Can a slut count?

Remember all you have had sex with?

  • I have not had sex with anyone other than myself, yet!

    Votes: 3 3.9%
  • I remember the names of everyone I have had sex with.

    Votes: 39 50.6%
  • I knew the names of everyone but now I just remember the number.

    Votes: 5 6.5%
  • I no longer remember the names or the number.

    Votes: 9 11.7%
  • I never knew the names of everyone, but I know how many.

    Votes: 3 3.9%
  • I can’t get an accurate count, how am I expected to get all the names?

    Votes: 6 7.8%
  • Who the hell is counting?

    Votes: 5 6.5%
  • Don’t you have work to do today, Shankara?

    Votes: 7 9.1%

  • Total voters
    77
Vixandra said:
I know the names of everyone I've had sex with.

But then, I tend to be of the "if there's no love, there's no nookie" persuasion.

um can there just be intense emotional attraction as well as serious liking??? Please???
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
YOU would most definately get a kiss..you are my cheerleader...with a capital *C*

:heart:

And suddenly the clouds parted and there was warm sunshine for all.

:rose:
 
What's in a number...or a name for that matter?

There have been several and I have enjoyed each one of them especially...what did you say your name was again?

d
 
RJMasters said:
And suddenly the clouds parted and there was warm sunshine for all.

:rose:

Waiting

A breath that begins slowly
Shivering upon the air like fairy wings
Every color of the rainbow trapped between
This moment and the next
An eternity of waiting
Wanting, wishing.

Exhalation which brings comfort
Breathe in peace, blow out impatience quickly
Every minute brings one closer to completion
Each second slowly trickling away
An eternity in the making
Each second, waiting

And yet, this wanting continues
Unending, an atomic clock with perfect time
Without the pleasure of the sound: tick, tock
Trapped here in sublime stillness
Eternity in each moment
Waiting, still waiting​

for you... :rose:
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
Waiting

A breath that begins slowly
Shivering upon the air like fairy wings
Every color of the rainbow trapped between
This moment and the next
An eternity of waiting
Wanting, wishing.

Exhalation which brings comfort
Breathe in peace, blow out impatience quickly
Every minute brings one closer to completion
Each second slowly trickling away
An eternity in the making
Each second, waiting

And yet, this wanting continues
Unending, an atomic clock with perfect time
Without the pleasure of the sound: tick, tock
Trapped here in sublime stillness
Eternity in each moment
Waiting, still waiting​

for you... :rose:

Whoever thought Mt. Everest was the highest hieght, obviously hasn't met you yet. :)

I'm all undone here grinz...thank you. 100 x :rose:
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
um can there just be intense emotional attraction as well as serious liking??? Please???


including deep momentary infatuation?

what about dumb blind heat-of-the-moment lust?

Please??
 
Shankara20 said:
including deep momentary infatuation?

what about dumb blind heat-of-the-moment lust?

Please??

yea I will take 2 of those..*nods*

Vixandra said:
For you, of course :kiss:

this is always good to know.. :rose:

RJ said:
Whoever thought Mt. Everest was the highest hieght, obviously hasn't met you yet. :)

I'm all undone here grinz...thank you. 100 x :rose:

and this is why you would be number 5 on my guy kiss list...
 
Vixandra said:
You going to be online today?

yes, dear one..for the nonce I am on til my son comes home to help me with laundry...then I should be back around 9 ish my time... :rose:
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
yes, dear one..for the nonce I am on til my son comes home to help me with laundry...then I should be back around 9 ish my time... :rose:

Ah, *pounce* then!
 
Shankara20 said:
I sat with that question for some time before hitting the "submit" button. Figured if I did there would be a lot less votes....


Say - do Tops ever have a problem with selecting the "submit" button? Just wondering.... :D

Actually, yes, my Lady does quite often!
 
I remember every name of every kiss and sexual situation.
Actual intercourse/penetration : male- 6 (2 of whom were a one shot deal), what I consider sex w/a female - 5 (2 were threeways)
kisses/make outs : male - 12(plus the 6), female - 10

Now Ive been with hubby for the last 10 years, so the number has remained the same. When I was young I was slightly prudish in the thinking that I had to care to fuck you. But over the years that has changed, Ive become more free with my thinking and know that were we not monogomous, those numbers would be much higher. And since were discussing a third, hopefully the numbers will move up very soon :devil: Im working at him to bring him around. And I would say deep down Im definately of the slut persuasion.

ETA......are we counting online stuff too? As much as one can have 'sex' OL anyways, cam'ming, im'ing etc... Im gonna say Ive never counted so I must have lost count. We'll just say theres been many many of those.
eegads I AM a slut lmao :p
 
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I couldn't begin to count let alone remember names. I can count and remember women I have had sex with (more of an emotional connection there) but not men. With men, I have gone out and had sex out of need (no names needed there), out of lust (again names aren't truly critical), and been told several times over the years that I think like a man regarding sex (ie is this a bad thing??).

Definitely have mellowed over the last couple years so I guess I am a slut but quasi retired and only a slut to Him (and His desires/needs).
 
I no longer remember the names or the number. But, then most of those I can't remember were almost 20 years ago and hey it's not my fault my memory is finally deteriorating. :rolleyes:
 
I have never had casual sex with anyone. I just can't remember the names anymore or the numbers. It's been 37 years of activity though. Though there are those two periods where I was celibate for a over 5 years at a stretch.
 
I consider sex to be some sort of penetration of an orifice.

Given that...

N, S, J, C, Z, C2, J2, S, T, C3.

We can add in K, J3, and J4 if we're expanding to include almost-but-not-quite and mutual enjoyment via electronic communication, aka cyber. :p

Does that answer your question, Sir Shankara?
 
Thrall_67 said:
i know i am into the triple digits - several years ago i was at a pj party with some of my girlfriends and we all wrote out the number of people we had sex with (oral, anal or vaginal) and my list was the longest :rolleyes: . It was 77.
i couldn't remember all the names but was able to remember all the incidents (ie - the guy i gave a blow job to in the back of a club in Cancun - it was the tequila i swear!!!! :p
Since then i've been involved with several BDSM groups, went to an all girl play party last year and there were 17 of us chickees - being part of groups has driven the number up significantly.
i also have this "Alphabet Summit" thing goin' on - still looking for an Xavier and a Quinton (or a Xena and a Quira......... :D ) to complete the round....

er, uh, does this make me a slut???? :nana:


Holy Shit, I wish I would've thought of this alphabetical order thing, it would've slowed things down a lot and given me a new no

"I'm sorry what is your name again? Right, Andy, well I'm at T... I can't go home with you but you wouldn't happen to have a friend name, Tony or Todd would you/?"
 
Shankara20 said:
how many did you download???

tell me for a cookie????

None. I just know if I start downloading things like that one of the kids will find it. :eek: Then I'll have to explain to my husband how they saw THAT. :eek::eek: Someday I'll hve my own computer and they'll have their own computer, and I won't have to be as careful about what's on there.
 
150 women, 10 men and a dog

I used to keep a list, first on paper, then on computers.

About five years ago, I somehow deleted it between transferring stuff from an old computer to a new one. (In 16 years of computing, it's the only file I've lost. Divine providence perhaps?)

I was up to 121 at that point.

I'd venture an accurate guess to be:
150 women
10 men
1 dog.


Oh, and I'm not a slut. I'm a romantic. Lol.....
 
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Oh yeah, it's a two-part question

......The dog's name was Schotzie.

I knew all the women's names, probably remember 2/3 of them.

The men were all disposable and forgettable. (Aren't they always?)
 
Does it count if I remember how much I paid them but not their name?


:D
 
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