Calling all BBW's

[sassylilthang]

Hi

Hi all...just had to add my experiences.

I have been a BBW most of my life, recently lost a lot of weight through excersize and diet, took time and finally realizing I did it for me, but I am still a BBW and proud of my figure.

I have been blessed in my life with men that loved me at whatever size I was. I used to hide away and be shy and afraid to get out there at all, mainly cause there were so many who were cruel and you could see the look of disgust on their faces, but I met a man that couldn't keep his hands off me. And over time, it finally sunk in that he really did find me sexy and exciting and that allowed me to see that in myself finally.

From that time on, I have always felt sexy and have come across other men that found me desirable. But it had to be something I felt within myself first. Sure I still cringe now and then looking in the mirror....but then I look again and realize I am a beautiful person, inside and out and walk away with a smile Have faith, confidence and love for yourself and others will respond.

Mysti

Good for you Mysti! I hope you are proud of your accomplishments....and doing them for the right reasons. I have too many times tried to lose weight to make someone else happy. I would love to have your confidence. Take care girl!

 

[babydoll2u]

another bbw here

divorced, 45, mom of 2, 5'4, 220 lbs.

Most of you already know my story, from the 5 other BBW threads we have in the playground, lol, so I won't go into it here. Suffice it to say that I'm learning to be content, if not happy, with me, just the way I am.

 

[remember_xxxx]

hi all

hi to all
i am new to this site . I am a 19 yr old bbw and lovin this thread
like all of you (im sure) i have been on countless diets in which i loose but put on twice as much when i finish. I am just starting to be happy with who i am and what i look like and gaining confidence with that . Lots of people i know have commented since i have started to accept myself on how nice i look and comfortable in my own body.

take care xx

 

[xrobbie]

hi to all
i am new to this site . I am a 19 yr old bbw and lovin this thread
like all of you (im sure) i have been on countless diets in which i loose but put on twice as much when i finish. I am just starting to be happy with who i am and what i look like and gaining confidence with that . Lots of people i know have commented since i have started to accept myself on how nice i look and comfortable in my own body.

take care xx

Be happy with yourself,
dont worry about anyone else,
You were born to be this way,
dont let it make you unhappy,
There is nothing wrong with a fuller form,
There is many men like them like me for one.


Hi there its good to see another uk member here. I am maybe posting on the wrong thread but who cares.

 

[kitz]

Thought I would share some of my thoughts and a little more about me!

I come from a family that’s half big and half “normal” so from a young age I was on manyyyyy a diet!
Till I was about 15 then I stopped yo yo dieting just made me bigger over the years so I decided to learn to like myself and I am a much happier person for it!
From 16 I pretty much had an extremely happy life I don’t care what people think of me I like me regardless!
And I like me soooooo much I am about to open a adult bbw paysite!
I think the world should be free to express there tastes in people without others telling u there is no way u can b happy with ur self if u are 1 ounce over weight!
I help run a adult forum for plumbers to ssbbw models/webmasters and their admires!
I enjoy life!

If ur not happy in ur own skin change if u are live life and don’t let ppl tell u what to do.

 

[sassylilthang]

Hi Kitz

I like the last line of your post! I had a gf who lost almost 200#'s, and could not understand why she was sooo depressed after she lost all th e weight. I t hink it dawned on her that beign skinny is not a cure all, it does not automatically make you happy. She worked on her and now is very happy, and is still thin. I give both of you ladies a pat on the back for doing what you needed to do to be true to yourselves.

 

[sassylilthang]

I was fearless....lol!!!!!

SO today I go shopping, which I love to do, but sometimes is hard. But, for me shopping is one of tho se things where I say "you can't wear that", and alot of the time, it is not stuff that would look bad. I am 28 and till this year would not have considered wearing a tank top in public. I have started to, and it is getting easier. I remembered that today, and had a ton of fun shopping. It was so much more enjoyable to loook at everythign and say"I wonder if that would look better then I think?" I tried on lots and bought little. Some of it truly did not look good, but oh well, at least I tried. And, for the first time in a long time I bought sexy underwear and sexy matching bras, and a really nice peice of leingerie.....and told myself that when it comes to wearing them in front of a man I will not chicken o ut....lol. It felt great, adn I still have a huge smile on my face! Hope all are well and good!

