Calling all BBW's

sassylilthang said:
I like the last line of your post! I had a gf who lost almost 200#'s, and could not understand why she was sooo depressed after she lost all th e weight. I t hink it dawned on her that beign skinny is not a cure all, it does not automatically make you happy. She worked on her and now is very happy, and is still thin. I give both of you ladies a pat on the back for doing what you needed to do to be true to yourselves.

That’s the thing u can b underweight over weight perfect weight whatever if ur not happy with who u are u will find fault somewhere and obsess over it till u “fix” it.
Even then u still find a new fault until u say NOOOOOOO I love me and everything about me u like it or not I am fine with me and that’s all that matters!
Then the things u didn’t like u find are what made u u and they are part of ur quirks or assets!
 
sassylilthang said:
SO today I go shopping, which I love to do, but sometimes is hard. :( But, for me shopping is one of tho se things where I say "you can't wear that", and alot of the time, it is not stuff that would look bad. I am 28 and till this year would not have considered wearing a tank top in public. I have started to, and it is getting easier. I remembered that today, and had a ton of fun shopping. It was so much more enjoyable to loook at everythign and say"I wonder if that would look better then I think?" I tried on lots and bought little. Some of it truly did not look good, but oh well, at least I tried. And, for the first time in a long time I bought sexy underwear and sexy matching bras, and a really nice peice of leingerie.....and told myself that when it comes to wearing them in front of a man I will not chicken o ut....lol. It felt great, adn I still have a huge smile on my face! Hope all are well and good!


i will post a link here for a us plus size store (ships world wide)
the good thing about this store is its for 1x-8x and all of it sexy daring stuff!
another good thing most of the models wearing it are plus size (not mainstream idea of plus size) so u will get a much better idea of how a bigger woman looks in the clothes.
it is a us store so for us uk ppl remember ur a size smaller in us sizing (or e-mail the site and ask for sizing help)
http://www.biggalslingerie.com

ps it has some LOVELY costumes great for the bedroom :D hehehe
 
jpashion4u said:
Hi,
I gotta tell you all something and ask how you feel about it. I am a man who happens to be blind. I like BBWs. When I am in public with someone, I can just feel the people thinking "Does he know she's fat?" or "She can't get anyone else so she's going for this blind guy." I don't know whether to laugh or get sick. I mean can we get past the skin already? Don't get me wrong. I have my shallownesses too, but at times, I am thankful that I am forced to take a look at the personality quickly. I also have a lot of things I'd like to do sexually that I am hoping to get done some time and hay, what's wrong with a little more mass. I happen to think that I relate to BBWs well because there is a certain amount of abuse we both have gone through and we are looking for someone to understand us for who we are. :D


thats how shallow some ppl are they are not worth ur time really.
u can always say i may b blind in sight but i am far from blind in mind!
 
BBWs

Hey Ladies,

I don't mean to butt in on your exchanges. (Pun intended.) I just want to let you know that there are plenty of us men who truly love the larger women. We get excited at the sight of your ultrafeminine curves, we love the way you feel against us (and all over us!) and I think most of us would agree that, as a rule, women who are comfortable with themselves are much more wild, daring and adventurous lovers in bed. In my 32 years, I've had some amazing experiences with all kinds of women, but I think most men my age agree that, when it comes down to it, we'll take a so-called overweight woman who's genuinely uninhibited and happy with her size over some uptight, conventionally "good-looking" stress case who's down on herself and miserable all the time. If a man is happy and comfortable with himself, he has no time for those kinds of women, regardless of their size.

Sure, we all have our specific details that turn us on. (In my case, the bigger and curvier the better.) But in the end, a happy heart trumps a pain in the ass every time. Remember, large or small, it's not about poundage, or size, or whatever... It's about the way you carry yourself. A confident, carefree woman is always the sexiest woman in the room.
 
Thank you for such a kind reply quirky. We need more men out there like you honey!!!! :kiss: :kiss:
 
quirkyisdirty said:
Hey Ladies,

I don't mean to butt in on your exchanges. (Pun intended.) I just want to let you know that there are plenty of us men who truly love the larger women. We get excited at the sight of your ultrafeminine curves, we love the way you feel against us (and all over us!) and I think most of us would agree that, as a rule, women who are comfortable with themselves are much more wild, daring and adventurous lovers in bed. In my 32 years, I've had some amazing experiences with all kinds of women, but I think most men my age agree that, when it comes down to it, we'll take a so-called overweight woman who's genuinely uninhibited and happy with her size over some uptight, conventionally "good-looking" stress case who's down on herself and miserable all the time. If a man is happy and comfortable with himself, he has no time for those kinds of women, regardless of their size.

