach
along side.
You can prop yourself up on your elbows.

The penis must be THOROUGHLY LUBRICATED! I can't stress this enough. An
erect penis will slide much easier along the tongue and into the throat
if it is well
lubricated. Once you're in position, slightly tilt your head back and
extend the tip of
your tongue just past your bottom lip. Flatten the back of your tongue
just as you
would if a doctor were using a tongue depressor to look in your throat.
(Extending
your tongue helps flatten the back of your tongue. Force your throat
open as you
would if you were yawning. (contrary to popular belief, you don't
'relax' your throat
muscles to perform deep throat. Forcing the back of your tongue down
and your
throat open will counter the gag reflex and create a larger opening for
the penis to
enter).

Now, take a deep breath and slowly slide the length of the penis into
your mouth and
along your tongue. When you feel the urge to gag, pause and hold the
penis there as
long as possible then withdraw it. Repeat this process as many times as
you can.
Eventually you'll be able to take the penis in deeper and deeper until
you can take
the entire length of it across your tongue and down your throat.

One thing to remember is when you get to the point where the head
actually enters
the throat, you may feel a little resistance and will need to give a
little extra 'push' to
get the penis fully in. It may help to use your tongue to pull the
penis in deeper.
When you reach the point where you feel the gag reflex, pause for a
moment, then,
without removing the penis from you mouth, extend your tongue out a
little further,
then pull your tongue back in your mouth, pulling the penis along with
it.

You contact lens wearers will no doubt remember the difficulty you had
overcoming
the involuntary urge to blink the first few times you tried to put in
your lenses, but
with practice and patience it became very easy to do. The same applies
to deep
throating! Be patient and practice the technique as often as possible.

After you've learned to take in the entire length, you can begin
working on some
'advanced techniques' that will add even more pleasure. Some of these
techniques
are letting you partner ejaculate with the entire length of his penis
in your throat. If
you don't like the taste of cum, this is a great technique because the
head of his
penis will be well past the taste buds on the back of you tongue when
he ejaculates.

You'll also be able to perform a "throat massage" on his penis while
it's in your
throat. This technique will drive your partner wild with passion as
your throat muscles
massage his penis. This is accomplished by actually making a swallowing
motion
while the entire length if his penis is deep in your throat. You'll
also be able to lick his
balls while he's in your throat.

If you've never been deep throated, you're probably wondering what it
really feels like.
Most men report that they feel a "pleasurable ring of tightness" around
the
circumference of the penis just below the head with the most
pleasurable sensation
focused on the underside of the penis where the head joins the shaft.

Remember: lubrication, extend tongue, flatten back of tongue, force
throat muscles
open, go slow and be patient! While learning deep throat, it's better
that the giver
maintain the "superior" position, i.e. where the giver controls the
depth and frequency
of penetration. After you've become very comfortable with taking a
penis deep in your
throat, you'll be able to accept a more passive roll and let your
partner control the
depth. An excellent position for this is you lying on your back with
your head hanging
off the edge of the bed. Your partner will be able to put his penis in
as deeply as he
wishes in this position. This position provides an excellent view of
your neck and
throat for your partner. On of the most exciting visual aspects of deep
throat is your
partner can watch your neck and throat expand and bulge as the penis
slides in
deep.

While learning to perform deep throat, it's best of you are fully
relaxed before starting.
Take a nice, long, hot, bath. Listen to some soft music. Drink a glass
of wine. Have
you partner give you a long sensual body massage .... or do whatever
relaxes you
the best. The more relaxed you are when you begin, the easier it will
be to learn the
deep throat technique.

As related earlier, lubrication is extremely important. Saliva will do,
but there are
other lubricants you can buy that are slicker and will last longer. The
best I've found
is, believe it or not, Albolene, a makeup remover! It's completely
odorless and
tasteless and in non toxic. It has been used in the adult film industry
for years as a
sexual lubricant. It can be purchased at any large drugstore. Another
trick the adult
film stars who perform deep throat use is spraying a topical anesthetic
on the back of
the tongue and throat to deaden it. The most commonly used is Lidocaine
spray.
Lidocaine is available by prescription only! Lidocaine is what a
physician uses to
deaden the tongue and throat when they use an endoscope to look in to
your
stomach. Lidocaine is also prescribed for people with very sore throats
and those
with canker sores in the mouth. An over the counter equivalent is Axon,
a type of
aerosol sore throat spray. I hope this information is helpful.



DM

 

[In detention]

can anyone do deep throat??

*Raises hand*

I'd say the best thing to do is to practice a lot [I'm sure your guy wouldn't mind that] and to just relax in general. Mind over matter stuff here... If you think you're going to gag you probably will. Just take your time and go slow at first. I really think learning to master the gag reflex is 90% mental.

Once you get the hang of it you'll learn how to regulate your breathing with the bobbing of your head up and down. My boyfriend always wants me to keep my head all the way down while he thrusts up. If I were a synchronized swimmer I might be able to keep that up for more than ten seconds, but alas. It's fun to try anyway.

 

[chris9]

For position, try this:
Have him lying on his side (you will be lying on your side, too). Put your face to his penis and then put your ass so it's around a 90 degree angle to him. He should be able to pet you there while you're at it
I found that this position stretches my neck while it is very comfortable, so I can keep it going for some time without my jaw seeming to fall off.
I don't think I managed any deep-throating, I'm still practicing. It's fun, though, as I love giving blow-jobs. So I don't really mind to take my time practicing.

 

[In detention]

Oh yeah I forgot to mention, depending on which way his penis curves, twist your body to the angle where you can get it down your throat.

It's basic anatomy really. Your throat curves downward so position yourself to where his penis will point downward too.

 

[Domain Master]

The instructions I posted earlier are really good for anybody who has not reached any sort of profficiency. freedomacres.com have some other "interesting" articles too for anybody that wants some help with matters of the flesh.

 

[SpankyMcCranky]

69 position's easiest for me to take it all the way

 

[M's girl]

.... I really think learning to master the gag reflex is 90% mental.

gag reflex
n.

Retching or gagging caused by the contact of a foreign body with the mucous membrane of the throat.

The gag reflex is a natural reaction of your body to stop something from entering that your body thinks it's not going to be able to swallow and or digest. Sure you can 'fool' your natural reflex my practicing and by that telling your body it is alright. In that way it's mental.... maybe, but it still is your mucous membrane 'talking' first ....