 

[deepstar7]

SO today I go shopping, which I love to do, but sometimes is hard. But, for me shopping is one of tho se things where I say "you can't wear that", and alot of the time, it is not stuff that would look bad. I am 28 and till this year would not have considered wearing a tank top in public. I have started to, and it is getting easier. I remembered that today, and had a ton of fun shopping. It was so much more enjoyable to loook at everythign and say"I wonder if that would look better then I think?" I tried on lots and bought little. Some of it truly did not look good, but oh well, at least I tried. And, for the first time in a long time I bought sexy underwear and sexy matching bras, and a really nice peice of leingerie.....and told myself that when it comes to wearing them in front of a man I will not chicken o ut....lol. It felt great, adn I still have a huge smile on my face! Hope all are well and good!

Good for you, I would love to see you in you sexy undies. I m glad your day went well and I hope you continue to enjoy life and all the fun things it offers.

 

[sassylilthang]

Deepstar

Thanks sweetness for the encouragement! Kisses to you!

 

[liv2lik]

lifelong admirer

Hey, I just wanted to add my male input here. I am a very fit muscular guy who is a pushover for bbw's. I will admit that when I was younger it was harder for me to be honest to myself about what I really preferred. I've had to endure my share of hurtful remarks which were aimed at me or my partners. It's shameful and I don't get it... My taste in women has been shaped by my experiences. The most fun and the best sex of my life has mostly been with ... Reubenesque? Voluptuous?..Curvaceous?..whatever you prefer to call it...Fat chicks rule!
To all you women here whom have posted pics of your beautiful and desireable assets on various threads I just want to thank you for your generosity. Guys like me love it and we live for it.

 

[mlady_france]

Another BBW from Ohio, stopping in to say Hi

 

[liv2lik]

wow mlady...you have enticed me to check out your pic postings.....very sexy indeed

 

[sassylilthang]

Hi!

Another BBW from Ohio, stopping in to say Hi

Hey there Ohio.....thanks for stopping by! I love your pics too btw! Ahhh....if we were in Oz...I would be the lion....no courage, but glad to see that you are one lady that has it!

 

[sassylilthang]

Hey, I just wanted to add my male input here. I am a very fit muscular guy who is a pushover for bbw's. I will admit that when I was younger it was harder for me to be honest to myself about what I really preferred. I've had to endure my share of hurtful remarks which were aimed at me or my partners. It's shameful and I don't get it... My taste in women has been shaped by my experiences. The most fun and the best sex of my life has mostly been with ... Reubenesque? Voluptuous?..Curvaceous?..whatever you prefer to call it...Fat chicks rule!
To all you women here whom have posted pics of your beautiful and desireable assets on various threads I just want to thank you for your generosity. Guys like me love it and we live for it.

Thanks for your post! I can imagine some of the dumb stuff people have said to you, or you gf's in the past. I too have been on the recieving end of those commetns, they are not only hurtful, but embarassing. Embarassing for both, but from my point of view, I thought I was the embarassment at the time. Things get better as you get older....which is good. But, once or twice in the last few years I have met a man or two that really liked me, and I have had to struggle and watch him struggle over what was more important to them.....me or there image. One or two chose image, adn tried to sneak me in on the side. I was not having that! I am glad that you chose substance over style hon. Some lovely lady will be lucky to get you! (If you have not already been snatched up!) Take care!

 

[jpashion4u]

Hi,
I gotta tell you all something and ask how you feel about it. I am a man who happens to be blind. I like BBWs. When I am in public with someone, I can just feel the people thinking "Does he know she's fat?" or "She can't get anyone else so she's going for this blind guy." I don't know whether to laugh or get sick. I mean can we get past the skin already? Don't get me wrong. I have my shallownesses too, but at times, I am thankful that I am forced to take a look at the personality quickly. I also have a lot of things I'd like to do sexually that I am hoping to get done some time and hay, what's wrong with a little more mass. I happen to think that I relate to BBWs well because there is a certain amount of abuse we both have gone through and we are looking for someone to understand us for who we are.

 

[Mysticcallyy]

I have had to struggle and watch him struggle over what was more important to them.....me or there image. One or two chose image, adn tried to sneak me in on the side. I was not having that!