Sure, we all have our specific details that turn us on. (In my case, the bigger and curvier the better.) But in the end, a happy heart trumps a pain in the ass every time. Remember, large or small, it's not about poundage, or size, or whatever... It's about the way you carry yourself. A confident, carefree woman is always the sexiest woman in the room.

Well put!! I used to laugh when my best friend and i would talk about bedroom stuff. She's 5 years younger, blonde, blue eyed, thin, great boobs, great ass....but she wont have sex with the lights on because her body bothers her....and then theres me...older, not blonde, not blue eyed, twice her weight and nothing seems to really stay where got meant to put it..and i don't have sex with the lights off!! You'd just think it would be the other way around..hehehe...but i'm alot more adventurous than she is..and i figure if we've gotten to that point, he's not gonna turn tail and run when he sees me with the lights on!
 
Well if u have the lights off u can’t see reactions to action!
Much more fun seeing reactions to what ur doing than just hearing them!
I see it this way the guy (or girl) with u knows what ur size is ur not gonna get undressed and go surprise I was wearing a fat suite!
So they know already ur not skinny why hide what u got show it off watch how ur body sends them wild it’s one of the best things about touching and teasing someone!
 
Kitz

kitz said:
i will post a link here for a us plus size store (ships world wide)
the good thing about this store is its for 1x-8x and all of it sexy daring stuff!
another good thing most of the models wearing it are plus size (not mainstream idea of plus size) so u will get a much better idea of how a bigger woman looks in the clothes.
it is a us store so for us uk ppl remember ur a size smaller in us sizing (or e-mail the site and ask for sizing help)
http://www.biggalslingerie.com

ps it has some LOVELY costumes great for the bedroom :D hehehe

Thanks hon....I will check it out for sure. So happy I got the stuff I did...put it on for a gentlemen on sunday and he whole heartedly approved of my purchases!!!!! It was a huge boost to the old self esteem. I think I may finally enjoy buying leingerie!
 
mwah

quirkyisdirty said:
Hey Ladies,

I don't mean to butt in on your exchanges. (Pun intended.) I just want to let you know that there are plenty of us men who truly love the larger women. We get excited at the sight of your ultrafeminine curves, we love the way you feel against us (and all over us!) and I think most of us would agree that, as a rule, women who are comfortable with themselves are much more wild, daring and adventurous lovers in bed. In my 32 years, I've had some amazing experiences with all kinds of women, but I think most men my age agree that, when it comes down to it, we'll take a so-called overweight woman who's genuinely uninhibited and happy with her size over some uptight, conventionally "good-looking" stress case who's down on herself and miserable all the time. If a man is happy and comfortable with himself, he has no time for those kinds of women, regardless of their size.

Sure, we all have our specific details that turn us on. (In my case, the bigger and curvier the better.) But in the end, a happy heart trumps a pain in the ass every time. Remember, large or small, it's not about poundage, or size, or whatever... It's about the way you carry yourself. A confident, carefree woman is always the sexiest woman in the room.

Big kiss for you hon!
 
Ashleey said:
Well put!! I used to laugh when my best friend and i would talk about bedroom stuff. She's 5 years younger, blonde, blue eyed, thin, great boobs, great ass....but she wont have sex with the lights on because her body bothers her....and then theres me...older, not blonde, not blue eyed, twice her weight and nothing seems to really stay where got meant to put it..and i don't have sex with the lights off!! You'd just think it would be the other way around..hehehe...but i'm alot more adventurous than she is..and i figure if we've gotten to that point, he's not gonna turn tail and run when he sees me with the lights on!

I do not know why I never thought of it that way......wow. I always thought when I took off my shirt and he saw my belly, that was it. I mean you can see the boobs and the butt in my clothes,.....no hiding those things. ;) I usually have sex with the lights on too....which is funny considering my usual hang ups. I do not k now what it is....get me in bed, and I just loose all inhibition.....I must be a little c@#k crazy? Oh wait....I know I am. Thanks for a great post hon!
 
sassylilthang said:
I do not know why I never thought of it that way......wow. I always thought when I took off my shirt and he saw my belly, that was it. I mean you can see the boobs and the butt in my clothes,.....no hiding those things. ;) I usually have sex with the lights on too....which is funny considering my usual hang ups. I do not k now what it is....get me in bed, and I just loose all inhibition.....I must be a little c@#k crazy? Oh wait....I know I am. Thanks for a great post hon!


