Calling all BBW's

MagicaPractica said:
It's nice but it's hard to wait all week. :rolleyes: I always thought I'd like to be a truckers wife so I had lots of time to myself but now I don't think so.

I don't know about that. I spent most of my marriage being alone with my two kids 'cause of hubbys hours. Only saw him on weekends.
 
shadowdame said:
Hmm, I'm beginning to think that between the two of us we have most of the tricks covered. What do you think?

*scratches head* Uhm.... you might be right about that. ;) :D
 
shadowdame said:
I don't know about that. I spent most of my marriage being alone with my two kids 'cause of hubbys hours. Only saw him on weekends.

Yeah, the thing is I watched my mother with five kids and my father never home and she didn't have a life outside the house. She was very unhappy whenever he wasn't around. I guess I decided that I'd rather make myself happy if my hubby wasn't around than pining after him. Make sense?
 
MagicaPractica said:
Yeah, the thing is I watched my mother with five kids and my father never home and she didn't have a life outside the house. She was very unhappy whenever he wasn't around. I guess I decided that I'd rather make myself happy if my hubby wasn't around than pining after him. Make sense?

Well in my case, it didn't seem to bother him that he never saw me except for the weekends and I grew used to being without him. It's one of the many reasons we are divorcing now. I am pretty self-sufficient and am able to take care of myself, just wish I had realized that years ago.
 
shadowdame said:
Well in my case, it didn't seem to bother him that he never saw me except for the weekends and I grew used to being without him. It's one of the many reasons we are divorcing now. I am pretty self-sufficient and am able to take care of myself, just wish I had realized that years ago.

Yeah, we don't give ourselves enough credit.
 
MagicaPractica said:
Yeah, we don't give ourselves enough credit.


I sure didn't and considering what I do for a living I should have realized that I could take care of my girls on my own. I just wasn't ready yet.
 
MagicaPractica said:
Yeah, we don't give ourselves enough credit.
LOL It's always amazed me. You guys survive some of the most intense and painful events in the world, do the hardest job in the world, and still cant see that you are strong enough to survive and thrive on your own if needed. Granted it's not as easy or nice as bein with a partner but is surly possible :rolleyes:
 
pirraent said:
LOL It's always amazed me. You guys survive some of the most intense and painful events in the world, do the hardest job in the world, and still cant see that you are strong enough to survive and thrive on your own if needed. Granted it's not as easy or nice as bein with a partner but is surly possible :rolleyes:

Well when you live with someone that makes you feel bad about yourself and insecure then how can you believe that you are strong enough to go it on your own?
 
shadowdame said:
Well when you live with someone that makes you feel bad about yourself and insecure then how can you believe that you are strong enough to go it on your own?
It's that men from mars women from venus thing kickin in. A mans response to that is kick him in the nuts and tell him not to let the door hit him where the good lord split him. A woman, and the reason I love them so, Has to bring all the conflicting emotions to the party :)
 
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