Good for you and wtg on buying the lingerie today

And I have been there as well. Watching that struggle and actually reaching the point where I had to just laugh. I found myself sitting back and watching them watching everyone else and realized at that point that I no longer found them attractive. And I had been so caught up in being glad someone was with me, I forgot that I had a choice to make as well.

The best looking guy or gal without the confidence to be true to their desires or attractions quickly loses any attraction for me.

 

[sassylilthang]

Hi JP

Most people are just dumb.....maybe not intellignece wise, but from a standpoint of common sense I guess? ANd they are judgemental. I will add a new twist to this whole scenario....I am a nurse. Many people...cause it is not just men who have thought this...that because I am a nurse, with large breasts, and blonde, and a great sense of humor and smile...that I am one of two things. Dumb or a total easy slut. I try not to perpetrate those myths, but it is still hurtful when people automatically assume that. It took me a long time to see that it was there judgments and misunderstanding of life, people, etc that got them to believe what they think is true. Does that make sense? I am j ust rambling here....thanks for listening! And take care hon!

 

[jpashion4u]

I am a nurse, with large breasts, and blonde, and a great sense of humor and smile ...

Well, I like all of that description so far. Let me tell you about my shallow thinking a little bit. I like a smile in the voice and a sense of humor. I am attracted to those things at first, and I am also attracted to people who use good grammar when they speak, and a bit slow to warm up to someone who is not as academically educated as I am. I think people make the mistake of thinking that because someone has a disability that he is somehow innocent or that he has to be taken care of.

 

[mlady_france]

wow mlady...you have enticed me to check out your pic postings.....very sexy indeed

Hey there Ohio.....thanks for stopping by! I love your pics too btw! Ahhh....if we were in Oz...I would be the lion....no courage, but glad to see that you are one lady that has it!

It was a long time comming. This is the first time in my life I have felt beautiful. And trust me, a pic or two, and you will feel the love of BBW's from all the guys here.

 

[sassylilthang]

Good for you and wtg on buying the lingerie today

And I have been there as well. Watching that struggle and actually reaching the point where I had to just laugh. I found myself sitting back and watching them watching everyone else and realized at that point that I no longer found them attractive. And I had been so caught up in being glad someone was with me, I forgot that I had a choice to make as well.

The best looking guy or gal without the confidence to be true to their desires or attractions quickly loses any attraction for me.

Thanks for the encouragement!!!!! I kno w what you mean.....there was a part of me that was so disgusted with these men. I was still attracted to the man I knew before all the BS, but the man I met after the Bs started....not so much! I have been caught up too, where it was more important that I had someone then the quality of the relationship, or if it was what I really wanted.

 

[sassylilthang]

It was a long time comming. This is the first time in my life I have felt beautiful. And trust me, a pic or two, and you will feel the love of BBW's from all the guys here.

If I had a digicam or just a cam, I would do it....but so far no dice. I think about it....would be interesting for sure! I am so glad that it has been a good experience for you!

 

[sassylilthang]

I am a nurse, with large breasts, and blonde, and a great sense of humor and smile ...

Well, I like all of that description so far. Let me tell you about my shallow thinking a little bit. I like a smile in the voice and a sense of humor. I am attracted to those things at first, and I am also attracted to people who use good grammar when they speak, and a bit slow to warm up to someone who is not as academically educated as I am. I think people make the mistake of thinking that because someone has a disability that he is somehow innocent or that he has to be taken care of.

Hey agian JP...I used to work with wheelchair bound individuals. I know where you are coming from. Not just because I saw the outside world do it, but because I saw coworkers do thae same. We were way too overprotective of them, and would occasionally forget they had a voice of there own, and degrees, and had married and raised families.

 

[jpashion4u]

We were way too overprotective of them, and would occasionally forget they had a voice of there own, and degrees, and had married and raised families.

Sassy, I can't help asking: If you saw me and my Seeing Eye dog walking around, what, if anything, would cross your mind, assuming we struck up a conversation, would you think, if you somehow got the idea that I might be attracted to you?

 

[deepstar7]

Good morning sexy bbw's. I hope the day goes well for you all and that you find what you are looking for and enjoy yourself fully.

 

[Tyrus]

Hello to all

I just wanted to say that i admire each and every one of you for posting. I for one am attracted to bbw. I would love to chat and become friends with any who wants or needs a shoulder to lean on.


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