Thats exactly it......i have alot of hang ups in other areas..just not sex!!
 
it's been a while since I've checked in here... I intro'd myself and noone noticed, so thought maybe I'd try again ;)

it's great to see so many wonderful ladies coming together.. supportive, great attitudes, helping each other... let's keep this thread going ladies. :rose:
 
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quirkyisdirty said:
Hey Ladies,

I don't mean to butt in on your exchanges. (Pun intended.) I just want to let you know that there are plenty of us men who truly love the larger women. We get excited at the sight of your ultrafeminine curves, we love the way you feel against us (and all over us!) and I think most of us would agree that, as a rule, women who are comfortable with themselves are much more wild, daring and adventurous lovers in bed. In my 32 years, I've had some amazing experiences with all kinds of women, but I think most men my age agree that, when it comes down to it, we'll take a so-called overweight woman who's genuinely uninhibited and happy with her size over some uptight, conventionally "good-looking" stress case who's down on herself and miserable all the time. If a man is happy and comfortable with himself, he has no time for those kinds of women, regardless of their size.

Sure, we all have our specific details that turn us on. (In my case, the bigger and curvier the better.) But in the end, a happy heart trumps a pain in the ass every time. Remember, large or small, it's not about poundage, or size, or whatever... It's about the way you carry yourself. A confident, carefree woman is always the sexiest woman in the room.

aside from the fact that noone is carefree... ;)... great post! Too bad more men don't think like you do
 
Epona's Chylde said:
Good Evening Ladies :)

At 200lbs, 5ft3, and being a size 14, I now have FAR more dates than I ever had as a size 5 (and now I'm not starving anymore!)

Kisses to all you men who don't judge us on our size! You should drop by the GB and put your input in on a couple of the threads going on over there!

BIG BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING IT

hey wait! you're 5'3, 200 lbs and wear a 14??? dayummmm... :eek:

I'm 5'4, 210 lbs and wear a 22/24... how'd you do that?? :(
 
kitz said:
i will post a link here for a us plus size store (ships world wide)
the good thing about this store is its for 1x-8x and all of it sexy daring stuff!
another good thing most of the models wearing it are plus size (not mainstream idea of plus size) so u will get a much better idea of how a bigger woman looks in the clothes.
it is a us store so for us uk ppl remember ur a size smaller in us sizing (or e-mail the site and ask for sizing help)
http://www.biggalslingerie.com

ps it has some LOVELY costumes great for the bedroom :D hehehe


THANK YOU Kitz for the link... stuff like this is damn hard to find... ;)
 
sassylilthang said:
Ladies, I have seen a few posts that the boys who love us have started. But, I wanted to get us all together for a chat! lol...so drop in say hi! I think we are each others strongest support system. I have noticed wiht pride some have lots of attitude and confidence....I am hoping you will take those like me under your wing and give those of us lacking some guidance and a boost in our morale! Take care ladies....keep doing what you do girls!

Sassy... just a reminder that one day soon, you're going to find this thread in the Playground, lol. Any thread in the personals that gets alot of chatting gets moved to the Playground sooner or later. We have 3 other bbw threads in the pg that started out over here....just wanted to let you know.

Anyway, I'm happy to be in this thread from the groundfloor (almost) up... I love getting to know my bbw sisters! :rose:
 
bethyj32 said:
MEN adore plus size women. I've learned this lately. WOW.....
WHERE do you find these men?? lol... oh I know plenty of men who will bed a bbw... no mistaking that. But the same men wouldn't be seen on the street with a bbw on their arm, or invite a large woman to a party or a group of their friends.


I went out and bought myself a lot of new stuff. But you know what really makes me feel sexy? Sexy new undergarmets. Bras,panties, tight lacing corsets...........Corests being my favorite. I'm training my waiste down. And I sure love the hour glass figure it gives me. Feel like a starlett in it. They're awesome under a dress, or over jeans! Maybe with an oversized mens shirt?
I wish I had the $ to buy new things... I just don't, being newly divorced...
 
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stonermanwhore said:
hey i loooooovvvveee bbw's and if there is any in the 909 that need too get laid pm me to hook up

p.s. can u bbw's start posting some nudes ?


grrrrrrrrrrrrr......lol
 
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kitz said:
i will post a link here for a us plus size store (ships world wide)
the good thing about this store is its for 1x-8x and all of it sexy daring stuff!
another good thing most of the models wearing it are plus size (not mainstream idea of plus size) so u will get a much better idea of how a bigger woman looks in the clothes.
it is a us store so for us uk ppl remember ur a size smaller in us sizing (or e-mail the site and ask for sizing help)
http://www.biggalslingerie.com

ps it has some LOVELY costumes great for the bedroom :D hehehe


I found that site a couple weeks ago and some of those models are gorgeous!
 
Nice Picture

All that fine meat in a small pachage ;)

Epona's Chylde said:
Good Evening Ladies :)

At 200lbs, 5ft3, and being a size 14, I now have FAR more dates than I ever had as a size 5 (and now I'm not starving anymore!)

Kisses to all you men who don't judge us on our size! You should drop by the GB and put your input in on a couple of the threads going on over there!

BIG BEAUTIFUL AND LOVING IT

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v653/whitemagegoddess/JessicainBlack3.jpg
 
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